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Posted: 3/17/2005 2:10:57 PM | hey all
if ur a girl and ur fliriting with a guy and it isnt ne thing too provacative. What would be ur idea of that person? WOuld u expect ( guys) to be able to sleep with her right away? and girls what would u think when teh guy tells u he wants to bring toys on the date cause ur sexy and he needs to get laid for takign u out to dinner and a movie ! I know his ass can stay in toronto if that is what he was thinking and I blocked him on my msn what would u do ?I mean I thought that men our age was more mature than that give me ur opinions guys
Look forward to hearing from u
caio
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Posted: 3/17/2005 3:27:36 PM | BLOCK!
BURN ALL NUMBERS AND CONTACT INFORMATION....
... and move on.
You're better than that, and worth way more than that! 
Just my 50 cents' worth
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Posted: 3/17/2005 3:33:44 PM | I agree with FallsGirl BUT sometimes people "need" to get physical.If its been awhile for you and you're craving something physical go for it. Your both adults (I hope) so its a non issue if its something you both want.
DON"T get pressured into anything.Also don't think you can change him into a good guy during dinner.He's made it clear what he wants and as slimy as it is atleast you were told straight up.Take it for what its worth...sex !
Would I do it? No.....but its all your opinion that matters | |
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Posted: 3/17/2005 3:42:06 PM | Flirtings fun. Both sexes like it. Yes it can get provacative, but thats not a signal to expect anything to happen right away. If you said come on down and I'll jump your bones, now thats a clear signal without any ambiguity.
I think you got hooked by a troll. a pimply faced kid that was trying out his limited command of the english language.
I can almost guarantee most of the guys that have posted on the forums would never have said an insesitive comment like that. But then again there's always one who'll spoil it for the rest. | |
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Posted: 3/17/2005 4:03:54 PM | Well six of one half a dozzen of another .. it depends on what you are looking for
I can tell you this for a fact... SIX OF ONE if your flirting .. and get physical on your first date
then issues can arise later in your relationship.. about trust etc. (if she did it with me on the first date .. can i trust her going out with her new friends .. and other such childish thoughts ... HALF A DOZEN OF THE OTHER.... if your really not looking for a long term anything special .. and the persons involved . are enjoying a little spontinuity.. then
go for it .. NO MORE SAID ....
Its the asseholes who say one thing and do another that give we genllemen
a bad name ... Chad | |
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Posted: 3/17/2005 6:51:33 PM | | well guys thanks for ur opinions the other thing is how far to go for fliriting ? I mean I tell guys straight out I dont have casual sex and probably never will but dont i deserve respect even though I am flirting | |
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Posted: 3/17/2005 7:31:04 PM | | If you flirt, the guy might get the wrong impression about what you want/don't want. I'd say get to know the guy first, go out to movies, etc. and only if you see long term potential, then let him "feel" what you "feel". Flirting for the fun of it can be misleading, maybe hazardous to your health :) good luck! | |
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Posted: 3/18/2005 6:02:44 AM | I say block his ass!! to me flirting is flirting just cuz you did doesn't change your out look on casual sex and he should know this, taking you out is getting to know you on a personal level and not on an intamit level. If you at any time feel dis-respect you should be outtie!!! Just my views.
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Posted: 3/18/2005 5:10:59 PM | Moi again ...
Here's another way to look at it. Although we all joke around and flirt a little ... kinda why we're here... folks should still have the decency to use the "icky" filter. There are just comments and "jokes" that are inappropriate, and when you are just getting to know each other, probably not the best approach.
So you have to decide if you want to invest the time with someone who doesn't know where his "icky-filter" is?
Only you can decide. Not for me personally. 
Good luck
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Posted: 3/18/2005 8:38:59 PM | | You did the right thing. I can comprehend telling a woman that she owes me sex because I took her out to dinner. I just don't operate that way. If I go out to dinner with you and I pay it's because I wanted to go out to dinner with you. It's almost better to do cheap dates these days. There's just too much emphasis put on the money part of going out. | |
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Posted: 6/7/2005 10:18:13 AM | Well I have to agree with those that have already posted.
GET RID OF HIM...Respect is a given!
I personally don't have casual sex, and I make it known once the opportunity arrises and most know I am a flirt. | |
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Posted: 6/7/2005 10:21:21 AM | | I say it's okay to want to (at any age), but neither should expect anything. Well, unless it's been made clear that something was gonna happen that is. If the guy was expecting something just for taking you out though, tell him to **** off and move on. | |
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Posted: 6/7/2005 2:57:07 PM | Lisa.. hunney.. sounds like someone I met online here.. from TO.. almost the exact same thing!
Even if it was to be only a sexual thing.. decorum prevails here! Where is the respect? You're not just a hole to fill!! You did good.. good for you.
No one should ever expect SEX regardless of diner, movies, dancing, drinks .. what not. Obviously he doesn't respect himself enough either! Run hun.. block him and run towards the light.. we are all here waiting for you.. there are good ones out there! | |
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Posted: 6/7/2005 5:01:11 PM | | I have the answer for such guys. You go out and get a 24" plastic sewer pipe. Cap on end and drill a 1/2 " hole in it. Then thread in a fitting to accept a propane hose. Drill a 1/8" hole for the match and stuff your friend in the pipe. Fill with gas and launch him back to Toronto. | |
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