| bein in love with more then 1person
Posted: 3/23/2005 12:37:51 PM | | i have a problem im kind of lost i was with this one guy for aleast 12years on n off till i meet my baby daddy well im still in love with both how can i get over them cause actully one dont want to be with me the other does but i dont want to be with him i kind of like sumone else but he wont have nothin to do with me so plz tell me what i should do thanks | |
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| bein in love with more then 1person
Posted: 3/23/2005 1:05:56 PM | I believe the correct term we are all searching for is...."Punctuation."
But to answer her question....you cant make anyone want you and you have to be honest with the people that you do not want as well. It sounds like you are in a situation that you have no need to be. Just focus on you and your child...all the others, regardless of whether or not they are the "baby's daddy" or not, is irrelevant. Game playing is for childen, you are a mother and eventually you will find a true man who will want to be there for you. | |
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| bein in love with more then 1person
Posted: 3/23/2005 1:12:45 PM | Yeah..okay, totally missed that one.....
Another piece of advice....it isnt ANY better with a woman than it is with a man. Just to warn ya....In actuality, it may be twice the clothes but double the PMS!! | |
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| bein in love with more then 1person
Posted: 3/23/2005 2:18:08 PM | Grammer would be nice, wouldn't have gotten a headache trying to figure out exactly what all that meant...
Anyway, sounds like you need to do some Soul Searching for this... Maybe even seek some Temporary Consuling to get somethings straight in your head...
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| bein in love with more then 1person
Posted: 3/23/2005 2:25:38 PM | | You need to discover yourself and maybe work on self-esteem issues. It helps if you know what you are really looking for in a relationship (counseling might be a good thing to try). We depend on another to fill the void within us and really we need to fill the void first and learn to love ourselves. Then we can invite another to join us (hope that made sense). | |
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| bein in love with more then 1person
Posted: 3/29/2005 8:00:04 PM | | well guess what i movin on with my life n i think im goin to find me a nice n non cheatin ass n get with a girl | |
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| bein in love with more then 1person
Posted: 3/29/2005 8:00:24 PM | | well guess what i movin on with my life n i think im goin to find me a nice n non cheatin ass n get with a girl | |
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Posted: 3/29/2005 8:43:59 PM | Well....I wish you well with whatever you CHOOSE to do with your life...but I sense alot of unhappiness. It`s not important who you love...it`s just important that you love...redneckgirl133 | |
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| bein in love with more then 1person
Posted: 3/29/2005 10:15:08 PM | | lilmiss.... you might want to consider taking some time for you to just be with you and your child, i believe 'whip' mentioned something to that effect. try it... get your own self and thoughts and life figured out before dragging someone else into the foray. | |
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LoganX
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Joined: 3/29/2005
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| bein in love with more then 1person
Posted: 3/29/2005 11:59:16 PM | If you feel that person is important, they you may want to try what you can to win them over.
Of course, as people have said, there are no garantees it will work.
If it doesn't, which is most likely the case, judging from the scenario you discribed, then
you have to find a way to let go.
Sometimes it helps to look at the loss as a death. The person you knew, loved, & wanted
is gone. Believe me, I know how that is. | |
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Posted: 3/30/2005 11:06:40 PM | *still laughing at ltlwhip's comment about punctuation*
Maybe you should get out of relationships, all together, and raise your child with morals and ethics, so that hopefully they won't be in your situation when they're your age. | |
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| bein in love with more then 1person
Posted: 4/19/2005 7:33:21 PM | | well people i did i dont love either of them guys im only there friend i find my true love that i been waitin for | |
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| bein in love with more then 1person
Posted: 4/19/2005 7:45:28 PM | Your propensity for improper punctuation, run-on sentences, and your well-thought out (quite effortlessly, really) post causes one to reflect on the necessity of learning English.
To hasten your discovery of a good woman, man, and a few friends, I highly recommend searching in the forum for the thread entitled, 'Spelling.' Certainly, they will welcome you as a shining example. | |
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| bein in love with more then 1person
Posted: 1/8/2006 3:25:24 PM | well im back well im not with either guys we are all good friend n yeh i a still talk to them both im not dating noone n im in love with woman n its a shame it took me this long  | |
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| bein in love with more then 1person
Posted: 1/8/2006 3:26:21 PM | | well im back well im not with either guys we are all good friend n yeh i a still talk to them both im not dating noone n im in love with woman n its a shame it took me this long | |
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Joined: 3/12/2005
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| bein in love with more then 1person
Posted: 1/8/2006 3:49:20 PM | ok so let me get this straight...
1) you're in love with 2 men
2) 1 wants to be with you and the other one doesn't
3) You want to be with the one that doesnt want to be with you
4) You dont want to be with the one that does want to be with you
I dont get it...how can you say that youre in love with someone but you dont want to be with them even if they want to be with you?
The answer is that you're not in love with him...otherwise you'd be with him....so what you're left with is being in love with someone that doesnt love you...so then then your one and only option is to move on and forget them both. | |
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| bein in love with more then 1person
Posted: 1/8/2006 3:53:14 PM | "You love her,
She loves him,
and he loves somebody else,
You just can't win.."
Sing with me if you know the words... | |
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| bein in love with more then 1person
Posted: 1/10/2006 12:56:32 PM | well im not in love with either guys now i did find the right guy to be with just waitin on him dont want to rash things plus i think im lil on the bi thing i like is girl but shes with someone but she feels the same way i do so just i cant be with her ? | |
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