| Any suggestions from the bdsm crowd?
Posted: 9/29/2006 5:33:07 PM | I've had some good responses from this profile, but I wonder if it might be improved. Any comments or suggestions (or even contacts) are welcome.
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| Any suggestions from the bdsm crowd?
Posted: 9/29/2006 7:06:09 PM | | Interesting..... very interesting.. BUT... you insist on pictures yet YOU do not show yourself why is that? I enjoyed the profile... of course I needed a cold shower after reading it but hey... it happens.. Good Luck. | |
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| Any suggestions from the bdsm crowd?
Posted: 9/29/2006 7:13:13 PM | Due to the personal nature of my profile, I'd rather people who see me every day not recognize me. I've made a "your picture gets mine" adjustment.
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| Any suggestions from the bdsm crowd?
Posted: 9/29/2006 7:17:18 PM | | Ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh..... very good.... and yes I can understand that. I do like your writing is it your own? I enjoy reading profiles that lets you really see what a person is like, not just the same old BS.. "loves to walk on beach".. "hold hand" that is so bogus!!! Some people put things on their profiles because that is what they think people want to hear. Not me, take me for what and who I am. Your honesty will get the type of person you are interested in therefore you will not have to weed out the needy ones. | |
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| Any suggestions from the bdsm crowd?
Posted: 9/29/2006 7:28:40 PM | | Yes, the writing is all my own. And I agree, there are too many cliches and fakes, too much bs and far too many boring profiles out there. Tell me what REALLY makes you tick, and you've got my attention. | |
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| Any suggestions from the bdsm crowd?
Posted: 9/29/2006 7:58:24 PM | It is a good profile and it is very to the point. It would be a little better if you had a picture but I understand what you mean.
I am into bondage myself.. but make no mention of it on my profile because there are soooo many people out there who have no idea what bdsm / bondage is and usually dont even give you a chance to explain.
Anyways.
Alt.com or bondage.com is better in my opinion if you are looking for bdsm.
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| Any suggestions from the bdsm crowd?
Posted: 9/29/2006 10:15:06 PM | Oh thank you. Everyday learns everything new. Now I know BDSM means. Cool.
You profile is fine. But there are more website for intimacy. You can find them base on here or others. In POF, the feedback to encournter intermate is pretty low. The proportion is almost 1:100 (F:M) ~ at least 1: 60 (same proportion F:M but only approximately according to area). Good luck then.
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| Any suggestions from the bdsm crowd?
Posted: 10/30/2006 7:52:25 PM | uhhh... personally I'm into eating other things besides fingers...
What does that have to do with this??? Just wondering opencountry...??? | |
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| Any suggestions from the bdsm crowd?
Posted: 10/30/2006 8:45:25 PM | EllisD....you made my frickin' day!
www.bizarrofetishumpmonkies.org....OMG! I've got to write that down for future use! | |
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| Any suggestions from the bdsm crowd?
Posted: 10/30/2006 9:35:19 PM | | Attractive women dont do the sub thing. Better put something about "appearance not important" in your list of demands | |
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| Any suggestions from the bdsm crowd?
Posted: 10/30/2006 9:49:52 PM |
There will be plenty of time for the humdrum stresses of everyday life, later. Right now, all you are thinking about is whether the next thing you feel will be a caress or a sting.
This line is too funny. I think you should change it so women reading it won't unwind with laughter instead of flogging. You need them tense and anxious so they will write to you. Bound to be free, right? You don't want it to be funny. I did feel like I was kind of being hypnotised when I read your profile, which was disturbing, mostly because I also felt like a women. I must have my own issues that don't concern this review, that is until I started laughing at the above excerpt. | |
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| Any suggestions from the bdsm crowd?
Posted: 10/31/2006 8:24:04 AM | You forgot to mention what days of the week are good. You know, the one's when Mom is out of the house. 
And to think you've never been married, or had kids ( that's a GOOD thing, I'm sure).
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| Any suggestions from the bdsm crowd?
Posted: 10/31/2006 10:25:36 AM | To clear a few things up:
Yes, there are other bdsm oriented dating sites. Most are, however, pretty intimidating and jargon-heavy for someone who is new to consentual power exchanges or merely curious about exploring their personal boundaries. Most of the women I've met through POF have been curious about trying something different, not so much about adopting a whole new lifestyle, yet. I'm only happy to oblige with a safe introduction to an alternative experience.
Those who know anything about bdsm realize that it is really the "submissive" that has the real power in the relationship. A caring "dominant" will only go as far as the "submissive" allows. Elements of trust and of respecting individual limits are fundamental. I'm not sick or twisted, just creative and willing enough to offer something different, that adventurous women might be interested in trying out.
While it's pointless to try defending myself from narrow minded people who clearly don't know me, I did specify in my thread subject that I was asking for constructive profile criticism from others knowledgable in bdsm activities. I find it amusing to see how many people who are not knowledgabe in, or open minded enough to accept, such matters still feel obligated to contribute their arbitrarily judgemental opinions.
Live and let live, friends. | |
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| Any suggestions from the bdsm crowd?
Posted: 10/31/2006 10:57:29 AM | As you see, there are a lot of misconceptions about that particular lifestyle. I don't profess to be an expert in it in any way, but I have tried to understand the dynamic as it affects and motivates people.
People tend to ridicule the unknown. It frightens them. One thing you might get from a BDSM site is the acceptance and understanding of like-minded people. | |
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| Any suggestions from the bdsm crowd?
Posted: 10/31/2006 12:41:42 PM | POF needs a fetish forum for those who are into BDSM,FEMDOM,ETC.
it is tough enough finding those types already.
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| Any suggestions from the bdsm crowd?
Posted: 11/17/2006 5:14:09 AM | As someone who was in exactly the place of the kind of person you are hoping to reach with your profile, I think it is extremely well done. One suggestion I would make would be to put the word "dominant" in your interests. When I was searching, that was the key word I used.
Don't let the uninitiated wear you down, it isn't worth the wasted effort to respond.
IMHO only women who are very strong in their day to day lives are secure enough to submit to a man totally. Think Kate in "The Taming of the Shrew". | |
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| Any suggestions from the bdsm crowd?
Posted: 1/28/2007 10:43:24 AM | Hey Bonds, drop me a line.... we are in Brantford and can line you up with some of the local events if you are not already connected. Well said 58 Fuey.... i think that goes for all submissives whether male or female.
bryan | |
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