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 ~Brook~

Joined: 10/23/2006
Msg: 1
he "googles" everything I say
Posted: 11/1/2006 12:19:38 PM
Hey all,

Just wanted to see if anyone knew how to deal with this really annoying quirk the guy I am seeing has
NO matter what I say he googles it. Its the most annoying thing ever, We were talking about camping the other night and how I saw a turtle (dumb example I know) and he ran and googled it cause he didnt think there were turtles in BC. There are countless other times when he has done that as well.
I can't decide if he thinks I have no knowledge on anything beyond the bedroom and make-up. Or he is just an A$$
so is this normal???? and how do I tell him its annoying
 I love hockey

Joined: 8/30/2006
Msg: 2
he googles everything I say
Posted: 11/1/2006 12:23:48 PM
I have to admit I stumped on this one. Sounds a bit wacky for me. Why not just ask him why he does that?
 ~Brook~

Joined: 10/23/2006
Msg: 3
he googles everything I say
Posted: 11/1/2006 12:28:25 PM
oh I did, he said he likes to "make sure" and "likes all the facts" but its super annoying when your sitting with someone, chatting on the couch and he makes a run for the computer to see if turtles do in fact live in the waters of mare lake WTF arghh lol
I don't want to sound like a picky B!tch here either, but its very annoying. I always look to see if he is making notes when were out talking somewhere so when he gets home he can Look it all up
 DarkTranquility

Joined: 9/11/2005
Msg: 4
he googles everything I say
Posted: 11/1/2006 12:35:56 PM
Sound like an obsessive-compulsve something or other.
 rainskiss

Joined: 3/5/2006
Msg: 5
he googles everything I say
Posted: 11/1/2006 12:45:28 PM
I too have someone who lurks and is not a member here but reads what I say, then uses it against me, he googles me too, to find out where I am or where I have been or what I am doing or who I maybe flirting with. If I say things are true or if I am leaving out anything.
Questions me about everything and has no right to.
I have gone off on him and got pissed about it and he says he don't do it no more but I know better...there is no real way to stop it and it sucks, big time.
 One Step At A Time

Joined: 8/25/2006
Msg: 6
he googles everything I say
Posted: 11/1/2006 12:45:32 PM
Wow........I am sitting here with a stunned look on my face and have no clue on how to answer this one....this is definitely not a redundant thread. lol


Sounds like maybe he is just an extremely curious individual who enjoys your topics of conversation and wants to learn more about it , so he can converse with you on the subject?

I am trying to be positive here OP, for I dont believe as annoying as this may be that he is doing this because he thinks you know nothing but exactly the opposite.

He shows an inquisitive mind.......enjoy it, things will probably never get boring with all his knowledge!


Peace......if all else is good, I really wouldn't sweat this to be honest.
 oneguppy

Joined: 10/8/2006
Msg: 7
he googles everything I say
Posted: 11/1/2006 12:48:07 PM
Maybe he thinks that you are coming off as a know it all.

Maybe he sees you as a playful intellectual rival.

If his habits are truly annoying to you why don't you tell him so that he can spend his time with someone who appreciates him.

Just another opinion.

Good luck whatever you decide.
 ~Brook~

Joined: 10/23/2006
Msg: 8
he googles everything I say
Posted: 11/1/2006 12:49:32 PM
Teresa: There are turtles in bc, I saw a bunch when I was canoeing

B: no way

Teresa : yes really

B: why I must google

and thats what happens with everything I saw riiiiiiiiighttttt down to sexc postions and how they make cheese
oy lol makes me laugh now
 Brian_Thorn

Joined: 9/7/2006
Msg: 9
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he googles everything I say
Posted: 11/1/2006 12:57:02 PM
OP so explain to me why when I googled this thread it lead me to a porn site??

Have fun ;)!
 Open Secret

Joined: 7/30/2006
Msg: 10
he googles everything I say
Posted: 11/1/2006 12:59:05 PM
I don't see anything wrong with it except for poor manners. If he really is that curious he should google it on his own time instead of mid-conversation.
 Brownsugar1313

Joined: 4/16/2006
Msg: 11
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Posted: 11/1/2006 1:00:51 PM
Just do it back to him.....while in mid sentence say "hang on a sec", run and google what he is saying and see how he likes having the tables turned on him!
 ~Brook~

Joined: 10/23/2006
Msg: 12
he googles everything I say
Posted: 11/1/2006 1:03:05 PM
haha that might work actually, I told him it was rude and to wait for me to at least finish speaking before he runs off to the computer to search something. bahhhhhhhh where do I meet these weird men AHH I KNOW LAVALIFE sheesh
 musicalife

