| Need advice on be dumped by a new girlfriend of one month
Posted: 9/28/2006 11:10:37 AM | | I been dating this girl who asked me out for about a month now. She dumped me after hanging out with me and my female friend . She dumped me because she said I looked at my female friend one to many time and that I should date her. She never asked me my side and just dumped me like that. Should I email her back? what should I said? thnxs! Mike | |
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| Need advice on be dumped by a new girlfriend of one month
Posted: 9/28/2006 11:27:59 AM | Advice? Had to reply to you.
You're 27 years old, and a young lady asks you out....and while in the beginnings of dating, you bring a female friend along.
And then you seem to pay more attention to the other woman. Maybe she didn't ask you straight out what the hell is up....but you can't tell me her body language near the end spoke volumes.
I wouldn't have stood for it either. Hard enough somtimes for a lady to ask a man out, but then to be slighted and disrespected with having to share you with someone else???
She might have felt that a chaperone was included, or that you weren't that interested in her and the other female was to there to keep the distance, or that you're a player.
Either way, yes, I think you should email her and apologize for such shabby treatment. Start wtih that.
By the way.....you are on POF for "intimate encounters"....I'd take that as you are keeping all your bases covered with both females. Don't burn any bridges, now!! | |
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| Need advice on be dumped by a new girlfriend of one month
Posted: 9/28/2006 11:54:09 AM | I've always had one rule about dating: friends are friends. As long as that friendship doesn't disrespect the relationship, then I see it as a non-issue. If I meet a woman that can't handle the fact that I have female friends, then it's best that we don't date. Vice-versa, of course.
However, you stated it was only a month that you've been seeing her. My suggestion to you is to not bring a "date" on a date until you get to know the woman, and they get to know each other. How would you feel if you met a woman and she brought a guy along? Doesn't matter if you're just friends...it's kinda uncomfortable for the "new" person. Sure, you can say here that it wouldn't bother you, but when faced with it you kinda see it differently.
But, if you have to give an explanation then it's not worth it. It sounds more like she was looking for a way out and used the first thing that came up. If she felt a bond with you she would have said something...she chose to bail.
that's my two cents... | |
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| Need advice on be dumped by a new girlfriend of one month
Posted: 9/28/2006 1:11:05 PM | ^^^^^^^^^
I'm in agreement with all the above,,,
HELLOOOOOO??? Can't believe even have to ask what went wrong here!!!
And please don't anyone answer that the woman was insecure or jelous,,,that's just weird...
Let's take mommy on out next date!!! | |
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