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race and dating in Alaska Posted: 10/24/2006 9:47:24 AM
Okay, to anyone who cannot tell the difference, I am mixed. I am approx 30% Black, I am also Cherokee ( my great-grandfather was 100%) Sephardic Jew (from Spain),French,English, and German. It's funny, when I lived in Florida most people thought I was Cuban, one thing both whites and blacks alike knew, was I was NOT a real Black man. Probably because folks down there who have lived around true Blacks there whole lives can/could clearly see I am a Mulato. Folks here, although my skin is fair, with a red tint (which shows I have Native American blood), think I am Black. Funny, inspite of the white folks here who claim to have Native blood, although it wouldn't seem like it to the untrained eye, I can tell the difference from a true Arian, from the ones who ain't. I lived in many different countries growing up, so I am accustomed to people choosing a partner based off of who that person is, not what the color of their skin is. I have dated many women, of many different races, so to just stick with one race exclusively is down right boring and closed minded. When over seas I wasn't "that Black guy", I had a name, I found folks in other countries are far more open minded, than folks in this country who claim it to be "free". I think alot of people put theirselves in a box of misery because of their close minded nature. I am sorry you folks have been lied to through history that many people are misguided in there beliefs, your king james bible didn't help either...so many lies. Back to my subject, I have been on this site several times, and have always left frustrated...no matter how nice I am, I just can't seem to get a reply, even from the few women here who are looking for "an intimate encounter", I never have had a problem meeting women before...ha you have no idea...until here. I thought about and have come to the conclusion, that alot of folks here are bigots, or have a mis-informed, pre-set stereotype of dark skinned men...basically I am saying is they don't like dark skinned men. Maybe they should put that in their personal. I hear so many people say how unhappy they are, well if I ate pizza everyday I would be sick of it too. It is a shame how people in this day and age would/could prevent theirselves from something that could make them happy, based on the color of someones skin. What I find more shocking, is how many people up here claim to be "Christians", yet carry with them hate,stereotyping, or down right racism, yet they claim to love God. Well anyone on here who reads this and carries those beliefs, you are an abomination to God, you cannot love God, and hate your fellow man, and you sure as hell ain't getting into heaven. I know alot of you white folks have a romantic view of your history, who you are, and where you came from, but I am telling you now, you have been lied to, anyone here who know's any esoteric knowledge, know's what I am talking about. Alaska has bound forward since I was last here some 10 years ago, but you guys have a loooong way still to go, I promised myself I never wanted to live in a place where white was/is considered better...but that is all I see up here. Sure women stare at me, I am tall, and built, but it is like I am taboo or something...meaning they want but for whatever reason, probably race, probably the norms and mores placed on them by their families...they barely talk to me. So my question is why do women here, even the Native women prefer white men? Why? Ha, that is what got me even more, these half white half native girls think they are better than the others, and I have been shunned, fed a bunch of bs and excuses, when the reality was and is because I am darker than your average bear, and their family wouldn't have liked that. Bottom line is, unless you have left this society, and have had the blessing to travel, and be amongst other people's and cultures, as I have, and realize the world is alot bigger than your little town or village, then you will remain closed minded, and probably won't understand what I am saying. And don't get me wrong, and don't dare call me racist, I would be a hypocrite then in writing this, I am way to mixed to be that way, and further more, when someone like me writes things like this, we run the risk of being labeled a racist, by those who ARE racist, when all I am doing is stating an observation. No what I am is a person who is truely free, and not a prisoner of the mind, a person who is open minded, and honest, living in a society that at times is very,very, close minded. I am smart, intelligent, and educated, and most people here never get to that cause they are to busy judging a book by it's cover.

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