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Posted: 3/16/2005 8:41:04 AM | | of course we know what f**k buddies are and what that type of relationship is all about, some women get more attached to their "buddies" more so than others. But really there are women out there that just want a "no strings attached, only sex" type of relationship. and there are some women out there that only have time for that sort of relationship. I've been in that type of relationship before and for me it was the opposite, the guys always ended up wanting more than just sex. . .so it goes both ways (as do a lot of situations that are brought up on this site) | |
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Posted: 3/16/2005 8:50:24 AM | | Well where can I find a woman like that ? Cuz Im in the same boat as NY2michael ! | |
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Posted: 3/16/2005 8:56:31 AM | | idk where you find them, guess you just need to get out there and start meeting ppl, i think sometimes its hard for us to admit that we actually want that sort of relationship (guys tend to get the impression that we are sluts when we are honest and blunt about wanting a f**k buddy relationship) oh yeah, college girls (or the ones i've met) are usually up for some "buddies" hope this helps | |
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Posted: 3/16/2005 9:04:55 AM | I had the perfect F**k buddy. Unfortunately it was all the way back in 1988.
We worked together and I lived just a mile from work. So her first stop many mornings was to my apartment.
It worked like this... I would wake up my usual time, get up, use the bathroom, go unlock the door and get back in bed. She would come in, get undressed, get in bed with me and spend 20-30mn. having sex and then we would both get dressed and off to work.
It ended when she got married to the guy she was engaged to all along.
You see, she claimed to be a virgin, and either she was telling the truth or she was a tremendous actress, right down to the crying from being scared. And the kicker is she claims she was doing it all for "him". So she could be experienced enough to keep him happy in the bedroom....
So any young ladies looking for a teacher?????? I"m available :) | |
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Posted: 3/16/2005 9:12:38 AM | | Hey shyness.....Are you available? I've been a nice guy too long....All the rest of guys I have ever known get laid all the time. | |
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Posted: 3/16/2005 10:00:23 AM | Not all women can handle it. Some think they can, but then after the 1st Boink, they suddenly just want more(happened to a friend of mine) IT took awhile for her to get over that.
As long as both parties know what the deal is I think it can work FANTASTIC...ya get to have great sex(cause no need to have a so-so FWP) and then you get to go home to your own life and rules!! Espically if ya 2 are really friends...then ya can hang out and BOINK...Best of both worlds...WITHOUT someone trying to run your life, or anything... | |
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Posted: 3/16/2005 10:17:35 AM | | I think F**K buddies are great to have when ur not involved in a relationship...I personally am able to handle it but i agree with spankie. | |
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Posted: 3/16/2005 10:33:37 AM | | Men can become drama kings themselves.....I have had that happen with F$CK buddies! | |
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Posted: 3/16/2005 10:42:58 AM | yes we understand what a f*ck buddy means...
but to somes defence...if you want a **** buddy with no strings attached...then dont take her out to dinner, dont buy flowers, dont do all the things that you would for a gf. meet only for f*cking. not for anythign else.
and i agree with spankie..i had one of these....he wanted to call it bed buddies but wanted to go out n do things outside of the bed. then didnt understand when i started to like someone and wanted a relationship with that someone else. he wanted a relationship with me n couldnt grasp that a bed buddy didnt mean a go out n date relationship.
so my advise is....talk about it before hand. if you two agree to Just f*ck buddies then also agree that if feelings get started to talk right away. not to wait till one had fallen for the other. | |
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Posted: 3/16/2005 12:25:35 PM | great sex with no attachement emotionally?
um...????
*raises hand*
How is that possible? | |
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Posted: 3/16/2005 1:05:52 PM | | its quite simple actually, you just have to have two ppl that really don't want anything but hot, wild sex, or any kind of sex for that matter those two ppl get together every so often and do it like animals and that's it, no dating, or going out. . .unless the going out is to do it in public, but other than for sex the two ppl don't really have any other contact with each other. I have heard of ppl being friends and doing the f**k buddy thing, but I always hear it ends badly. no, I'm not available for this type of relationship, I have a few of my own "buddies" if I need them, but I usually just opt for taking care of myself | |
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Posted: 3/16/2005 1:19:01 PM | hhmm
I "DO" have those girls that, whenever we're drunk or even AT the same club at the same time; we somehow end up ****ing like wildcats afterwards...always.....without fail.
hhmm
Maybe I HAVE had **** buddies.
I havnt seen them out too much lately though, SO, I havnt went out ot those clubs much either.
I hate getting old.
um..with those girls though, it isnt planned, there was no time when we said "you and I are going to be fawk buddiesz k?"...
we just get drawn to each other at thses parties or clubs..
it just happens, | |
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Posted: 3/16/2005 1:25:08 PM | **** buddies are **** buddies, you don't call them its just like when ever you see them at the bar you automatically know you are getting some that night.
or you can call them...but then that's when everything gets a little bit trickier. never had one of these kind cuz they all turned into relationships with me *puts head between legs and shouts, "why me"* | |
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Posted: 3/16/2005 4:56:55 PM | | I have a FB who is also my friend. He calls me once or twice a week... we do things (movies, dinner, etc) and then sometimes we have sex. Sometimes we don't. Either way no big deal, and no pressure. It's just when one of us feels the need, otherwise we hang out anyhow. It works. I don't want more... as a matter of fact I date other guys, and if I got serious, then the ****ing would stop. Or visa-versa. Otherwise, it's all good. | |
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Posted: 3/16/2005 7:17:32 PM | rules....no rules
just 2 people that can be honest with each other...
and 2 people that arent looking for more than just great friend that you have AWSOME sex with...not everyone can handle that...thats 4 sure | |
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Posted: 3/16/2005 7:19:00 PM | [quote]"We had sex days before she got married. She now lives somewhere in Italy. That one did work"[/quote]
^^^^^...may have worked out for you but not that other poor bastard
Ummm...that's just wrong
Cheating sux | |
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Posted: 3/16/2005 9:29:16 PM | Yes women understand exactly what a fbud is. Have insisted on it myself. They can be the best of friends; like to talk about their other partners (like you're their male friend) or their day (like you're their wife). But all in all, they make pretty good friends.
There are times in your life, or a guys life, when you don't have time for a full romance. Due to work or raising children, or whatever. Been there, done that, no regrets. | |
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Posted: 3/17/2005 6:37:47 AM | | I think, when one gets down to it, that **** buddies are just two people who prioritize great sex as a primary factor in their lives. I personally, put it way up there on the scale as well, and appreciate the role it plays. **** buddy is a great way to rationalize great sex. We tend to wish to disguise the major role it plays by couching it in terms like FB. | |
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Posted: 3/17/2005 6:42:59 AM | | This goes for both sexes.I've had fbuds and it was great.There are women that want the feelings and committments,there are guys that want it too.You just need to be clear on your intentions going into it.The key is honesty and being up front and straght up,something lots of people of both sexes have trouble with. | |
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