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| For The Guys- Would you seriously date an ex-prostitute?
Posted: 10/22/2006 1:16:55 AM | | No. Too much history that my sorry brain could not comprehend, plus the fact that I would not be able to understand the mind it takes to do that type of thing. But, I get that alot as well,..... I'm a Cartoonist!!! :) | |
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| For The Guys- Would you seriously date an ex-prostitute?
Posted: 10/22/2006 8:39:36 AM | Nope. And not because she was a prostitute. The problem comes in the number of sexual partners someone has. Since prostitutes usually have a large number of sexual partners, it follows that the risk of not only AIDS but much higher risk of Uterine & Cervical Cancer.
I've already lost the love of my life to cancer, and she worked hard to take good care of herself. Seems like getting involved with someone that puts herself into an unnecessary risk group is just not a very good choice for a wife. | |
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Posted: 10/22/2006 9:04:42 AM | | We've all done things we aren't proud of. It would depend on the person of course, but my past experience has been that most women that become prostitutes did so because of their life situation, being forced to, or because of no other way to support themselves. Minimum wage being what it is doesn't allow survival in most major urban areas. A strong case has been made for the traditional husband wife relationship where the male provides the financial support in the relationship and gets sex and housekeeping, as well as child rearing in return, could be interpreted as prostitution in a way (which is why it's called the world's oldest profession). So yes, I would date a woman like that. Before any sexual contact I would insist on our both being tested for all STD's (yes both, even though I haven't been sexually active since my divorce, it's only fair). | |
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Posted: 10/22/2006 9:26:31 AM | willy100076 (OP),
I wouldn't deny a woman automatically just because she was an ex-prostitute... However, I can say that there's about a 100% chance I wouldn't date one, because of the virtually gaurenteed emotional problems and issues she has. Plus, the concept is an obvious turn off (you'd have to fall for them first, before hearing about it)...
However (imaginary scenario), if I were dating a woman who once needed money for college, but was against stripping... but was a high-class escort of a legitimate non-prostitutional escort service... and did a few things on the side every once in a great while to sugar daddies for huge amounts of cash... I don't think she'd necessarily have a 100% chance of having emotional problems and issues, thus, I guess if the woman was a great match for me, I'd definitely overlook her past of occasional whoring to sugar daddies.
For me, it isn't that "she was a prostitute" -- it doesn't even get to that point. If she's a great match, she's a great match. 99.99% chance though, if she was a prostitute before, whether I knew it or not, I wouldn't be dating her. :) | |
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Posted: 10/22/2006 9:40:05 AM | | i have.she got herself out of the life,educated and is having a great life.a child and a good man in her life....(we didn't work out but not because of her past) first you gotta ask (your self)how she got there(this is where compassion for others comes in) and what it took for her to get out...it's not like she wanted to be a prostitute when she grew up..not a young girls dream, is it | |
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Posted: 10/22/2006 12:51:11 PM | I know this says 'for the guys' but curious here..
I don't know if I could date a man who was a 'giggilo' myself, but looking at it open mindedly; what's the difference between a person with many previous partners and a prostitute? The money exchanged. So is the problem that she's had many partners? Or that she accepted money for it?
If this is something you're dealing with personally right now, then I'm saying perhaps you should look at *why* it bothers you... | |
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Posted: 10/22/2006 4:38:48 PM | | I think we have all made mistakes that we are not to proud of in all our lifetimes, I know I have. If she has changed and living right I don't see a problem with it. Men will punch everything in site, even f**k a pile of rocks if they thought there was a snake under it so what is the difference, she was just smart enough to get money for it | |
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Posted: 10/22/2006 7:32:41 PM | | i would have to say that i agree with the bucket dude here...lol i have more respect for a woman that gets money for being used for sex than someone that just whores around and gets nothing in return....just like some men will spend alot of money on a date and get nothing at the end of the night...it's a win win situation | |
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| For The Guys- Would you seriously date an ex-prostitute?
Posted: 10/22/2006 7:40:41 PM |
some women are forced into it just to pay their bills
No one is "forced" into a job to pay the bills - that is just an excuse to deflect responsibility away from the person
I could care less if she has been a prostitute. So What? It is just a job, not unlike many other jobs. I don't think the job is a "mistake" that needs forgiven - how pompous one has to be to say that.
I would rather date a prostitute than a used car salesperson - I think hooking is more respectable.
People are not their jobs - their jobs are their jobs - and the people are people. | |
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Posted: 10/23/2006 9:23:26 AM | good call verboten lol
Anyhow, here is the crux of prostitute versus promiscuous and why one is more desirable than the other: it is more likely that the prostitute has had sex with people that she didn't want to have sex with. That would make her less desirably sexually, I would think.
That being said, it would depend for me on the circumstances. I don't know how I would handle it; hasn't come up, yet. | |
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Posted: 10/23/2006 2:32:30 PM | MMMM...Yes I would and I have dated several in my lifetime. My only problem with them was that they would not commit. I see nothing different between them and a slut or the girl next door except that she was smart enough to get paid for it.
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