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 2uneek

Joined: 10/12/2005
Msg: 1
Any Happy people left in this state?
Posted: 10/10/2006 7:02:56 AM
Yes I know there's a few...but I think there's gotta be more than 10 of us...I hope?

We all know its gotten pretty rough in this state lately, but Im noticing that there ARE a lot of angry people fed up with Michigan.

Looking to hear from the happy and un-happy...and to see if this can get more than 10 postings.
 aspiring_angel

Joined: 1/25/2006
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Posted: 10/10/2006 7:36:59 AM
Define happy

Our economy is a wreck right now. Am I happy about that? No. But I have 2 jobs, a roof over my head, a car and food on the table. I'm one of the lucky ones; so many unemployed here. Just wait for the UP gas bills to start arriving this winter. *ouch* {mortgage or heat?}

I've thought of moving to Florida where I could make some actual money and pay off some of these accumulating bills. I wonder how many feel the same way?
 2uneek

Joined: 10/12/2005
Msg: 3
Any Happy people left in this state?
Posted: 10/10/2006 7:49:08 AM
Happy would mean genuinely happy. Some of the michigan threads I've read have a lot of bitter people sounding off...at least it seems.
I can side with you on having the neccessities and a job...or 2. Im lucky in that regard myself.

As far as moving out of state...I seriously considered it myself and even posted a question in the Texas threads to see what kind of info I got...WOW!
Im sure alot of people feel the same including myself...especially when you take a look at other states that are really BOOOOMING...and have anywhere from 10-20% cheper cost of living. Take a look at the kind of home you can get in Texas for $150,000...things that make ya go hmmmm....
 juzlookin35

Joined: 2/7/2006
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Posted: 10/10/2006 8:33:22 AM
Hey Angel,

Florida isn't the bargain it used to be, the economy is pretty weak over here, and with all the hurricanes, property insurance is through the roof.

I heard that Tennessee and Texas are great places to live, and my brother loves North Carolina where he is.

I have looked at houses in Texas, unbelievable what your money will buy there, I wonder how the schools are.
 2uneek

Joined: 10/12/2005
Msg: 5
Any Happy people left in this state?
Posted: 10/10/2006 8:43:09 AM
Check out the Texas threads and look for my thread. I got 4 pages full of information. Suburban schools are better than Dallas/Houston public schools.

If people here wonder why Texas is soooo great....look at the thread. Just about everyone welcomed me and gave me advice.

So far not much here...
 almasy

Joined: 1/16/2006
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Posted: 10/10/2006 11:14:22 AM
It's only going to get worse as winter roles in, you'd be suprised how many people suffer from seasonal depression. When the weather get's cold, so do the women. As for me, I don't really care, I'm an indoors kind of guy anywho.
 luv2laff

Joined: 10/11/2004
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Posted: 10/10/2006 11:31:31 AM
Just chiming in with my 2 cents - since you asked! I personally am happy in Michigan and will probably stay here forever - (knocking on wood) I have a good job - decent house - beautiful child - and good friends. And I am truly thankful for what I have - and my heart does go out to those who are experiencing the rough times....peace
 MrEmptyPants

Joined: 10/3/2006
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Posted: 10/10/2006 1:35:21 PM
Mr Emptypants is always happy....but then again, Mr Emptypants is on alot of meds
 susieq48195

Joined: 9/6/2006
Msg: 9
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Posted: 10/10/2006 3:38:20 PM
I can say I am happy... everything may not be perfect in michigan....or any where else for that fact. But I wake up breathing everyday and have a decent job and a decent place to live, and my friends and family...Now if I could just find the rite guy!!!!!!!
 gsr1197

Joined: 10/4/2006
Msg: 10
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Posted: 10/10/2006 4:27:57 PM
I can say that even though our economy isn't the greatest right now, it will pick up someday. I have lived in other states and I prefer to live in Michigan. It is nice living right next to one of the big lakes and I have a great job and also can you really enjoy the outdoors in Florida as much as you can here in Michigan? I can say I am happy living here and as long as there are jobs, I will continue to live here until I die.
 cats+dogs

Joined: 4/17/2006
Msg: 11
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Posted: 10/10/2006 5:58:31 PM
i've thought of moving but have realized that another place would not make me happy.
would miss my family and friends and even my jobs some days. i've found that i can be unhappy anywhere or happy anywhere and that is up to me to find happiness in what i do and who i am. i was upset at work and i realized that it was just hurting me and wasn't changing anything, so i let rememberthe serenity prayer:
God, grant me the serenity to acept the things i can't change,
the courage to change the things i can,
and the wisdom to know the difference.
sometimes it helps sometimes no.
i only can control my own self and how I feel.
 scottie39

Joined: 12/23/2005
Msg: 12
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Posted: 10/10/2006 9:17:26 PM
oh any day sober is a happy day im not in prison, half my check goes to friend of the court ,the tigers won it dont get any better than this. I thank the big guy everyday for what i used to have and what i might have tomorrow. He only gives you what you need. Put a smile on your face and live life cause you cant take nothing you have now with you later.
 2uneek

Joined: 10/12/2005
Msg: 13
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Posted: 10/11/2006 7:05:28 AM
Thats better!! Some happy and thankful people around here. I was starting to get disappointed and concerned that the people in Michigan would need to start packin it up and moving elsewhere. At least now I can see that there's still some sunshine to go around.
 Gentle_Knight

Joined: 7/14/2006
Msg: 14
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Posted: 10/11/2006 8:13:12 AM
I'm not from Michigan, but I'm happy to be here. The schools are great, the trees are beautiful, and the decorations are starting to sprout in the yards in preparation for Halloween. I know the economy is tough, but my company is doing great and we're expanding. My son is pulling his grades up, and we've started to look at colleges. And, best of all, I have a date with the most beautiful woman in this whole fish market tonight!

