| ugly boobs Posted: 9/29/2006 10:04:24 AM | I'm going to try this again since it didn't work last time. I am wondering how men feel about women with not to attractive breasts. Sagging after child birth, or larger nipples. Would you prefer a woman who went to plastic surgery to have this fixed giving her a more plastic look or would you prefer natural breast that weren't too attractive? | |
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| ugly boobs Posted: 9/29/2006 10:08:43 AM | Depends on the guy. Breast augmentation is relatively inexpensive compared to what it was just 10 years ago.
If you are self concious about it, I say go for it, especially if it helps your self esteem.
Men like perky breast. I personally prefer smaller, perky ones but if I was dating a woman who had breast augmentation I don't think I'd complain.
Umm, I know I wouldn't.  | |
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| ugly boobs Posted: 9/29/2006 10:11:17 AM | | Post a full body shot and we can judge. Not all men want perfectly perky boobs. Some people want them some dont care. My gf's boobs are not perky and one is slightly larger than the other, they also sag a little and she is 23 but I dont care. | |
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| ugly boobs Posted: 9/29/2006 10:21:50 AM | | There's no such thing as ugly boobs | |
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| ugly boobs Posted: 9/29/2006 10:21:55 AM | I'm really curious...why would you want to alter your breasts to suit people that you don't know personally? I understand that you're trying to get an idea, in a poll kind of way, as to what "most men" may like, but dang woman! Why would you even consider their likes (strangers on the internet) to the degree that it might cause you to surgically alter your breasts?
They make really cool bras these days. :) True, the masses can't see what's underneath your bra when you're wearing one, which is precisely my point. When it gets right down to it, only the fella seeing you nude will know the deal, and he's really all that should matter. All in all, I don't think I'd alter my breasts for him, either---I'd just find me a fella that thinks my boobies hung the moon.
PS: Personally, I like big nipples. And I'm straight as the day is long, but I still like 'em! | |
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| ugly boobs Posted: 9/29/2006 10:25:00 AM | I can't stand fake tits. Better they sag.
(BTW are we talking elbow level or belt level? Elbow level does not look that bad at all) | |
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| ugly boobs Posted: 9/29/2006 10:26:29 AM |
Men like perky breast.
Not all of them do.
OP, the vast majority of women don't have perfect breasts. The last time I would have passed the "pencil test" was when I was in grade 5! *Lol*
Some men like perky, some like large and soft, some like small areolas, some large, etc...Taste in colour is all individual as well. Heck, I've even heard some men listing "bumpy areola" as a turn on! | |
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| ugly boobs Posted: 9/29/2006 10:53:43 AM | Hmm, let me clarify.
If given a choice between saggy or perky boobs I think most men would choose perky.
It's the same as if given a choice between a guy with a firm chest or man boobs, they'd prefer firm.
I think if she does get breast augmentation it should be for HER, not to satisfy men. | |
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| ugly boobs Posted: 9/29/2006 10:59:09 AM | ugly boobs=oxymoron kinda like this post. | |
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| ugly boobs Posted: 9/29/2006 11:09:35 AM | I would prefer not sagging. Just like I would prefer a new truck over an old one. Can't always have what we want or should even spend too much thought on the matter. However, put a BIG nipple on just about anything and it will have my full and undivided attention! | |
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| ugly boobs Posted: 9/29/2006 11:12:16 AM | It doesn't really matter. I don't think I've ever chosen wether or not to date a woman because of her breasts. :p I guess, technically, most guys would prefer perky to saggy, but that's the same as anyone would prefer something they find attractive compared to something they don't.
But really, it doesn't matter. Though, my sweet Mai... well, definitely no complaints there.  | |
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| ugly boobs Posted: 9/29/2006 11:14:24 AM | | I have had men be relieved that my breasts are real - they don't like the feel of plastic boobs and they are affraid to play aggressively with the fake ones. My boobs have always been outside of the realm of perky even at 10 years old when they started developing - but not once have I ever had a complaint. A real boob man loves breasts no matter the size or lack of perkiness. Oh and by the way a man loves his woman for who she is, if he's worth the time and energy! | |
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| ugly boobs Posted: 9/29/2006 11:21:50 AM |
A real boob man loves breasts no matter the size or lack of perkiness.