Joined: 4/30/2006
Msg: 13
he googles everything I say
Posted: 11/1/2006 1:10:53 PM
I say dump him and date the girl in your pic of whom you are just about to devour.
 ~Brook~

Joined: 10/23/2006
Msg: 14
he googles everything I say
Posted: 11/1/2006 1:11:45 PM
I'll get riiiiight on that thanks :)
 jaberwokey

Joined: 10/24/2005
Msg: 15
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Posted: 11/1/2006 1:13:38 PM
Allright. I'm tired of women who think guys are supposed to "just know". LOL

What's up with that anyway? I'm going to have to google it to find out! =)

You are not going to learn anything if you don't research and ask lots of questions. Duh!

Do you think we are born knowing how to pair the right wine with the right food?

Do you think we automatically know how to be a good lover?

Do you think we automatically know how to change a flat tire?

We learn by doing, having someone show us, and by looking it up ourselves. But we never "just know". We "just know" how to breath. Thats about it. Everything else we pretty much had to learn.

Anyway.

The internet is great. Embrace the future OP! The sum off all human knowlege and experience at your fingertips. Yeah! That kicks a***!


Why do women allways have to find "something" to find fault with about the guys that are in their lives. Can't they just be happy and appreciate the person they are with for who they are quirks and all?

After all I'm sure you are not the model of perfection either ms. Tizzle and yet he loves to be arround ya. So why not cut the boy some slack eh?






 ali42

Joined: 8/15/2006
Msg: 16
he googles everything I say
Posted: 11/1/2006 1:14:32 PM
He doesn't sound very smart Tizzle.

He really should wait until you are finished speaking so that he can ggogle all the points of your conversation at the same time
 User Name 72483

Joined: 5/26/2006
Msg: 17
he googles everything I say
Posted: 11/1/2006 1:15:18 PM
Why bother with this guy? It appears he likes to argue, and from the sounds of it, you don't. Don't waste your time thinking about it or dealing with it. If that's who he is you can't change it. Maybe there's a girl out there someone who would get a kick out of it, but it's obviously not you. It's not your problem.
 ~Brook~

Joined: 10/23/2006
Msg: 18
he googles everything I say
Posted: 11/1/2006 1:15:28 PM
Hey, I never said I was perfect either, I was looking to see if this was something people did.........or if there was a nice way I can ask him to not do it in the middle of a convo~ not saying It's a deal breaker in anyway.
But thanks for your insite and I will be sure to remember to lighten up :)
 justme1202

Joined: 7/26/2006
Msg: 19
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Posted: 11/1/2006 1:18:29 PM
Maybe you shouldnt take it so personal although i can imagine it must be difficult. But maybe he is doing it for his own knowledge?
 Open Secret

Joined: 7/30/2006
Msg: 20
he googles everything I say
Posted: 11/1/2006 1:24:29 PM
Just ask him in a nice way if he would not do it and make fun of him everytime he does it.
 ~Brook~

Joined: 10/23/2006
Msg: 21
he googles everything I say
Posted: 11/1/2006 1:26:14 PM
lol
in fear of getting totally blasted I might just have to make fun of him a little, I would expect the same in return if it was me :P

he really is a great guy, just a google junkie haha
 ~squirrly~

Joined: 7/4/2006
Msg: 22
he googles everything I say
Posted: 11/1/2006 1:39:13 PM
I think they might need to start a 12 step program for this "disease" and HELP ...I have it!

Mind you, I don't tell the person I am talking to that I am multifunctioning and reading 3 other sites at the same time as talking to them. It's not that I am checking up on things ....its just that if they say something I havent heard before, I have to read up on it.
 ~Brook~

Joined: 10/23/2006
Msg: 23
he googles everything I say
Posted: 11/1/2006 1:42:14 PM
oh and i get that, I have been known to do it as well, all the time in fact its just the fact that MID convo he will get up and "RUN" to the other room like a kid at christmas, haha its funny but it can get a little annoying since we tend to chat alot.........I think I might just have to tone down the convo and spend more time in the bedroom lol but thats another thread
 Jarbarian

Joined: 2/9/2006
Msg: 24
he googles everything I say
Posted: 11/1/2006 1:46:32 PM
Some people have weird quirks. The question is do you love him enough to get over it or not? It's up to you....
 Marilynized

Joined: 1/11/2005
Msg: 25
he googles everything I say
Posted: 11/1/2006 1:52:29 PM
I would be like 'What are you a weirdo?' there go google that.
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