| | Dont wanna loose this rock starPage 1 of 1 | | So i met a guy almost two weeks ago, and we hit it of great, he lives close to me has all these great goals, and is very motavated. He loves to sing, and sings to me(this is where i melt:)). I have never gotten along with someone so quickly and clicked with many subjuects before. I really like this guy. I dont wanna scare him away in any way. We see eachother everyday, and everyday I dont see him i miss him to pieces. But it has only been almost two weeks. I know love from lust. I feel that my heart is so taking over my mind, because when i am with him, my world is so happy and i forget all my worries. I am down to earth. He has had bad realtionships, and dosent wanna take things so fast which i totally understand, and i will be there for him. HOWDO I LET HIM KNOW I REALLY CARE FOR HIM WITHOUT SCARING HIM AWAY?? PPLZ ned advive. I get all chocked up when i try to talk to him, i dont want to sound so lovestruck, but i am>>?? what do i do?? | |
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Posted: 10/25/2006 11:19:47 AM | Well I can honestly say that i've been there before Jenny. So my advice to you is this, just take it slow, one day at a time. It's a wonderful feeling knowing that you try to go about your day & you cannot help thinking about that person & puts an instant grinn on your face. Don't stress out about & just take it slow & all the pieces will fall into place. But if you really want to let him know without being too obvious? Little subtle hints, such as constantly smilling at him, kissing, affection. Too much too soon will scare any one away, simply don't rush....good luck to ya! | |
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Posted: 10/25/2006 11:22:19 AM | | Just stand back, and try not to scare him by pushing him too fast. There's nothing wrong with the way you feel, certainly, but understand that he may not feel it as strong or as deep, yet. | |
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Posted: 10/25/2006 11:37:24 AM | Ummmmm..... Do you HAVE to let him know already??
"almost two weeks" is a little early to be telling someone who "doesn't wanna take things so fast" that you "REALLY CARE FOR HIM"!!
back down girl, step away from the phone, do not hit the enter button, lol... As the first poster said... spend a bit of time just letting him know your interest by smiling, touching, laughing, complimenting etc., like "I just melt when you sing to me" 
For someone who wants to take things slowly the last thing you want to do is to vocalize (orally or in print), how much you care for him already, wait a few more weeks! And start by saying small joking statements like how much he rocks your world or something, lol so you can guage his reaction.... slow and steady wins the race!
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Posted: 10/25/2006 11:53:23 AM | Like Molonel said:............"Just stand back, and try not to scare him by pushing him too fast. There's nothing wrong with the way you feel, certainly, but understand that he may not feel it as strong or as deep, yet."
GREAT ADVICE!!!!
Don't ever expect anything from someone! Just let things happen as they come!
But also....he's a "rockstar".....lots of chics want a "rockstar" n sometimes a "rockstar" can't resist the groupies!! So be careful n try to put a short wall up so ur heart doesn't get totally stomped on. I'v had a lil experience with this. | |
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Posted: 10/25/2006 1:07:22 PM | | Think of him as if he's a cat.........When he wants to be pet, he'll come to you. If you go to him and pet him, he's likely to get up and walk away. Best of luck!!! | |
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Posted: 10/25/2006 6:21:39 PM | | I assume this guy has a following, I mean an audience? Hmmmm, hope you like sharing. Or if you want, you could ride on the magic tour bus. You might still have to share. | |
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Posted: 10/25/2006 6:26:40 PM |
We see eachother everyday, and everyday I dont see him i miss him to pieces.
for some reason I can't wrap my head around this concept :)
he's a rock star so his job is to be charming , when I was twenty and playing in a really good band I had many interests at one time . You'll have to really stand out if you want him to stay interested. | |
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Posted: 10/25/2006 7:55:43 PM | In the beginning of any new relationship weather it be love , lust or friendship. Come with it is a certain honeymoon period. when people meet and hit it off, they are most often excited, happy and at there best it definatley take time before you know both side of someone. Take your time dont get to excited, if a man knows your overwelmed right from the get go, it scares them off or allows them to take great advantage. Take your time if its ment to be it will be if not you have lost nothing. Best of luck.
Sincerely
PhatLady | |
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Posted: 10/25/2006 9:39:18 PM | | Don't overwhelm him or he might just think you're another "groupie". If he's a rock-star he sees that all the time so don't rush him like the rest of the crowd. Stand back and let him come to you - maybe he wants a more solid based relationship to come home to. Take it slow so you don't get in too deep 'til you know what HE wants. Luck to ya!!! | |
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Posted: 10/25/2006 10:51:35 PM | Hi,
FIRST.....he isn't a "rockstar".....and it is not likely he will ever be successful at music.
Honey, I sing.....and I produce music, and do a heck of a lot more, and I'm telling you....the young guys fatasizing about being rock stars.....is in the MILLIONS. There are millions and millions of them. SInging is the least desirable talent, hon. Guitarists are better - they control the band,........but hon, you have ONLY KNOWN HIM 2 weeks.
I know love is great at that age.....before things get twisted and jaded.
BUT,...I want you to do something little lady....I want you to do this for your own sake. Create a phoney profile.....you can even use a picture that is not you. Then, throw out a line, and see what he starts confessing. Don't get caught, ....but you MUST DO THIS.
YOU RIGHT NOW ARE IN DANGER AND YOU DON"T KNOW IT. YOU are in more danger than most women here........pregnancy......and your life will change forever, and he will not stick around. GET THE PILL, make the appointment as soon as possible. YOU must do this for yourself, regardless of whether you know what else to do or not. Do it, because it is one of the most important things you will do to protect yourself and your future. PLEASE....do it.
NEXT, also make the phoney profile. Throw out the line, and find out what he confesses when you ask him if he has met anyone. Be ready for what you hear.
It's not unloving to put yourself and maybe even your offspring first,,,,,WANNA be rock stars make terrible fathers. I speak from personal wisdom.
NEXT,...go buy yourself a guitar and an amp with distortion. IF YOU love music......empower yourself and learn to write and play it. I DO, and I've played electric guitar for 23 years. YOU WILL start to see these musicians very differently......you will see through them. Be a girl who plays music -- instead of just chasing guys who do. He isn't a "star" honey. Believe me, I was invited tonight to a****ail party by Pink's producer, and tomorrow, I"m going out with the producer for Christiana Aguillera, and Jessica Simpson, a list of people......
EMAIL ME HERE. I want to keep in touch with you.....and I want to hear YOUR SONGS, not his, and I want to hear how you progress as you go, okay ???? I don't want any other musicians to email me, but the pretty girl who started this thread..... | |
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Posted: 10/25/2006 11:02:26 PM | | I agree..don't tell him..scares them..just made that mistake myself. Trust me when I say to hold off and just enjoy the time you hve together... | |
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