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 smartenuff

Joined: 9/9/2006
Msg: 1
Strangest "gift" I ever got.
Posted: 9/19/2006 8:34:25 PM
I was dating a guy once, and he was a real yard sale freak. One night, he pulled out a box of sex toys that he SAID he had bought in a sex shop for us. I was SHOCKED!! Who just goes out without his partner and buys sex toys to use on her???

I asked him if he was sure he didn't get them from a yard sale or something, and he said no, he bought them legitimately at a sex shop. They were sooooooooo not anything I would even remotely be interested in using, that I said "no". He got really angry, said he had spent a lot of money on them. I told him that if he didn't want his money to go to waste, then stick them up himself and turn them on!

Never saw him again....thank God!
 pamperguy

Joined: 8/28/2006
Msg: 2
Strangest gift I ever got.
Posted: 9/19/2006 8:41:27 PM
me thinks they were second hand toys. icckkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkk!!!!!!!!!!!!
 ManOwaR

Joined: 8/9/2005
Msg: 3
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Strangest gift I ever got.
Posted: 9/19/2006 8:45:03 PM
me thinks they were his and he already did use them on himself.
 tmofedm1

Joined: 9/1/2006
Msg: 4
Strangest gift I ever got.
Posted: 9/19/2006 8:47:29 PM
if couples want toys, shopping for them is a thing they do together, and if it's a gift it better darn well be in its original packaging!!!!! He's a baaaaaaaad man! Run away Run away!
 RedneckHippy

Joined: 8/7/2006
Msg: 5
Strangest gift I ever got.
Posted: 9/19/2006 8:58:12 PM
Perhaps he was just being
environmentally friendly and
tried to recycle.

Shopping at "Slightly Used Dildo Mart' is just wrong.
 hadalife

Joined: 9/6/2006
Msg: 6
Strangest gift I ever got.
Posted: 9/19/2006 9:01:28 PM
Well it was nice of you to give him an alternate solution on what he can now do with them........



 Byrd

Joined: 7/19/2004
Msg: 7
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Strangest gift I ever got.
Posted: 9/19/2006 9:04:52 PM
A good friend of mine got married and I bought her and her husband a basket full of sex toys...They loved it..
 Joy.

Joined: 6/26/2005
Msg: 8
Strangest gift I ever got.
Posted: 9/19/2006 9:06:33 PM
I don't know what is worse....selling used sex toys or buying them.

I just say it's ICKY all around!!
 swf 1968

Joined: 9/13/2006
Msg: 9
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Strangest gift I ever got.
Posted: 9/19/2006 9:13:04 PM
I got a horse crop once from a guy. I don't even ride horses. LOL!!!
 even-star

Joined: 3/15/2006
Msg: 10
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Strangest gift I ever got.
Posted: 9/20/2006 6:58:05 AM
I think it is even weirder when you go out with a guy and he pulls out the sex toys that he didn't buy expecially for you but has used on other partners.

Happened to me. Was a wee bit creepy if I thought too hard about it but but the sex was great so meh...

I think if the two of you had not used toys before or even discussed using toys then going out and buying them with out you is a bit strange.
 evelynpyre

Joined: 3/22/2006
Msg: 11
Strangest gift I ever got.
Posted: 9/20/2006 7:56:33 AM
sex toys should be a thing you both shop for. unless you want to surprise the other with it.
the strangest gift i ever got from a man was a teddy bear the size of a 10 year old child. why strange? i was 20 years old and that's just plain weird. i had given no indication that i would want such an item, and it was promptly sold to a CHILD in a yard sale later that year.
 rainskiss

Joined: 3/5/2006
Msg: 12
Strangest gift I ever got.
Posted: 9/20/2006 8:09:52 AM
When I was 16 on of my moms boyfriends, she had many bought me a vibrator. My mom thought it was cute and funny, I thought he way out of line.
 Bryantinfl

Joined: 1/4/2006
Msg: 13
Strangest gift I ever got.
Posted: 9/20/2006 8:39:18 AM
Used sex toys???? Ewwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww!!!!!!
 Skinnbones

Joined: 5/17/2004
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Strangest gift I ever got.
Posted: 9/20/2006 8:44:46 AM
I am shocked that people actually recycle sex toys??? could you imagine a nice sunday yard sailing around and BAM a box of vibrators and anal beads.... strange!
 shadowdancing

Joined: 3/27/2006
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Strangest gift I ever got.
Posted: 9/20/2006 8:47:04 AM

“My mom thought it was cute and funny, I thought he way out of line.”


