| After the meeting or date. Male responses needed!
Posted: 3/21/2005 3:52:47 PM | Question To the guys:
Do you expect the girls to contact you after a date if they are interested, or will you contact them if your interested.
Thought I would move this thread as it was hiding in amoungst too many other topics. | |
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| After the meeting or date. Male responses needed!
Posted: 3/21/2005 6:03:03 PM | hi Keycee I would wait a bit, because if she is not interested
maybe she did not say it on date to save my feeling , if i dont
ear from her it give me my answer, but if I realy like her and
I think she does too, maybe I would say high a week later and see
if she respond .
and bye the way, when they say that they like
to live life to the fulless... what the hell is that suppose to mean lol
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guyrob
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Joined: 12/11/2004
Msg: 5 | |
| After the meeting or date. Male responses needed!
Posted: 3/21/2005 6:19:13 PM | | A week later??!! That's way too long. You're gonna lose her interest by then. Dating is all about magic and being spontaneous. If you really like the girl take all your shots the night you get home (by contacting her) or the next day. You got nothing to lose. More than two days doesn't cut it. I'm very impatient and I'd rather know right away if it's a "no" or a "go" rather than fantasize about something that was never meant to be. And remember too that it takes TWO people to like eachother to work or have any meat to a relationship. MOVE ON if your instincts tell you there's no interest comin from the other side--life's too short to WASTE on unwelcome affection. "If at first you don't succeed, try try again". But don't bug the sh*t out of someone if they ain't into you. | |
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| After the meeting or date. Male responses needed!
Posted: 3/21/2005 7:11:39 PM | | It's nice to know if the person is interested in you ,one way or the other. So do them the decency of leting them know they nice person, but not quite what looking for. That way a person isn't sitting around for a call that is never coming. The same as when someone makes a date. For crying out loud, if you can't make it for any reason, call and tell the other person so they don't wait all night for nothing. | |
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guyrob
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Joined: 12/11/2004
Msg: 7 | |
| After the meeting or date. Male responses needed!
Posted: 3/21/2005 8:13:54 PM | | Totally agree, unfortunately, some girls won't give you the time of day once they realize you aren't what they want. They don't really care how nice you are. I wish their was more people out there that showed more respect for one another, like returning your email with a simple "just not interested at this time". I still say honesty is your best policy when dealing with internet dating. You're only fooling yourself if you lie. | |
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| After the meeting or date. Male responses needed!
Posted: 3/21/2005 9:08:14 PM | Yes it is a very good policy to let people know right away. Guyrob told me I was no good for him. lol Said something about wanting kids someday. That tossed me to the curb right there. lmao.
But I guess all that doesnt count cause we where at the hamilton get together when we met and he told me that.
Not on a date.lol
WE still buddies though. | |
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Shawn2
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Joined: 1/19/2005
Msg: 10 | |
| After the meeting or date. Male responses needed!
Posted: 3/21/2005 9:17:29 PM | well I think it would all depend on who went to see who
if I go to see you then when i get home I would hope that you would have contacted me
if you came to see me then I would be expected to contact you
but if both are interested they would definately want to be contacting eatch other anyhow and make plans for the next visit before leaving eatch other | |
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| After the meeting or date. Male responses needed!
Posted: 3/22/2005 6:04:12 AM | Well Its just good manners to contact one another and say thanks for taking the time out of your busy life to come meet me. If you don't think you want to date, fine It gives you the opportunity to still be friends. Last thing you wants someone out there stabbing you in the back. Thats what ex's and the Canadian government are for.
I like Shawns Idea. On whoever went to see whom. We need to post a POF Fishing Guide. | |
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Sliv
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Joined: 3/9/2005
Msg: 13 | |
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guyrob
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Joined: 12/11/2004
Msg: 14 | |
| After the meeting or date. Male responses needed!
Posted: 3/22/2005 1:24:51 PM | | Maybe it's just the area we live in, but the rule of thumb is that the man makes all the initiatives, including paying for dates, and making contacts. I find this to be true with the women in this area of the world. Maybe in L.A. or New York you got more aggressive women, but here it's expected the guy leads the way, in the beginning anyways. The worst is when you're waiting for her to call, and she's waiting for you to call, and no one calls. hehehe | |
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guyrob
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Joined: 12/11/2004
Msg: 15 | |
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| After the meeting or date. Male responses needed!
Posted: 3/22/2005 1:56:26 PM | to add one more male response:
a quick message/call to say "thanks - had a great time" is essential (only if you really did..)
otherwise,
a quick "thanks-nice to meet you, good luck in your search!"
honesty is refreshingly nice!!! | |
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Keycee
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Joined: 8/22/2004
Msg: 18 | |
| After the meeting or date. Male responses needed!
Posted: 3/22/2005 5:05:54 PM | ROB-Yeah a couple coyotee snacks will do just fine. Till the Padster throws them up and swallows.
Rob dear the coydog just ate our children. Unless of course the children came out of old Cleo. In which case......the children just ate the dog dear. lol. | |
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guyrob
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Joined: 12/11/2004
Msg: 19 | |
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| After the meeting or date. Male responses needed!
Posted: 3/22/2005 6:22:52 PM | hi KEYCEE would a woman be insulted if I tell her
that I would like to go out dancing or supper as friend
but i dont want to get involve any further, would that be
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Keycee
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Joined: 8/22/2004
Msg: 22 | |
| After the meeting or date. Male responses needed!
Posted: 3/22/2005 6:54:35 PM | No it would not be. As long as you make that clear. However let me ask you this......
With her knowing that, and living on a hectic schedual, would it be an insult to you if she is having great difficulties fitting it into her work scheduale and persueing her search of a relationship? | |
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guyrob
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Joined: 12/11/2004
Msg: 24 | |
| After the meeting or date. Male responses needed!
Posted: 3/22/2005 8:15:17 PM | Casanova: the dinner idea is great and would make a good start to a friendship. She won't be insulted. If she is, she's a loser.
Keycee: can't create a relationship if you don't have the time in your schedule. I find the hardest people to date are the ones that are workaholics, cause they value work over everything else. This is a tough one cause everyone has to make a living. Maybe the best thing to do is to each sacrifice time/wage for eachother. Can't build a home without the bricks. | |
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| After the meeting or date. Male responses needed!
Posted: 3/22/2005 8:33:25 PM |
Totally agree, unfortunately, some girls won't give you the time of day once they realize you aren't what they want. They don't really care how nice you are. I wish their was more people out there that showed more respect for one another, like returning your email with a simple "just not interested at this time". I still say honesty is your best policy when dealing with internet dating. You're only fooling yourself if you lie.
Guyrob I coulden't agree with you more. | |
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