| Women what do they want from a guy
Posted: 9/13/2006 6:14:59 PM | | you tell me one decent thing that an average guy like me does wrong when it comes to gettting involed in a long term relationship i treat them like gold buy them what ever they want please them but i still wnd up losing them you tell me that | |
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| Women what do they want from a guy
Posted: 9/13/2006 6:58:32 PM | | You say all these things that you give the woman,but do you give her what's in your heat?without giving what's in your heart,everything else is irrelevant. | |
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| Women what do they want from a guy
Posted: 9/13/2006 7:00:14 PM | LISTEN I WANT A MAN WHO RESPECTS ME AND MY KIDS. A MAN WHO CAN SATISFY ME IN AND OUT OF BED. THAT WORKS THAT DOES NOT CHEAT THATLOVES ME FOR ME
THESE THING ARE INPOSSIBLE. I HAVE ONLY DATED BLK MEN FOR ABOUT 12 YEARS AND THINK I NEED TO CHANGE UP BUT I HAVENT FOUND ANOTHER THAT I HAVE VIBED WITH.
SO THIS IS WHAT I WANT AND CANT FIND!
SO IT AINT YOU. BAD MEN MAKE GOOD GIRLS GO BAD AND B*TCHES THAT USE MEN MAKE GOOD MEN GO WRONG! GO FIGURE BUT I AM DETERMINED AND DONT GIVE UP THERE IS TRUE LOVE OU THERE SOMEWHERE | |
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| Women what do they want from a guy
Posted: 9/13/2006 7:35:50 PM | | well you know what i deffently was pleasing them in and out of bed i'm just saying what the hell is up with that i mean cant the women realize that they shouldnt pass up a good thing when they see it. it just blows my mind. what happened to the women that just wanted to be happy and be happy with what you feel in love with to begin with! | |
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| Women what do they want from a guy
Posted: 9/13/2006 9:13:19 PM | You need to start thinking about pleasing yourself , not just them
you sound like a pushover
you wont have a relationship thats any good if you ignore your own needs
you need to look for someone who wants to please you as well | |
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| Women what do they want from a guy
Posted: 9/14/2006 9:11:54 AM | | We women want a man who treats us with respect. Who likes to get out and have fun. We want a gentleman, A man who is kind a generous, But also not a whimp, BUT a MAN, Who is strong and self assured. Someone who is not looking for a Mommy, but a real WOMAN who knows who she is and knows what she wants from life. A man who has the self confidance to let her be herself and not feel degenerated by it. That is what we Women are looking for. | |
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| funny stuff
Posted: 9/14/2006 11:28:06 AM | | Ok, after we do all that. What exactly do we get from women??? I'm mean besides aggravation!! I haven't met a woman who knows who she is now!! They think they do. But, most of it is smoke and mirrors. And really, are you ever truly satisfied? Let me answer that, NO!! I figure with any good relationship you have about 6 months before the sh###t hits the fan. Thats when SHE feels the relationship has to go to the next level. Oh BOY!!! the next level...................lets ot even get into that, LOL!!!! | |
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Posted: 9/14/2006 6:27:56 PM | | Women also need a man who is open and honest. We're the same as you...we can't read minds either. Hard to keep a relationship going if you can't communicate. Yea...yea...I know men are from MARS and women are from VENUS...just where can I sign up for Martian lessons??? | |
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Posted: 9/15/2006 4:57:35 AM | | many men have a problem with being open. Thats the nature of the beast, I guess Martians are wired that way. Besides men don't feel the same emotions on the same level as women. What women feel are important, men have no clue what your talking about. And what men feel are important you brush off as if it doesn't matter. Sometimes I'm shocked this whole boy/girl thing works at all. Maybe it was designed that way for a reason.........ya got me, Ask Dr. Phil........LOL!!!!! | |
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| Women what do they want from a guy
Posted: 9/15/2006 5:43:00 AM | | Actually,I think it's even simpler than that. Woen want what most men want.? To be treated with respect, have someone who cares about them and loves them and is a companion. Isn't that what most people {both sexes} want? | |
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| true to a point...
Posted: 9/15/2006 5:55:06 AM | | true, in the beginning maybe, but as the relationship moves along, women never seem satisfied with the status-quo and continually badger to get what THEY feel is the way the relationship must continue. This of course creates tension and tension creates "adios". Men like to have a tension free fun relationship. If then something good develops then so be it. We usually have about 6 months before the stuff starts flying, especially with women in their 40's where they feel (which is ridiculous) they're time is running out. Sometimes I don't get it. Probably never will. | |
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| Women what do they want from a guy
Posted: 9/15/2006 7:14:02 AM | | Hi Cutie-Love your screen name by the way-I think some women just like the bad guy-You know the kind with an edge, they find it exciting. It could also be that you are dating women that have not evolved yet, game playing is for kids, not for a mature women. You are a Cutie so hang in and it will happen for you. Classy | |
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| true to a point...
