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 Author Thread: If you had the power to make a certain person fall in love with you? Would you do it?
 recall

Joined: 6/1/2005
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If you had the power to make a certain person fall in love with you? Would you do it?
Posted: 9/22/2006 7:17:54 AM
It's a fun question isn't it? That's if you have met someone recently that interests you that much?
 Brian_Thorn

Joined: 9/7/2006
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If you had the power to make a certain person fall in love with you? Would you do it?
Posted: 9/22/2006 7:21:49 AM
Gonna have to go with a big "No" on this one OP. I do not want a love that doesn't come voluntarily, from the heart of the one who I love. I could never live with myself if I had to come by love that way. Simply not what I am after.

Have fun ;)!
 ~Amoré~

Joined: 1/17/2006
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If you had the power to make a certain person fall in love with you? Would you do it?
Posted: 9/22/2006 7:26:54 AM
I'd have to say no to the question too. I want someone who loves me because he does, not because I made him. It would not be the same if it didn't come from his heart - I would always know that he didn't choose me, want me, and I could not live with that every day.

As for the guy I met recently that interested me so much....well, I already humilated myself enough without further boosting his ego here...
 Lakota69

Joined: 12/28/2005
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Posted: 9/22/2006 7:27:59 AM
Love is not an emotion to begin with my friend. Love is what you are willing to give of yourself to your spouse or partner. That is where most people make the mistake of defining love.

So based on that if the woman is not there for you ever then why would you want to make them love you? I say f##k the b!tch if you have to make that kind of effort there's always more women out there and that one is not worth your time.
 !somewhere

Joined: 1/16/2006
Msg: 5
If you had the power to make a certain person fall in love with you? Would you do it?
Posted: 9/22/2006 7:35:53 AM
NO!!!!!


part of loving someone is: being fair to them and being totally honest with them


if you "made" someone fall in love with you, it wouldn't be fair to that person
you are also decieving that person
 julietjuliet

Joined: 7/3/2006
Msg: 6
If you had the power to make a certain person fall in love with you? Would you do it?
Posted: 9/22/2006 7:45:16 AM
OP: Definately NO! There is no way on this earth would i ever try to make someone fall in love with me. If it's not there, then what gives a person the right to force it?
Self sacrifice....that's what it is, to give up someone YOU love, who doesn't love you.
 curiousjoe84

Joined: 12/19/2005
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If you had the power to make a certain person fall in love with you? Would you do it?
Posted: 9/22/2006 8:01:13 AM
I hear what everyone is saying here, but isn't that what dating is? We date to find that 'certain' person and then we try and get them to love us.

It's not like we meet someone and they say 'I love you'... it takes an effort to convince them they should.
 julietjuliet

Joined: 7/3/2006
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If you had the power to make a certain person fall in love with you? Would you do it?
Posted: 9/22/2006 8:08:10 AM

isn't that what dating is

No, that's not what dating is.
You could date a hundred people and maybe find one or two that you really like, but if they don't feel the same then what's the point?
 Subotai

Joined: 1/31/2006
Msg: 9
If you had the power to make a certain person fall in love with you? Would you do it?
Posted: 9/22/2006 8:09:56 AM
i have magic powers!!

..but i dont use them for love...only for fame and fortune..

oh wait im not either...maybe my mojo beens stolen!

look into my eyes!!

 Kelly_27

Joined: 3/16/2006
Msg: 10
If you had the power to make a certain person fall in love with you? Would you do it?
Posted: 9/22/2006 8:13:03 AM
No , they would only love me because i made them love me . I would'nt feel it was real .

 Funny_Girl

Joined: 10/27/2005
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If you had the power to make a certain person fall in love with you? Would you do it?
Posted: 9/22/2006 8:14:27 AM
If that certain someone was my Keith Urban, hell fuking yes! Anyone else...nah, too easy.
 Kaila78

Joined: 9/9/2006
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If you had the power to make a certain person fall in love with you? Would you do it?
Posted: 9/22/2006 8:25:40 AM
Wow I can't believe there are so many NOs. I say hell ya
 Kataklysmic

Joined: 6/17/2006
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If you had the power to make a certain person fall in love with you? Would you do it?
Posted: 9/22/2006 8:28:35 AM
I prefer that my fella love me without condition. And me having that power over him would be a condition. No thanks.
 rainbowfishh

Joined: 4/20/2006
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If you had the power to make a certain person fall in love with you? Would you do it?
Posted: 9/22/2006 8:30:40 AM
super human powers....
mating for life like wild animals

too much magical thinking... not enough reality.

