| Can all women have multiple orgasms?
Posted: 9/19/2006 4:29:58 PM | | Can all women have multiple orgasms, if not can it be learned? My partner after having an orgasm is just done for the night. Which is cool that I can pleasure her that way, but sometimes Im not quite done yet. If I go first, she wants to stop, its rather frustrating at times and any help is appreciated. | |
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| Can all women have multiple orgasms?
Posted: 9/19/2006 4:41:52 PM | | Though there can be medical or psychological problems preventing some women having multiples..Its my belief that if the man that shes with is doing right with her, most women can. | |
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| Can all women have multiple orgasms?
Posted: 9/19/2006 4:49:54 PM | | Hell I'm happy if they have one...Why would you want them to have multiple. Next thing you know they'll want to vote. | |
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| Can all women have multiple orgasms?
Posted: 9/19/2006 4:57:34 PM | | Im very capable of multiple orgasms, its partner who can't. Usually its the guy that falls asleep, but its like I can't even touch her, she so sensitive after an orgasm. She just wants to go to sleep. | |
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| Can all women have multiple orgasms?
Posted: 9/19/2006 5:00:54 PM | I'm sure all women are capable of multiple orgasms. The question though is whether or not I have enough time to help them all out...  | |
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| Can all women have multiple orgasms?
Posted: 9/19/2006 5:10:39 PM | Odd, its usually the man who goes first and he's the one who loses interest later. Why is sex always about orgasms? I know there is a recovery period and people have limits but the trip is kind of nice, not just the destination? Anyway, I can tell you that every women is different, if one is capable then they all are potentially capable, but I dont think that's your answer. Im not even sure what your question is? Is it, how can I get my partner to change in order to suit me better? hmmmm ....my experience says that trying to change someone is bound to fail, you have better luck accepting someone as they are ...and then if theres a problem, owning as your issue, not theirs. So, the real question is: how do I deal with my issue of a partner who wants to have shorter periods of lovemaking than I do? My answer is: I havent the faintest idea!  | |
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| Can all women have multiple orgasms?
Posted: 9/19/2006 5:57:11 PM | multiple orgasms require a greater level of arousal - if you are doing things in the same place, the same way, the same everything, then odds are it will eventually get stale and once it does her attention is prone to drifting elsewhere (even if she likes it). If she is in a heightened state of arousal (mental arousal) then odds are no sooner is she there than she wants to go there again and again... it's all about seducing her mind and you can't do that without spicing it up.
Try talking to her - ask her what some of her darker fantasies are - ask her what she thinks about when she masturbates (if she masturbates), try to get her to open up to you because you are missing something here - you aren't keeping her attention beyond that one orgasm.
You can also take on more responsibility at home so that she has more free time to just unwind so she can get into a better headspace for intimate activities, some women are just terribly overwhelmed by responsibility (especially with kids) so that sex becomes just another chore that needs to be done.
Just keep in mind that some women just aren't that sexual and thus they do it more to please you than to please themselves (this is all to often the case), thank goodness not all of us are like that. When in doubt - talk to the source.
She has all the answers - ask her what would really get her going. | |
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| Can all women have multiple orgasms?
Posted: 9/19/2006 5:58:11 PM | I think you guys are confusing a multiple orgasm with having more than one orgasm during a session. Two totally different things.
A multiple is more of a single orgasm that almost descends but then climbs back to climax over and over again - it can last a long time, and there's little chance of a man NOT climaxing as well because of the extreme contractions. Granted, after one of these, a woman is VERY sensitive and is likely in a semi-demented state, so more sex will probably have to wait.
After a regular orgasm, the sensitivity stage is shorter and there's no excuse other than selfishness not to continue play until the man is satisfied. If things go well, there's a good chance of the woman having another or two before he's done.
Sorry, but the scenario described, if it happens regularly, just sounds like she's a bit of a selfish lover. | |
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| Can all women have multiple orgasms?
Posted: 9/19/2006 5:58:15 PM | | Yea, I hate to say it but you're probably the reason she can't have more than one :S Sometimes I want to have a few with my guy but I just wear him out so much XD I drain him before he has another chance.. | |
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| Can all women have multiple orgasms?