Common sense dictates – on the grounds of common sense - you had beaten your mother. However, I hope this scenario is highly uncommon and for good reasons. What makes me more stunned – is the fact that – it happened so many years ago (checked your current age). I am shocked!!

I think your gift beats the OP’s used toys by a huge margin. That one dealt with hygiene BUT your one with decency and common sense.

Both though.
 robbyone

Joined: 3/21/2006
Msg: 16
Strangest gift I ever got.
Posted: 9/20/2006 10:14:24 AM
I can see he was very thoughtful... But seriously maybe it would have been a good idea to ask you first (being that it was being stuck in you) That way you 2 could have went to the yard sales or flea market together
 MyNewName

Joined: 8/3/2006
Msg: 17
OMG...They might be ours...
Posted: 9/20/2006 12:57:47 PM
Oddly enough...My Ex sold all of ours on a yard sale...was there a FezzHat and a Gimp Mask, a Doubleheaded Mongo that took quadruple-D batteries and had teeth marks on it? if so, he was lying...he bought them from her yard sale for $18.00. She was selling for 25, but he didn't want the genuine rubber torso with real rubber puss.y

HRL~
 angelleys

Joined: 6/7/2006
Msg: 18
OMG...They might be ours...
Posted: 9/20/2006 2:19:15 PM
Got a 6ft bull whip given to me at my bday party at Rumors in Niagara Falls....best friend had dj play 'Whip It' by Devo while I was on the dance floor with the whip

Funniest bday to date.

She handed out adult party favors to everyone in the bar that had condoms, chocolate, breath mints, joy jelly and a quarter..

That was before I got into BDSM so was totally hillarious...now it is a treasured prize!!!

 woowoowillie

Joined: 3/16/2006
Msg: 19
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OMG...They might be ours...
Posted: 9/20/2006 2:39:17 PM
I did that..we were having fun, just messing around, and got to talking about "toys"..
I mentioned that I had some "out in the car" that I had enjoyed before...BAD decision....needless to say we stopped seeing each other soon afterward....I always wanted to be cool, but....
 FunTimes1973

Joined: 7/7/2006
Msg: 20
OMG...They might be ours...
Posted: 9/20/2006 2:39:35 PM
A friend of mine once gave a girl a spatula for a Christmas gift. That's it, just a spatula. And he was dating this girl. Needless to say, that gift was probably the nail in the coffin.
 Leeanne

Joined: 10/14/2005
Msg: 21
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OMG...They might be ours...
Posted: 9/20/2006 3:05:18 PM
If any woman lets a guy use sex toys on her that she did not personally go and buy with her lover, would be insane!!
 zentral

Joined: 10/30/2005
Msg: 22
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OMG...They might be ours...
Posted: 9/20/2006 3:21:51 PM
Used sex toys aren't very appealing! However, many clean up well and are therefore less likely to have a disease than their owner!!
 Tawcoking

Joined: 9/10/2004
Msg: 23
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OMG...They might be ours...
Posted: 9/20/2006 5:28:32 PM
if a guy tries to use old sex toys on u then you r a temporary dance hun. any guy that has some respect for his girl will go out with her and buy sex toys together or u both talk about it and he stops by after work or something and buys NEW sex toys, being that so many ladies are afraid to go into sex shops. we've all used sex toys before. ive bought some for previous girlfriends but i can tell you they arent that expensive so its easy n not that expensive to buy new ones for every new partner. anyone who doesnt just doesnt respect you or is just one hell of a cheapskate
 blondein_tokyo

Joined: 7/5/2006
Msg: 24
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Strangest gift I ever got.
Posted: 9/20/2006 8:04:08 PM
Sorry, but I don't see what the big deal is here. Why is someone a freak just because they want to use sex toys?? If a girl in this day and age has yet to use a vibrator or masturbate, then I think she needs to go watch some more Sex in the City. LOL....

On the other hand, if you suspect that he was trying to get you to use USED sex toys and pass them off as new, I don't blame you. That is just disgusting, not to mention dangerous. Even if disinfected, I wouldn't trust them to be safe.
 Orange Juice Blues

Joined: 7/19/2006
Msg: 25
Strangest gift I ever got.
Posted: 9/20/2006 8:07:49 PM
Unless he or she is a virgin, all penises and vaginas are used--and they can carry much nastier things than pieces of rubber or plastic can.
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