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| How do you know he/she is the wrong one? Posted: 10/4/2006 10:12:36 PM | | When I've met the wrong one, I have the immediate urge to run. Run far, fast and quickly. I've burned my tongue a few times by this urge, nay, I have left a steaming cup of coffee in order to flee in terror. | |
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| How do you know he/she is the wrong one? Posted: 10/4/2006 10:14:46 PM | You see weezy, that's my biggest fear.
In my past decisions, each time, I could swear he was the “One”. Actually, many people were sure we were made for each other. | |
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| How do you know he/she is the wrong one? Posted: 10/4/2006 10:18:28 PM | | AB Weezy, yeah if you are drinking a hot drink so you can declare "Well, okay I'm done. Ta!" And then you run to your car and keep checking your rear view mirror to ensure he isn't following you. | |
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| How do you know he/she is the wrong one? Posted: 10/4/2006 10:21:34 PM | There are people who make amazing first impressions that are all wrong.
There are people who make bad first impressions that are right.
Gut instincts lie, and the mind can mislead us in decisions of the heart.
No one knows if the person is the right one, or the wrong one. All we can do is keep trying and hope for the best.
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| How do you know he/she is the wrong one? Posted: 10/4/2006 11:00:39 PM | | I personally believe that if you listen to your gut it will tell you wether it is the one or not. If you have ever really loved someone or really liked someone then you know what that feeling is. I have deeply liked and deeply loved so I am going to keep counting on my gut instincts. It will hopefully lead me in the right direction. | |
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| How do you know he/she is the wrong one? Posted: 10/5/2006 12:53:19 AM | A lie. Watching someone lie to someone else is a clear giveaway that she will also lie to you. And my internal fact-filing system chokes even on "white" lies.
Books. I overheard a conversation at work between an extremely intelligent, physically attractive woman and someone else. The otherwise attractive woman couldn't remember the last book she read. It was probably over a year ago. Non-readers are just too DIFFERENT culturally to get along with me.
Cheekbones. There is something in the cheekbone structure that is indefinable, but mandatory for me. I can say yea or nay immediately. If you don't have it, you lose an immediate three or four points (out of ten) on the physical attractiveness scale. | |
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| How do you know he/she is the wrong one? Posted: 10/5/2006 4:37:27 AM | Hmmmm...the wrong one...
When things just don't 'click' on the first meeting (or before).
Alot of dead silence during converations on the puter, phone or in person, that this is not a good sign.
STALKERISH....explaination all in itself.
When one is to busy to make time for you, regardless of what they say...
You can't see yourself locking lips with them....sound crazy...but it's true!!!!
This could go on an on and on like the energizer bunny!!!
Great thread...looking forward to hearing what everyone else thinks!!! | |
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| How do you know he/she is the wrong one? Posted: 10/5/2006 5:05:42 AM | | to post #4 well seing as it is usually women that are taking pictures with male strippers on their ladis nights i suppose thatd cut alot of women out th loop and make them perhaps rethink their posting of pictures | |
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| How do you know he/she is the wrong one? Posted: 10/5/2006 5:47:37 AM | | I like "rays of sunshine"s list....but I would like to add that when they are with you and they are constantly talking about other dates...kind of a wake-up call. | |
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| How do you know he/she is the wrong one? Posted: 10/5/2006 8:05:05 AM | After having b/f's that have turned out the be "the wrong one" and looking back in hindsight. I know the sense they were the wrong one was there... but I didn't know what it was. I'm starting to get better at recognizing this. Finally.
Things that I thought were important don't seem to matter anymore and I'm focusing on other factors now.
Live and learn. | |
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| How do you know he/she is the wrong one? Posted: 10/5/2006 11:48:56 AM | I think you always should have a second date to be sure unless you're absolutely not interested in anything they have to say the first time. Sometimes people are just so nervous on first dates you don't get the real them. I think a lot times you can go with your gut and be right but I think there are a lot of great people you overlook too, who should have been given a chance. Case and point -
how crossed wires can quickly turn simmering sexual tension into awkward humiliation. We've all been misunderstood, misinterpretted, mistaken. If trusting your instincts was always right, we'd all live happy, coupled lives. | |
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| How do you know he/she is the wrong one? Posted: 10/5/2006 12:06:05 PM | | Well i think when you have nothing to say to each other and your opinions don't mesh......i also find that negative people don;t do it either---when the first thing you hear is a complaint or a B**ch then that is the total wrong person!!! | |
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