| uk bbw's and bhm's Posted: 9/16/2006 3:48:07 AM | if you class yourself as a bbw or bhm do you find yourself holding back from approaching someone you're attracted to because of your size?
how many of the uk pofers are attracted to the more ample figure? i've loved bigger ladies ever since i was in school, i don't know why, it's just one of the things i'm attracted to. i know society usually dictates whats sexy and what isnt with its trends and fads, so how many of you are attracted to the ample figure but wouldnt approach someone like that because of society's trends? | |
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| uk bbw's and bhm's Posted: 9/16/2006 3:51:27 AM | I've always been a fan of the more voluptuous woman. If I wanted to make love to something small and boney, I'd use my hand....
What's a BHM? | |
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| uk bbw's and bhm's Posted: 9/16/2006 3:53:21 AM | | I still don't know what BBW stands for....I love small chubby men with black hair and glasses, is that a fetish ? | |
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| uk bbw's and bhm's Posted: 9/16/2006 3:55:48 AM | Its not a fetish,,its called Ronnie Corbett..
EDIT--BBW=Big Beautiful Woman BHM=Big Handsome Male?? | |
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| uk bbw's and bhm's Posted: 9/16/2006 3:58:08 AM |
Im lost here also what is a bbw and bhm??
big beautiful women and big handsome men | |
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| uk bbw's and bhm's Posted: 9/16/2006 3:59:27 AM | | Are there sites devoted to FEWs (fat enormous women)? | |
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| uk bbw's and bhm's Posted: 9/16/2006 4:02:33 AM | | I prefer to feel it going up to the hilt and too much cushioning can take this sensation away...or maybe I just need a pump | |
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| uk bbw's and bhm's Posted: 9/17/2006 10:12:57 AM | | That is totaly a load of rubbish hun.....its not the size of you or the size of the women that makes the as you say (going up the hilt.)....its how you use it with the person you are with...no matter if she is a bbw or not sex is sex | |
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| uk bbw's and bhm's Posted: 9/17/2006 10:16:10 AM | Well I class myself as a BBW...
and you know what......... I dont Giva Flying Fook what people thinks of me!!  | |
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| uk bbw's and bhm's Posted: 9/17/2006 10:19:34 AM | | i think you either connect with someone or you dont..size or anything else would not come into it for me | |
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| uk bbw's and bhm's Posted: 9/17/2006 10:24:15 AM | | Very true size should not come into it....Yes you have to have a conection with the person...Oh for the record a Your a BBW and can join bbws sites if your a size 18 plus....You will find that most bbw ladies tend to stick to bbw sites as they know the men are there really like big sexy ladies ..... | |
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| uk bbw's and bhm's Posted: 9/17/2006 10:25:37 AM | If I really like someone it doesn't really bother me too much either way - As for what other people may think if I was with a larger woman, who are they to tell me what I want or who will make me happy? I will look at the whole package - not just the dress size! and if other people don't like it then don't look, simple! | |
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| uk bbw's and bhm's Posted: 9/17/2006 10:26:30 AM | | I haven't found any 100% free bbw sites, although I haven't really looked, I was a member of largerladies, but I couldn't reply to messages without being a paid up member. | |
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| uk bbw's and bhm's Posted: 9/17/2006 10:30:08 AM | | You wont find any 100% free kez the reason why is very simple bbw dating is classed as a niche dating ....I do agree that some site go over the top in charging both parties for reading and sending mails ..i also keep away from them ..but if you want to know some really good one then drop me a line and ill mail them to you.... | |
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| uk bbw's and bhm's Posted: 9/17/2006 10:36:18 AM | | getting back to the original question lol no..size or shape would never stop me approaching somebody either way | |
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| uk bbw's and bhm's Posted: 9/17/2006 10:42:50 AM | | Well ive been on this site now for about 6mths....And so far all ive had is the men who think bigger women have more to offer in bed than slimmer ladies...which is absolutley ridicules...lol...So from what i can see so far not many guys on here that actualy go for big women ...Or its my pic that is putting them off....lol.. | |
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| uk bbw's and bhm's Posted: 9/17/2006 11:16:08 AM | | erm....I wont be messaging any BBW's anytime soon... | |
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| uk bbw's and bhm's Posted: 9/17/2006 11:23:40 AM | ^^^ sure they will be gutted hehehe
well the average size of the UK woman is a 16.....
that means i am average  | |
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| uk bbw's and bhm's Posted: 9/17/2006 11:25:02 AM | | Size 16 is average?? Jeez, i was talking earlier about voluptuous, not dobber.. | |
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| uk bbw's and bhm's Posted: 9/17/2006 11:26:24 AM | Dobber???
again, im sure there will be lots of women size 16 and over crying and sobbing that they dont make your grade vin  | |
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| uk bbw's and bhm's Posted: 9/17/2006 11:26:42 AM | | lucky I aint ever gonna settle for average then eh? | |
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| uk bbw's and bhm's Posted: 9/17/2006 11:28:48 AM | Lucky for me i dont either....
Just remember, just because women who are a 14 or larger have a larger figure, doesnt mean that we will settle for anything or anyone....
we have taste and standards too you know...
i have never dated an ugly man... have dated a few tossers though...
who needs sizest folks when we have the ever increasingly gorgeous Techno 
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Kez, i'll arrange with Techno to get his DNA... hmm now how can i do that???
hahahaha xxx | |
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| uk bbw's and bhm's Posted: 9/17/2006 11:30:27 AM | ^^^^^^^^ What we need to do is clone him so there will be plenty Technos out there for all of us BBWs  | |
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| uk bbw's and bhm's Posted: 9/17/2006 11:31:13 AM | I don't class myself as BBW. And my size would never prevent me from approaching somebody I'm attracted to. It's my shyness that prevents me, which could mean that if I've approached you I'm not attracted to you
As a general rule of thumb I am not attracted to thin men. But then I'm not attracted to grossly overweight men either. | |
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| uk bbw's and bhm's Posted: 9/17/2006 11:31:15 AM | MSG 21 Once again you fail to understand one of my posts.
If size 16 is average, that means that there are a lot of women out there who are 18, 20 ,and beyond. I like fleshy voluptuous women, and always have done, but I do not consider these sizes to be voluptuous.
I suspect that there are many women on the site who are pleased that I will not be making their acquaintance....irrespective of their shape, | |
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