| his ex girlfriend looks like a cross between paris hilton and pam anderson
Posted: 9/29/2006 11:50:05 AM | Ok so you start hanging out with a guy, everything is good, you like him, he likes you ...... then you see a pic of his ex girlfriend and she looks like a cross between paris hilton and pam anderson...... Now I have alot of self confidence, but come on...... I don't know how to feel about this...... what would you do?
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| I have a question for the ladies???
Posted: 9/29/2006 12:01:21 PM | I'd not worry, unless he started making visually comparative comments.
Maybe the model look-alike was a horrible person, maybe they just didn't get on that well.
At any rate, she wasn't suited to him because she's an ex... say no more. | |
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Posted: 9/29/2006 12:05:03 PM | It's how Ian and I became partners.We were best buds.I saw/knew the ladies he dated.Ian is a gorgeous man,he had badge bunnies chasing his ass all the time.They were usually well endowed.Short like 5'7 or so.The complete opposite of moi.Yet,he always preferred hanging with me over his lady friends.Seems he was smittened with,my personality.
I feel I can hold my own in a she's pretty in an odd sort of way contest.Physically,I'm tall,average body.Face is fine.Drar,Paris Hilton isn't all that.Relax be you.It works. | |
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Posted: 9/29/2006 12:06:44 PM | I agree. I admit, I would be quite upset at first if I saw that as well, or at least I would be questioning things a lot. but if he's a good guy, he likes you, and he's with YOU now, and not them (remember...she's an ex for a reason  ), and as long as he doesn't begin to compare you to her, then you should trust him to remember the reasons for why that particular ex IS an ex. | |
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Posted: 9/29/2006 12:11:25 PM | So she looks like a cross between a flat chested self absorbed celebrity wanna be and a silicone injected barbie doll whore?
What's to be jealous about? | |
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Posted: 9/29/2006 12:16:06 PM | Nothing... Obviously she is nothing special or she wouldn't be his ex. Who cares what she looks like... He probably wants more substance from a girl than looks. And sweety... you are gourgeous so I'm sure you have nothing to worry about.
Now if you were like me and get with a guy who swears he likes big girls and then find a picture of an ex who likes like that then you may wonder a little lol... | |
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Posted: 9/29/2006 12:17:41 PM | Who cares?
She's the ex for a reason.
Maybe he realized he liked more down to earth beautiful women over the overly made up, plastic beautiful women | |
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Posted: 9/29/2006 12:20:48 PM | I'd do nothing.... you are who you are.... You're not there to compete with anyone... you're there to be yourself.
You may have something that she didn't possess! | |
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Posted: 9/29/2006 12:39:34 PM | That's O.K. I have Four Wheel Drive
On Topic; I never understood why virtually every GF I had was so self
conscious of my past GFs. They see pictures and go nuts!
It is totally irrelevant!
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Posted: 9/29/2006 1:24:05 PM | I know it's a question for the ladies..
But Pam and Paris do absolutly nothing for me.. so it doesn't mean anything.. | |
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Posted: 9/29/2006 1:41:19 PM | Guys opinion here...
Sounds like he likes beautiful women.
He considers YOU a beautiful women.
The past is the past --leave it there.
Do not bring them up to him( when you show low self esteem it is a turn off)
If he brings them up & trys to brag about it , shut him down hard!!!!
I have had GF's look through my photo albums and say how beautiful an EX was.
All I said was thank you & left it at that. | |
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Posted: 9/29/2006 1:41:40 PM | I know where you are coming from.
My ex was a hunk, 25 and a business owner and only dated women that looked like straight from the modelling world.
But he after all picked his younger sister's 18 year old friend (which would be me).
I could not believe it either. I wondered for a long time on why a 25 year old successful and handsome man with MBA would choose a 18 year old college freshman when he could have anyone he desired. I thought like you are doing, now.
But then I was 18, very shy and had low self esteem and never had had a boyfriend before either.
Now, I'm older, experienced, wiser and most of all , I don't care. Past is past and an ex is an ex. You have no reason to worry. I know I did not when I realized I was being irrational.
He considers you beautiful that's why he is with you. If he did not find you beautiful, he would not be with you in the first place. ALWAYS REMEMBER THAT. | |
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| I have a question for the ladies???
Posted: 9/29/2006 2:10:21 PM | (I know I am not a lady but...)
It's probably a good idea I don't post a picture of my ex. A lot of women would be intimidated by her. I think if you're insecure in yourself you'll let it bother you. I've never dated a woman based on looks alone and never will.
My ex was gorgeous on the outside and utterly ugly on the inside..... | |
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| I have a question for the ladies???
Posted: 9/29/2006 2:11:50 PM |
Show me a gorgeous woman, and I'll show you a man who's sick of sleeping with her..
Yep. And somewhere out there is a guy who is sick of her crap.... | |
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Posted: 9/29/2006 2:44:22 PM | My ex was gorgeous on the outside and utterly ugly on the inside.....
I've dated had two incredibly wonderful loves in my life before I met Mai.
What you would term "true loves".
One was a model. The other easily could have been.
Both tall, blonde, blue-eyed beauties, who lit up a room.
Both of them just as beautiful inside as they were out.
One I left so she could persue her modelling career (she's off in Europe now doing just that).
The other was killed by a hit and run driver.
I don't keep their pictures around. Or those of any of my ex's really.
Simply because it's a matter of respect. I would never compare who I'm with now, to anyone I've been with in the past. That's just not right.
And while I may have some pictures tucked away somewhere, they're not laying about for all to see.
I've had a few girlfriends meet my ex who's a model when she's come back for the odd visit. And they've practically had fits worrying about why I would bother with someone like them. And really, that hurts... that they would doubt my love of them for even a second.
I prefer to play it smart and respectful. Keep the past in the past, where it belongs. If my ex comes back for another visit someday, so be it. But I wouldn't ever be the type to "show off" who I've been with.
If I am with someone, I am with them for a reason. I love them for who they are. And I find them beautiful in many ways. I love my sweet Mai like no other. She is everything to me. She is my world. And I am devoted to her, heart, body and soul. She never has any reason to think otherwise. There is no one I would want to spend my life with but her. And I could never find anyone who I'd rather have as the mother of my children. She makes me want to be a better man, so that I can always make her happy. | |
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| I have a question for the ladies???
Posted: 9/29/2006 2:51:49 PM | | Why would I worry? If she's the ex, I don't give a rat's ass if she is the Queen of Sheeba. Looks are easy come and easy go, just like the sunset, they too will fade. | |
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| I have a question for the ladies???
Posted: 9/29/2006 3:49:54 PM | sorry, but you can't categorize me as a lady, but, if this guy is going out with you, what does it matter?
Inner beauty is more important than physical looks. That's my thoughts on the subject and that's what attracts me to some women and not others. | |
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