| Kissing and telling?
Posted: 9/17/2006 9:51:05 PM | | How many of us here talk about our ex's ? and to who ? What do guys tell their friends about their ex's naked body and what she was like in bed? If you had a one night stand with someone would you tell people that she was into one nighters? what is being said and what isnt ??? | |
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| Kissing and telling?
Posted: 9/17/2006 9:53:54 PM | | I always tell new people I meet about past relationships. Not to the point of annoying them, but I want them to know about my past. | |
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| Kissing and telling?
Posted: 9/17/2006 9:54:00 PM | I never kiss and tell....EVER!
And I tend to ignore anyone who does. | |
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| Kissing and telling?
Posted: 9/18/2006 3:18:33 AM | if i kissed and told...now that would all depend on,how much money is being offered. | |
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| Kissing and telling?
Posted: 9/18/2006 4:43:45 AM | No one should be talking about their past relationships with someone new. If the ex was better at something, it will only make the new person feel inadequate. Or make them feel like they have to compete.
Unless they ask about something specific. Then you can answer but keep it minimal. Answer the question but don't go into great detail.
Bringing up an ex in a funny story is ok but maybe you should refer to them as an old friend or their first name, not an ex.
No one wants to hear "don't do that, my ex did that all the time and I hated it!!"
Most people look for the same traits in all their dating partners, so you have to expect some of the same quirks.
Kissing and telling isn't very classy when it comes to private matters with your ex's. Now with one night stands, its a bit different. If you allow yourself to be easy, you have to expect the people you pick up to talk about you to their friends.
The younger ones are probably the most likely to tell everyone about their conquests and in great detail. Its an ego thing for them. As you grow up, that doesn't happen as much. | |
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| Kissing and telling?
Posted: 9/18/2006 5:33:53 AM | | Never talk bad of the one you are sleeping with, because no matter what you say your still with them. No harm talking about past relationships, if you do it in a nonharming way to them. maybe not tell names. | |
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| Kissing and telling?
Posted: 11/7/2009 3:06:17 AM | | When I was very young, I used to talk about specifics of my intimate relationships, with close girl friends. Nowadays, I don't. It's all private. I feel if I want my privacy respected, I need to respect the privacy of others. Also, I really have no desire anymore to share the details of an intimate relationship with someone outside that relationship. There was one woman I met online, here on POF, who wanted/liked to 'talk' about/share specific details of her intimate experiences with men. In truth, I found this repellent. I might make a comment about something/someone that happened many years in the past, someone the person I'm speaking to will have never met or known in any way, but that would be a general comment about life experiences, not sharing details. | |
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| Kissing and telling?
Posted: 11/7/2009 3:27:07 AM | So, this isn't the thread where I brag about the wonderful fun I had tonight?  | |
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| Kissing and telling?
Posted: 11/7/2009 4:06:38 AM |
Nowadays, I don't. It's all private. I feel if I want my privacy respected, I need to respect the privacy of others.
Good philosophy to follow. | |
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