I think a lot of the unhappiness that you perceive on here is depression. The loss of a loved one can have that effect whether from death, divorce, or a break-up. It's not a reflection on the overall happiness of the state of Michigan or any other state. Instead it's a temporary grief that will pass with time and the support of good company.

On the other hand, if you were actually asking the question because you thought we needed a hedonistic, blowout party to cheer everyone up, count me in.
 2uneek

Joined: 10/12/2005
Msg: 15
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Posted: 10/11/2006 8:58:59 AM
Awesome response knight and very good take on it.

Now about that party...we're definitely going to need some chicks and beer!!!
 aack

Joined: 6/17/2006
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Posted: 10/11/2006 9:39:08 AM
I've seen a lot of people moving to Chicago. As for me... I'd say happy no but thankful yes. But just because I'm not genuinely happy/elated/whatever with life, that doesn't mean I'm outwardly unhappy or bitter or anything. It's not a black and white thing, and on top of that "happy" could mean a variety of things. I used to go out with a nurse who wanted everything ranked on a scale from 1-10... actually a pretty good methodology.

HOORAY BEER!!!
 2uneek

Joined: 10/12/2005
Msg: 17
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Posted: 10/11/2006 10:31:08 AM
mmmmm BEEEEEEER!!!
 Jeremy16

Joined: 12/10/2005
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Posted: 10/11/2006 6:50:13 PM
**** dude i am pretty happy
 novemberstorm

Joined: 9/25/2005
Msg: 19
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Posted: 10/11/2006 7:17:15 PM
Has anyone looked into the possibilities of a move to New Mexico? I got ahold of the Albuquerque Journal, a Sunday edition and I could not believe the job listings they had....it seemed like pages. Housing is very reasonable there too. It is a very pretty place anywhere you go there I think. Just thought I would toss that out to anyone interested.
 Paddle_grl

Joined: 10/8/2006
Msg: 20
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Posted: 10/11/2006 8:43:58 PM
I am very happy! Winter is the best time to go hiking/snoshoeing and canoeing...everything is all pretty and white!! not to mention the wonderful fall colors going on right now....michigan is a great state...well...at least until I move to colorado...little to flat here in the Trollville....
 aspiring_angel

Joined: 1/25/2006
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Posted: 10/12/2006 5:33:54 AM
Since I'm the self elected bartender of MI POF, I'll donate my services as beer goddess for those beers Let me know where and when.

Awesome game by the Tigers last night
 2uneek

Joined: 10/12/2005
Msg: 22
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Posted: 10/12/2006 6:12:05 AM
Then start serving em up...beer goddess!! Heck its gotta be noon somewhere! Well just start the TGIF party a little early!!! YES the TIgers are on a HOT STREAK...and Im pretty confident now they'll make the World Series!!
 tallguy337

Joined: 8/10/2005
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Posted: 10/12/2006 6:36:45 AM
I'm fairly happy right now too, michigan seems to be the only state left that keeps everyone on their toes its unpredictable and thats what i like. and even when winter gets here i have a car and my job is only 15 minutes away, outside from that i dont go anywhwere else outside of kalamazoo...soooo im pretty happy
 ladyc4

Joined: 2/14/2006
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Posted: 10/12/2006 4:40:18 PM

I've seen a lot of people moving to Chicago.

What do you suppose is the matter with them??

Seriously, I've been here all my life and have very deep roots here...never tempted to go elsewhere.
I'll grant that people who have lost their jobs, or are having trouble finding one, are entitled to be worried and even angry. But worry and anger in and of themselves are not going to fix anything. Sad as it may be perhaps their best bet IS to relocate( I'm NOT recommending Chicago)
I'm a retiree on a fixed income, and I did myself a TREMENDOUS favor by selling my home downstate(GR/Kent County) and buying a smaller place up here in north central MI. I have a dependable 4X4, so I don't worry about going where I need/want to go. People are nice here, it's easy to hire someone to do handyman work for a FAIR price( instead of trying to gouge me due to my former location and lack of a man to do my thinking for me).
I will admit that the gas prices this past summer did affect my fleamarket selling, and somewhat limit the amount of travel I could do to visit family/friends or just do fun stuff...but I survived it...
So yes overall I'd say I'm VERY happy!
Cindy O
 ripley65

Joined: 7/29/2005
Msg: 25
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Posted: 10/13/2006 4:58:44 AM
Well i vote that we move our state a bit more further south,,now THAT would make me happier! lol Brrrrrrrr its coooooold out there!
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