| Strap-on dildo Posted: 3/23/2005 8:01:27 AM | | I asked several men what was their deepest sexual fantasy and a number of them keep on coming up. 20 percent wanted to try sex with a member of their own gender. 50 percent wanted to try a threesome with two females. 30 percent wanted to engage in sexual power play with a woman with a strap on dildo. This last one shocked me. Why ? | |
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| Strap-on dildo Posted: 3/23/2005 8:10:50 AM | Did you conduct your survey in a gay bar? Woman with a strap on dildo.....nasty! | |
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| Strap-on dildo Posted: 3/23/2005 8:33:41 AM | If a man were bicurious, wouldn't this be an ideal way for him to test himself out?
If he's not sure he'd find a M-M experience good, what better way to test it than with a woman who can take on that role? | |
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| Strap-on dildo Posted: 3/23/2005 8:36:05 AM | | Just a question....but why is it acceptable to see a woman get a c*ck real or plastic shoved up her bum, but its not for a guy to enjoy the same thing?? I say whats good for the goose is good for the gander as well, regardless of orientation. Because the ultimate outcome is that they want to be with YOU, why should it matter how they like it?? | |
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Sliv
| Joined: 3/9/2005 Msg: 5 | |
| Strap-on dildo Posted: 3/23/2005 9:06:56 AM | | Same reason not many woman would like a fake pus*y shoved in their face. You're either bi/gay or you're not. | |
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| Strap-on dildo Posted: 3/23/2005 9:32:53 AM | My bf requested the same thing once. Thankfully, he stopped asking. I love him and want to make him happy but in bed, he's a MAN and I'm a WOMAN. I ain't switching anything. Ever ! I'm all for being an empowered woman but I expect my man to come home to me, pull me into his arms and make passionate love to me until I squeal or I beg for mercy. No way in hell am I doing THAT to HIM. As for his "tool", he can put it anywhere in my body, and I won't mind. I'm all for experimenting.  | |
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| Strap-on dildo Posted: 3/23/2005 9:36:21 AM | OMG this dude off here, 1st(and only) chat we had turned into him telling me about the new dildo he bought that night and how great it felt up his A$$...I was SHOCKED...of all the things I have heard that was a 1st!! was a young guy 2 | |
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| Strap-on dildo Posted: 3/23/2005 9:38:39 AM | Holy Crap!!!
If my man asked me to put on a strap on, and Fu__ him in the a55.
I would run as fast as I could. Right after I called him a little Bit_h.
Nasty Nasty Nasty!!! | |
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| Strap-on dildo Posted: 3/23/2005 10:08:09 AM | | Sorry guys but I have to dissagree with you on this one. Having something shoved up your butt does not make you gay at all. I have been with a few woman in my day and have enjoyed the pleasures that most of them have given me including anal playing which also included everything from fingers to tongues and whatever else they wanted to use up there. Hell if we can do that to them then why can't they do that to us. Again its not for eveyone but for the one's that like to enjoy sex at a higher level then have a ball, I do. | |
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| Strap-on dildo Posted: 3/23/2005 10:12:12 AM | Yeah I dont think it makes you gay... now if you preferd that over the hitting the "beaver"..then I would question it | |
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| Spankie Posted: 3/23/2005 10:13:41 AM | The mans G-Spot is in his a55!!!
Anal Beads OK. NOt the strap on, though.