Posted: 9/15/2006 7:21:02 AM | | Tenx-That is why people need to know who they are and what they want before entering into a relationship. Don't sweat the small stuff ladies, seat up or down, tooth paste on the mirror, socks on the floor, back to back football games on the weekends, golf on Sundays,and so on. We all have stuff that drives each other crazy, don't we ? The male and female brain will never work the same, if you embrace that you can understand all the why questions-Any thought on that Tenx ??? Classy | |
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| Women what do they want from a guy
Posted: 9/15/2006 7:23:13 AM | | elpcmdlw-RESPECT-find out what it means to me-I think that's how the song goes-Anyway I think you got it, everyone stand up and give a cheer. Classy | |
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| NAAHH!! Don't think so...
Posted: 9/15/2006 8:04:48 AM | | It isn't about the stuff that drives you crazy, It's about expectations. Men are expected to be 6' tall and handsome and have money. Women? as far as I know are they're expected to look good, period. Thats the fantasy, princes riding in to save their princess. I don't how many times I've read profiles where the lady says, she wants to be treated like a princess. Women today are very independent and have their own money. This is a very open society. Women can have sex anytime they want. They just sit back, wait for Prince Charming and complain when he doesn't show up. I don't know many women have complained to me that I'm only? 5' 7". Meanwhile they were like 5'1" overweight, with 4 kids and crummy job. Expectations, Classy thats were the brain is at. Not reality... | |
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| Classy...
Posted: 9/15/2006 8:09:59 AM | | we've both been around the block a few times, I'm sure. And, so far, you're about the most level headed (female) on here. I appreciate your comments, keep up the good work.... Whether its age or expierence or a combination of the two, your a nice person for sure.. | |
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| Women what do they want from a guy
Posted: 9/15/2006 10:58:03 AM | | hey ok if i'm cute and i do repect women i treat them like a queen mabie your right i'm just not getten mature ones well crap where are the mature ones then becase i'm really sick of being alone i feal like evey day is one less day of being happy and old lol but oh well still havent found that mrs right | |
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| THE BLOCK
Posted: 9/15/2006 3:02:16 PM | | Tenx-I think I've been around the block more times then I can remember, hehe. I really know what your talking about, some ladies expect it all (not sure why) and give nothing in return, that never works does it ? Maybe that's why I see so many "what's it all about" blogs with angry people. I kissed many frogs in my day and only found one prince but still have a positive outlook, maybe I should pick up that rock and look,hey-is that another frog ?? I have a 30 something son and he tells me the same thing about generation X so I guess it's not limited to the BOOMERS. Classy | |
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| Women what do they want from a guy
Posted: 9/15/2006 3:12:40 PM | | Hey Cutie-You can't tell if a lady (not girl) is mature unless you talk to her about her life,what she is interested in, goals, education, family, past relationships (what went on), and so on. To understand a person you need to know who that person is not what they look like. As time goes on the looks fade but the person inside stays the same, good or bad. So, the wrapper is pretty but the box is empty,so to speak. Do you know what your looking for,sometimes it helps to take inventory of yourself, then start in a new direction. Well that's my 2 cents worth on the subject, hope your still awake. Classy | |
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Posted: 9/15/2006 4:49:56 PM | | May I suggest to you one of the SLUT sites to join? Because you seem to truely dislike women... at least on the SLUT site you will never have to concern yourself with the "6 month " thing...gone wrong or GOD forbid... Asking to take it to the next level!! | |
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| funny stuff
Posted: 9/15/2006 4:54:07 PM | | HEY Tenx.....May I suggest to you one of the SLUT sites to join? Because you seem to truely dislike women... at least on the SLUT site you will never have to concern yourself with the "6 month " thing...gone wrong or GOD forbid... Asking to take it to the next level!! | |
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Posted: 9/15/2006 7:29:52 PM | May I first say that I am truly sorry you have yet to find a woman to fufill you. You seem to be a bit bitter. If you choose to get into a relationship then at some point you should be willing to take it to another level or it just gets stale. Nobody is saying to get married but bringing it to a different emotional level is important. Woman want and need 3 things Communication, comprimise and trust without all 3 it's my opinion the relationship will never last. Me personally I need passion and romance as well. If you do have those key ingredients then you are very rich. | |
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| funny stuff
Posted: 9/15/2006 8:23:30 PM | | i'm not bitter and i dont want a slut i want a real woman thats not imature and not all about her you tell me where i can find that and i'll be happy | |
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| thought provoking
Posted: 9/15/2006 9:11:29 PM | | Tenx, not all women have "expectations" You have to take people for what they are. I find that if you truely look, you will find something good in everyone. As we all know...nobody is perfect. Also, not all women are in such a rush to take it to the next level....if the relationship progresses on it's own great...if not, it was not meant to be. I've found if your honest, have integrity, and show respect it goes a long way. of the men I've dated, I've been lucky to have never had a relationship end badly. I've been able to maintain a friendship. Of course I've not been around the block to often yet.. lol (but I still have time). Was married 18 years (and yes we're still friends) and the few other relationships I've had ,ended with us maintaining a friendship. Maybe I'm just lucky....time will tell. Hang in there Tenx...hoping you find what your looking for. | |
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