| He always puts himself in my line of vision.- Is he interested?
Posted: 10/24/2006 8:42:51 AM | Okay so this is my question. For the last few weeks I have noticed this guy at a club that I am a regular at frequently looking at me. He also seems to need to have a smoke when my friends and I are outside. He always puts himself in my line of vision. I think he is totally hot and would like to talk to him but I am not sure if he is interested. Please give me your honest opinion about whether he is interested or not.
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| Is he interested?
Posted: 10/24/2006 8:44:42 AM | | Maybe or he is interested in one of your friends. Next time it happens, give him a nice smile and say hello and try to get a conversation going. | |
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| Is he interested?
Posted: 10/24/2006 8:48:29 AM | | That's originally what I was thinking but lately I have had a different friend with me every time I go out. | |
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| Is he interested?
Posted: 10/24/2006 8:52:50 AM | I think if the guy is making a point of checking you out and making eye contact with you then hes definately interested. Perhaps hes just one of the shy types that doesn't know how to start up a conversation without putting his foot in his mouth.. lol
Best way to find out is to grab a bull by the horns.. so I would just say to take the time to bump into him at the club and say hello...
i'll even give you a line to use on him... lol
"hi, i've seen you here a few times before and i just noticed you from across the room, how'd you like to buy me a drink and dance with me?"
if hes interested, he'll damn well buy you that drink and hit the dance floor. ( although, if hes a shy guy, he might not be too good at dancing )
anyways, good luck.
just remember sometimes you have to make things happen rather than waiting for them to happen.
cheers. | |
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| Is he interested?
Posted: 10/24/2006 9:07:37 AM | | Thanks Road Trip. Oh and just so you know he is a great dancer. | |
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| Is he interested?
Posted: 10/24/2006 9:32:58 AM | That's a tough one.
Just try to make eye contact. If he has the onions he'll come talk to you. | |
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| Is he interested?
Posted: 10/24/2006 9:42:55 AM | So talk to him.
"Loose your lighter" & ask him for one.
Heck, I dunno, do something. If he keeps looking, he's interested. S'pecially if you 2 seem to find yourselves in the same place at the same time alot. It's a good thing. | |
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| Is he interested?
Posted: 10/24/2006 10:04:23 AM | If he is looking at you all the time he should be interested but maybe he's too shy to come and chat to you.
Im normally shy when im go out and i know its stupid but if i like a girl i dont want to talk to her incase she doesnt like me.
The best thing you can do is go chat to him when you see him next, maybe ask him for a light when you go for a smoke or just say hi when you go past.
Good luck
Phil | |
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| Is he interested?
Posted: 10/24/2006 11:17:52 AM | Try to make eye contact. Immediately after you do, go over and chat with him.
Guys are nervous approaching women because they've been shot down before. Girls rarely approach guys because it's not the "typical thing". As a result, he likely hasn't had a lot of girls come right up to him and start talking to him. This fact means that even if he isn't really interested, you are not likely to be completely rejected like a guy would often be. It's really a small risk for you, if you are afraid of rejection.
Just go over, and make small talk. If he's interested, he will be even more interested now because you took the initiative. And if he isn't, you talk with him for 2 minutes, and wish him a good night and walk away. | |
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| Is he interested?
Posted: 10/24/2006 11:21:54 AM | Why wait for him?
You're interested in him right? So go talk to him. | |
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| Is he interested?
Posted: 10/24/2006 12:44:18 PM | | next time flash him and see if you get a response. | |
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| Is he interested?
Posted: 10/24/2006 12:58:06 PM | go over to him, smile, and ask if he wants to play doctor with you...
ok maybe a simple "hello" first. | |
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| Is he interested?
Posted: 10/24/2006 1:30:18 PM | Just walk up to him and TALK to him! then you'll found out!
wow! that was complicated! | |
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| Is he interested?
Posted: 10/24/2006 6:07:42 PM | | Amen, Just ask him..."Dooooood, you lookin at me?" | |
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| Is he interested?
Posted: 10/24/2006 7:16:39 PM | What is wrong with people that they think they can come here, to a group of strangers and ask if they think so and so likes them??? Do you want us to pass a note to him for you too?
I know I am not a dude, but what is wrong with displaying a little self confidence and approaching him? Its EASY to make conversation with anyone! Just be yourself! | |
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| Is he interested?
Posted: 10/24/2006 8:48:48 PM | maybe he is a bit shy,
talk to him whats the worst that could happen? No wait dont go there!
give him a shot, really he could say NO, but who knows?
"ya have a good heart, have the courage to follow it"
braveheart.
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| Is he interested?
Posted: 10/24/2006 10:31:19 PM | I like alot of the responces. Either walk up to him and strike up a conversation or loose your lighter and ask him for a light. The lighter bit I think is the best. | |
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| Is he interested?
Posted: 10/24/2006 11:25:54 PM | | quit being a coward ... if your both cowards no one will talk to anyone and you will miss out. | |
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| Is he interested?
Posted: 10/25/2006 4:44:03 AM | Go by yourself some night. he may be a little shy and not like asking people out in front of other people.
so go outside for a smoke, stand away from other people so he can have a little privacy with you if he needs it.
but stay close to the door in case hes a weirdo. | |
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| Is he interested?
Posted: 10/25/2006 9:07:00 AM | | Thanks for your opinions guys. I will definitely take your advice and talk to him this weekend. | |
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| Is he interested?
Posted: 10/27/2006 8:19:36 AM | You tell'em grrmrgal75,and if that doesnt work..."Force-Feed" them! Make them like you,and your food! damn-it! | |
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| Is he interested?
Posted: 10/27/2006 9:32:54 AM | O/P
Send a beer over to him anonymously...after he gets it walk up and introduce yourself dammit! life is tooooo short chick. | |
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| Is he interested?
Posted: 10/27/2006 3:11:31 PM | he he seems to me that hes a bit of a mouse if he was interested hed come over to you . you wouldnt need to be the one that made the first move.... if you just make eye contact with him that might scare him off coz he might portrey it differently.
go stand near him make your presence if hes interested hel come over | |
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| Is he interested?
Posted: 10/27/2006 9:22:19 PM | Definitely he is interested...he keeps looking at you doesn't he? He keeps coming out for a smoke when you are doesn't he? He keeps putting himself in your line of vision doesn't he?
Definitely he is not interested...he keeps avoiding you like the plague wondering why the hell every time he goes out you go out? He is trying to cool off with a smoke and bam there you are again, what the hell? He is frustrated and tries to show it but all he sees is you looking at him with those imploring eyes... Maybe next time she won't go out...he thinks... | |
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