At least for me. | |
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Sliv
| Joined: 3/9/2005 Msg: 13 | |
| Spankie Posted: 3/23/2005 10:15:03 AM | | I guess it depends on how you define bisexual. If you have a dik and like diks, fake or not, to me that is bisexuality *shrug* | |
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| Spankie Posted: 3/23/2005 10:15:41 AM | I like anal sex (if done right)
LOL. | |
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| Spankie Posted: 3/23/2005 10:20:46 AM | Some men love it,not me. But they love there prostate massage buy some big strap on. | |
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| Strap-on dildo Posted: 3/23/2005 10:25:54 AM | | I'll be quite honest, i've never even thought of this before. Partially because i've been one of the guys who associate any sort of anal play with bisexuality, however i think i'm being too narrow minded for my own good. If a woman approached me with it, I'd be open about it ... not nessisarily to having a rubber dink shoved up my pooper, but to try like a finger or a small but plug or something ... i'd have to admit that i'd be open about it ... mind you i'd want as much warning as possible soo i can sit there with the scrub brush for a while (not that i'm not clean down there, i just want to be sure) | |
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medana
| Joined: 3/15/2005 Msg: 17 | |
| Strap-on dildo Posted: 3/23/2005 11:21:03 AM |
hello?
What is wrong with you guys?
why do we need to tell others how they should live their lives? and who is to say our way is better?
i don't think strap ons means u r gay... actually i would love to do that on a man... it simply switches the tone around and he becomes the lil b*tch for a change... and flexibility is something i like when it comes to sex... some days u feel agressive, some days passive... ever wondered what it is like to be a woman and have sex?
that's an easy way to kinda get an idea...
i think it's hotttttttt | |
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| Strap-on dildo Posted: 3/24/2005 5:54:24 AM | wow I love the witty responses in this thread however it is a matter of personal preference I have talked to a few people who do or know of people who do this regularly and honestly it seems the more outwardly macho a guy is the more he seems to like femme dom in the bedroom I am extremly excited by the idea of femme dom and humiliation/ forced femminization. It is a personal preferance that I like a woman who can be both dom and sub. I agree the man has a prostate that equals a male g-spot but just as it seems some women can be older before even discovering a clit based orgasm due to weird sensations expierianced in their exploratory stages wrt the clitoris.Many men will never desire to expieriance anal stimulatuion of any kind .That is their choice and I respect that .However they should also at least respect if not accept that this is a very personal choice and really no one elses business but the participants.men like anal just like women like anal because it feels good to them and is a sexual avenue many desire to try .As to wether or not strap on anal makes a guy gay I don't think so because for many it is the female power that is exciting mentaly and the stimulation is purely anal andhas little to do with the penis.It is not that a man who does this is thinking about some well hung convict as he is getting done,rather he is looking at a beautifull sexy woman and is willing to do anything to please her and she is completly in charge it is simply an off shoot of femme dom one which is growing in the publics veiw heck even hustler did a spread on f/m strap domme in 2002 (that is about as mainstream as you get I think (ie not some underground mag).
Cosmo. | |
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xander
| Joined: 2/22/2005 Msg: 19 | |
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| Strap-on dildo Posted: 3/24/2005 8:15:12 AM | Cosmo darling you absolutely rock! I love you more and more each day  | |
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| Strap-on dildo Posted: 3/24/2005 8:23:31 AM | Strap-on dildo...I would use one ona girl but a man hell no...now sucking the c..k an fingering it is okay or licking it while down south is very sexy me... I love it in the ass.if done right that is
Summer  | |
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| Strap-on dildo Posted: 3/24/2005 9:38:19 AM | I'd love to GIVE and TAKE anal. I'd do a guy in the a55 with a strap on and then have him grease me up and shove his manly tool where the sun doesn't shine.....lol. BTW, what happens between me and my man should stay between us. If he tells his buddies I like it in the a55, I dump HIM !!!! | |
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| Strap-on dildo Posted: 3/24/2005 9:58:55 AM | ummmm..that is totally cool that you like to give and receive blackstorm, but why dump a dude just because he tells his buddies?? If he mentions it, why not regail his friends with detailed account of how HE likes it up the ass and if you can, show em the toy you use!  | |
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| Strap-on dildo Posted: 3/24/2005 10:09:29 AM | sweetie you said you wouldn't show any one that picture . ..

I mean uh oh I am going to have my hands full with ltl whip | |
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| Strap-on dildo Posted: 3/24/2005 10:14:03 AM | I like it... it's more about the turn on it is for the woman doing it
I guess we heard from a few homophobes on this one..... | |
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