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 Honest-John
Joined: 7/20/2006
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If I am correct It

Dictates that all people are driven by needs,,,, the need for water, the need for shelter., the need for heat…………………………………………………………………………………………The need for, love, the need for friendship anon anon anon.

It says that a persons needs change on a regular basis based upon the circumstance and environment they are in…. and the desire for those needs increase or decrease dependent upon the strength of that desire.

No wonder I can never understand women! Lol

Discuss lol


So my question is do people who kiss and cuddle in public need a room?
 bootielicious
Joined: 9/10/2006
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Lazlo’s theory or was it Hertzberg
Posted: 9/20/2006 2:32:26 PM
So my question is do people who kiss and cuddle in public need a room?

Only if their purpose for kissing and cuddling is to be noticed and then they need to get a life.

Nothing wrong with a little cuddle and kiss if it's reacting on an impulse of geniune feeling.
 onionbug
Joined: 9/3/2006
Msg: 3
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Posted: 9/20/2006 2:32:42 PM
It depends on where they are doing it and how far they are going!!
 littleangel1974
Joined: 2/26/2006
Msg: 4
Lazlo’s theory or was it Hertzberg
Posted: 9/20/2006 2:33:37 PM
I might be wrong, but i think its Pavlov.... the dog experiment??
 *Jamazing*
Joined: 6/30/2006
Msg: 5
Lazlo’s theory or was it Hertzberg
Posted: 9/20/2006 2:33:51 PM
'Nothing wrong with a little cuddle and kiss if it's reacting on an impulse of geniune feeling'

Totally agree bootielicious
 Honest-John
Joined: 7/20/2006
Msg: 6
Lazlo’s theory or was it Hertzberg
Posted: 9/20/2006 2:53:47 PM
I agree and do sometimes feel a pang of jealousy,, but this goes back to the mev vs women issue.

Man only has a few basic needs

the need to reproduce
the need to find a mate that will tolerate his personality
the need to find somebody who will do everything for him when ever and where ever he wants it.
the need to be believed when he says he is ill
and the need to be pampered


mhh sounds a lot like a woman to me pmsl :lol:

not much to ask is it
 Lewis Sypher
Joined: 9/15/2006
Msg: 7
Lazlo’s theory or was it Hertzberg
Posted: 9/20/2006 2:55:10 PM
my question is who the fcuk is this guy anon anon anon that you keep mentioning?
 buzz887
Joined: 9/10/2006
Msg: 8
Lazlo’s theory or was it Hertzberg
Posted: 9/20/2006 2:58:04 PM

Only if their purpose for kissing and cuddling is to be noticed and then they need to get a life


Has the art of voyeurism died and no one told me
 SnowMonkey
Joined: 3/21/2006
Msg: 9
Lazlo’s theory or was it Hertzberg
Posted: 9/20/2006 3:31:32 PM
Pardon me if I'm being ignorant but don't you mean Maslow, as in pyramid of needs. I guess whether people need a room depends on the self esteem and self actualization levels of need and what they percieve as being cool (if they don't want a room) or proper (if they do).
 littleangel1974
Joined: 2/26/2006
Msg: 10
Lazlo’s theory or was it Hertzberg
Posted: 9/20/2006 3:32:45 PM
^^^ Cheers Monkey


i knew i was wrong, i was thinking of the dogs


Psychology is a load of old bollops in my opinion anyway!!!
 scotlas
Joined: 8/30/2005
Msg: 11
Lazlo’s theory or was it Hertzberg
Posted: 9/20/2006 3:35:59 PM
SM you beat me to it? Just finished doing Maslow as well!!!
 SnowMonkey
Joined: 3/21/2006
Msg: 12
Lazlo’s theory or was it Hertzberg
Posted: 9/20/2006 3:38:03 PM
Pavlov was to do with dogs that liked meringue wasn't it? Or have I got the wrong end of the stick?
 georgiegirl2006
Joined: 8/16/2006
Msg: 13
Lazlo’s theory or was it Hertzberg
Posted: 9/20/2006 3:39:29 PM
I've only just read the thread and SM has beaten me to it.

It's the Heirarchy of Needs, and if your basic needs aren't met you haven't got a hope in hell of having the higher ones fulfilled
 Dr Spacedust
Joined: 3/20/2006
Msg: 14
Lazlo’s theory or was it Hertzberg
Posted: 9/21/2006 2:31:36 AM
Maslows heirarchy of needs. The one of th efew things I remember from my degree.

You start off writing your basic needs in the base of a big triangle. Once those are met you move up the triangle until it becomes difficult to write words in it. It explained why th eBeatles went spiritual as there was nothing left for them to acheive.

Regading snogging in public - leave 'em be.
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