| | Did I do something wrong??Page 1 of 1 | Hi there I join about a month ago , want to say hello and I enjoy this website. Now I find the nerve to ask a question so here we go. I want to know why it is that if a guy is attracted to a woman he does not make any moves to ask her out or call her at least? But he lets her know he likes her but whats the problem?
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s286
| | Joined: 10/15/2006
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| Did I do something wrong??
Posted: 10/22/2006 11:37:56 AM | Ok first what do you mean by "lets her know he likes her"? How exactly does he do that?
Isn't that "makin' a move", or...
Most of the time we're afraid of getting shot down. For example, there's a little redhead who's got me on her fav's list. (finally figured out how to use that feature thismorning)
I'm afraid to write her. For all I know, she's afraid to write me. So we've got this mexican standoff going.. 
Then there's the "I don't know what to say to this one right now so I'll put her on my list & think of something later." thing. Hopefully I'll come up with something later but as of yet.. Haven't.
I did write to one- No reply as of yet. Betcha I don't get one.
So yeah, I'd say the main problem on our side is fear. Now if you write to us first, I'll give it an 90% chance you'll get a reply back. You may run for your life after reading it but I can pretty much guarantee if females show interest in males first we'll get over that fear of getting shot down.
So go for it. Make your move(s) and see what happens. You have nothing to loose. | |
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| Did I do something wrong??
Posted: 10/22/2006 12:05:38 PM | | Low self-esteem, very little self-worth or the girl is possibilly unaproachable. Has in she is never in a place where he feels safe being rejected. | |
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| Did I do something wrong??
Posted: 10/22/2006 12:10:29 PM | communicate and lubricate!
he's waiting on something, just ask him a question he has to answer such as!
on our first date would you like to have sex and get to know each other afterwards. | |
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| Did I do something wrong??
Posted: 10/22/2006 1:37:49 PM | | Well first she was happy to know he was attracted to her, but I found out they work in the same place but now she no longer works there, she is hoping now maybe he will call her, I know lots of people do not like to mix business with pleasure, but on her last day of work he gave her a kiss goodbye so she is now confuse wondering will he call or not. I asked her did she make a first move she said he did and then he got real serious about it then did not speak to her for a few days. now u see why she is confused, then why did he kiss her goodbye is it a man thing? | |
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| Did I do something wrong??
Posted: 10/22/2006 2:10:09 PM | If I was liking a specific woman I would work the same way. I will make it blatantly obvious that I like her and then the ball is in her court. All she needs to do is contact me by whatever means necessary and make it apparent that she is interested. Sometimes I may initiate that I am intrested a second time just in case there is shyness or uncertainty in her.
If i get no response I take it as a complete lack of interest/attraction and I move on | |
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| Did I do something wrong??
Posted: 10/22/2006 2:12:57 PM | maybe he's just a huggy kissy guy!
it maybe she was a target in his career goals and now that she quit he has no use for her.
but if he likes her for real she just needs to get in his space, and let the magic happen! | |
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