Posted: 9/19/2006 6:06:36 PM |
Sometimes I want to have a few with my guy but I just wear him out so much XD I drain him before he has another chance..
Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm. | |
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| Can all women have multiple orgasms?
Posted: 9/19/2006 6:25:24 PM | Yep guys ever wonder what the lady in your office is smiling about it is not you she is remembering why she has that stupid panty liner on.  | |
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| Can all women have multiple orgasms?
Posted: 9/19/2006 6:32:00 PM | Now see how naive I am. I thought it was because they had a weak bladder.
LOL...mustang is that really your picture?
Heck no..I stole it from models inc..... | |
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| Can all women have multiple orgasms?
Posted: 9/19/2006 8:26:37 PM | all women are capable if healty, like men if they have any sickness they tend to not be able to perform as well...but if healthy yes she can, and should... if the proper relaxation, and stimulation is applied...not to mention if she really is turned on by the man himself...some seem to fake it, but a man can tell that too... first off maybe try to find out if she understands her body...most don't...and some lame snetence like" did you wet the bed" may have made her say OH NO, and never relax again. So take time with her, and find out things first, then go for the gland that makes it all wonderful! You do know what gland I am talking about, don't you????? | |
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| Can all women have multiple orgasms?
Posted: 9/19/2006 9:07:42 PM | I know I do but sometimes can be a problem. ie. the "wet the bed comment". I usually make sure the guy can swim as have tendancy to make puddles. Have plastic on my bed for a reason. One good thing is can tell when I've been pleasured as can't really fake that.
Some women are too busy trying to stay quiet because the kids or neighbours or thinking about what needs to be done. It keeps them from fully relaxing. Or they've had a bad experience when did "let loose" like blond1melody said.
Maybe one thing to add is if doing orally make sure to use a finger or two. Believe me it helps. I can't orgasm without it when done orally.
Can't believe saying this....(blush) | |
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| Can all women have multiple orgasms?
Posted: 9/19/2006 9:13:51 PM | Biologically, yes. By electronic or electrical means, yes.
Depending from some of us... she should be happy if get one. | |
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| Can all women have multiple orgasms?
Posted: 9/19/2006 9:20:42 PM |
Hell I'm happy if they have one...Why would you want them to have multiple. Next thing you know they'll want to vote.
lmfao | |
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| Can all women have multiple orgasms?
Posted: 9/20/2006 4:05:50 AM | Well, I hate to disagree with you all. Many years ago, I could just have one, but it was so intense that there was absolutely no need for another. After the orgasm, there were about five minutes of real need for hard intercourse, plenty of time for most any man to finish what he has started. I could never have gone on to another, not for a good while.
Now, as i have grown older, I have many, many, orgasms, I even ejaculate now, and though they are wonderful, they don't compare with the intensity of the one.
So there are good things to say about just one, or about multi, it is all about being sated, satisfied, and not every woman is multiple or can be. Just be glad she is orgasmic. | |
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| Can all women have multiple orgasms?
Posted: 9/20/2006 5:42:22 AM | | A women can deffinitly have multiple orgasims, but it takes a good man to please a girl more than once, i find the second orgaism takse longer than the first but once I have one oh baby... it is way better that the first, so try and keep her up a little longer, you think you pleased her the first time around wait unti lthe second!!!!! | |
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| Can all women have multiple orgasms?
Posted: 9/20/2006 5:55:03 AM | This is one of those things where each woman can only speak for herself. Each person is different, has a different chemical work up, make up.
So it all boils down to treating each person you are with as an individual and going with however they are. If you don't like it, move on. If you love someone, you can make it work. | |
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| Can all women have multiple orgasms?
Posted: 9/20/2006 12:26:09 PM | Granted, after one of these, a woman is VERY sensitive and is likely in a semi-demented state, so more sex will probably have to wait.
Well this very much the case, we make love for hours and enjoy it tremendously. But when its she orgasms, she's completely done, I mean I have to just leave her alone, no touching her ,no talkin to her, and then she pretty much takes a nap for about 40 min just out cold. | |
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