If I had the "POWER" to make someone fall in love
I maybe would wish it on someone else... like my ex to fall in love
with the world largest woman...
as that would at least be funny... to me.
 !somewhere

Joined: 1/16/2006
Msg: 15
If you had the power to make a certain person fall in love with you? Would you do it?
Posted: 9/22/2006 8:30:49 AM
I can't believe there are so many NOs. I say hell ya

well, ......most of us would feel special if someone fell in love with us
what's special about someone loving you because you made them??
 §pünglä§§

Joined: 9/15/2006
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If you had the power to make a certain person fall in love with you? Would you do it?
Posted: 9/22/2006 8:34:58 AM
I think having the power to MAKE someone love me would take away all the challenge. Besides...as most others have said..it's not going to be a real love if you have to make someone love you, rather than someone loving you on your own merits. Give me powers to make OTHER strange things happen though.....hehehehe
 METALLlC BLUE

Joined: 5/17/2006
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If you had the power to make a certain person fall in love with you? Would you do it?
Posted: 9/22/2006 8:42:54 AM
No. Where is the challenge in that? I want to "earn" it.
 BenzJaguar

Joined: 8/16/2006
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If you had the power to make a certain person fall in love with you? Would you do it?
Posted: 9/22/2006 8:48:23 AM
"OP"..........Let me ask you the same question, would you do it, and why? ....NO...., I would not do it, why would I want to cheat myself, out of all the fun, witnessing her falling in love with me.

Last night I laid in bed.....looking up at the stars.....and I thought to myself....., "Where The Heck Is The Roof?".............Benz !!!!
 *Handyman*

Joined: 8/22/2006
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If you had the power to make a certain person fall in love with you? Would you do it?
Posted: 9/22/2006 10:14:19 AM
I'm thinking that since this is hypothetical and completely unreasonable most people are simply saying no and then qualifying it but If you actually had that power in your hands I bet the outcome would be very different.
I've been working on this pesky love potion in my laboratory for a few months now and all I've managed to do was turn my dog into a rabbit.
 Lady678

Joined: 6/4/2006
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If you had the power to make a certain person fall in love with you? Would you do it?
Posted: 9/22/2006 10:22:46 AM
Yes I would! I can't believe so many people said no. I would want to be sure it was someone I knew well before I did, but I would. Why not? I mean infatuation fades, so if you can make someone really"love" you (i assume for life) And by "love" I mean be honest & respectful, not lie or cheat and shower me with adoration. Life has no guarantees about anything, wouldn't it be nice to have this one less thing to worry about! I'm all for it. Now where do i get this "magic potion"?? LOL..
 kame

Joined: 4/7/2006
Msg: 21
If you had the power to make a certain person fall in love with you? Would you do it?
Posted: 9/22/2006 10:22:54 AM
No then Id feel like Im forcing someone to love me when it wasnt there to begin with.
 sarcaustic

Joined: 7/2/2006
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If you had the power to make a certain person fall in love with you? Would you do it?
Posted: 9/22/2006 10:31:26 AM
I know a guy who does this......he has broken many hearts.....and has dealt with more than one stalker.....I would not want to have his karma......
 Carol27

Joined: 1/25/2005
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If you had the power to make a certain person fall in love with you? Would you do it?
Posted: 9/22/2006 10:33:56 AM
Nope....

I didn't have to have a power....he fell in love with me all on his own!
 EpisodeIV

Joined: 6/28/2006
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If you had the power to make a certain person fall in love with you? Would you do it?
Posted: 9/22/2006 10:37:02 AM
Sure. Why not?

Unless they were already attached. But then if they were attached to someone who was not as good for them as me then wouldn't I be doing them a favor? All's fair in love and war? Hahaha!

Or should it simply be... make love not war?
 EB1

Joined: 7/31/2006
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If you had the power to make a certain person fall in love with you? Would you do it?
Posted: 9/22/2006 10:40:52 AM
No, I would not. I'd rather prefer he would fall in love with me without the "help".
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