Very true. If it's breasts you love, you'll love them in all shapes and sizes and colors. ;)
Oh and by the way a man loves his woman for who she is, if he's worth the time and energy!
Even more true. :) | |
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| ugly boobs Posted: 9/29/2006 12:14:36 PM | | thanks for jumping the gun. Never once did I say I was going to alter MY breasts to suit people I don't know. "dang woman" slow down sister. | |
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| ugly boobs Posted: 9/29/2006 12:26:22 PM |
Never once did I say I was going to alter MY breasts to suit people I don't know. No but you did ask
Would you prefer a woman who went to plastic surgery to have this fixed giving her a more plastic look I was addressing that! | |
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| ugly boobs Posted: 9/29/2006 12:26:35 PM | Just once, I'd like to have a good practical reason to consider this question seriously. Which way do I go, which way do I go ? | |
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| ugly boobs Posted: 9/29/2006 12:33:00 PM |
PS: Personally, I like big nipples. And I'm straight as the day is long, but I still like 'em!
Quoted for truth.
No matter the size or shape, there's nipples involved and personally, the better the nipple, the better the breasts over all. Big breasts, great nipples? Yay! Small breasts, great nipples? Yay! Odd shaped, but great nipples? Well sign me up.
A real boob man loves breasts no matter the size or lack of perkiness. Oh and by the way a man loves his woman for who she is, if he's worth the time and energy!
Yet another QFT. | |
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| ugly boobs Posted: 9/29/2006 1:04:08 PM | can't stand fake tits. Better they sag.
(BTW are we talking elbow level or belt level? Elbow level does not look that bad at all) ______________________________________________________________________________
I'm sorry ladies, but you should love honest men. Thanks Smith!  | |
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| ugly boobs Posted: 9/29/2006 1:30:43 PM | | a guy who likes you only for your boobs isn't worth attracting or keeping around. | |
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| ugly boobs Posted: 9/29/2006 1:35:52 PM | my close friend had a double masectomy (sp?) and her chest was a mess.... to put it nicely. She wore padded bras because it takes up to 2 years for the chest area to be ready to have implants.... I love her but let me tell you, her chest was not very pretty to look at.
However, point of the story, she met a wonderful guy who treats her like a princess and actually loved her more because of the ordeal she had Survived and they got married. (where do we all find guys like this I wonder????) She has decided to get implants for her own satisfaction not for him because he doesn't care.
So....if someone is going to love you...they are going to love you for who you are and not for how perky or beautiful your breasts are....
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| ugly boobs Posted: 9/29/2006 1:38:28 PM | Natural all the way! And when did having larger nipples become unattractive? I must have missed that memo.  | |
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| ugly boobs Posted: 9/29/2006 1:48:25 PM | | I would date a mastectomy patient, if I liked her. | |
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| ugly boobs Posted: 9/29/2006 1:55:53 PM | | why the talk of plastic surgery? a woman can make her sagging breasts perk up by spending a few weeks in the gym doing chest exercises....and its waaaay cheaper too. You would be amazed at the results! | |
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| ugly boobs Posted: 9/29/2006 2:04:35 PM | | The breasts are supported by ligaments, and they can get stretched out. This is the cause of droopy boob syndrome, if you'll allow me to coin a phrase. Exercises aren't gonna help. | |
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| ugly boobs Posted: 9/29/2006 2:47:05 PM |
a woman can make her sagging breasts perk up by spending a few weeks in the gym doing chest exercises....and its waaaay cheaper too. You would be amazed at the results!
Ahh, that doesn't work for large breasted females. No amount of exercise will perk up large breasts.
Whats the pencil test??
I first heard about the pencil test on Oprah. Apparently, a woman is thought to have great perkiness if she could put a pencil in the space where the breast meets the chest (meaning, under the breast itself) and have it fall. Of course, the only ones who would be able to pass the pencil test are small breasted women. | |
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