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 Lil Red Riding Hood

Joined: 4/21/2006
Msg: 1
Is foreplay as important as you get older ?
Posted: 11/2/2006 2:41:38 PM
Just a thought here........from my perspective anyway but I find the older I get the less I need foreplay.

When I was in my teens, 20's and 30's, vaginal sex without alot of foreplay was uncomfortable. Now, I much prefer just wham.......

Foreplay is AFTERplay to me, meaning I'd rather oral, finger orgasms etc, AFTER sex.

Am I the only one ?

Any other women out there feel that same physical change ?

It could have something to do with the fact that I am just now....in the last 3 years or so, hitting my sexual peak.

Technically I should be the reverse. They say women experience vaginal dryness with age and require artificial lube or meds.

Im ready all the time.....hahaha

Drives a few of my friends nuts.
 okieroper

Joined: 8/23/2004
Msg: 2
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Is foreplay as important as you get older ?
Posted: 11/2/2006 2:48:51 PM
Welp .......... Hmmmmmmmmm..... Guess im kinda all about it


But if your calling me home during lunch for a nooner ...... Time is of the essence ...... so right back at ya ...WHAM
 I love hockey

Joined: 8/30/2006
Msg: 3
Is foreplay as important as you get older ?
Posted: 11/2/2006 2:51:21 PM
Foreplay is the best part.. nothing like a long warm up and tease session before the grand finale!
 MsMicki

Joined: 10/2/2006
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Is foreplay as important as you get older ?
Posted: 11/2/2006 2:57:24 PM
yes....it's still important
 Bendilin

Joined: 5/6/2005
Msg: 5
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Is foreplay as important as you get older ?
Posted: 11/2/2006 4:54:39 PM
Translation; jo~ says "No."

 ulao

Joined: 6/10/2006
Msg: 6
Is foreplay as important as you get older ?
Posted: 11/2/2006 6:28:46 PM
translation Bendilin is an idiot.
 stephenmech

Joined: 5/25/2005
Msg: 7
Is foreplay as important as you get older ?
Posted: 11/2/2006 6:29:28 PM
Translation from Jo~ it means Brendilin can't read the signs very well. Oh and needs help.

Either that or She got annoyed at somebody putting words in her mouth, and she's upset that Brendilin need anger managment help.

Just a guess, reading the sign language, my specialty is body language so this is really not my forte.

OT Foreplay is absolutely essential and is required.
 grrmrgal75

Joined: 10/3/2006
Msg: 8
Is foreplay as important as you get older ?
Posted: 11/2/2006 6:51:23 PM
Depends on the mood and the amount of time that is available. Sometimes yes, sometimes no. Just shows versatility ;)
 bimilf

Joined: 10/17/2006
Msg: 9
Is foreplay as important as you get older ?
Posted: 11/2/2006 8:16:09 PM
Hell yes
Foreplay is an art. If it's m/f ,f/f whatever without foreplay it's just f%%%%%g and thats not what lovemaking is about
 true_and_real

Joined: 6/9/2006
Msg: 10
Is foreplay as important as you get older ?
Posted: 11/2/2006 9:05:32 PM
Oh yes! For sure! Definately! What kind of a silly question is that? Ok, now you don't have to have it everytime, but common...who wouldn't want it? Foreplay should come naturally and not be forced though.
 zooom

Joined: 10/27/2006
Msg: 11
Is foreplay as important as you get older ?
Posted: 11/2/2006 9:18:31 PM
There is no time left for foreplay anymore with all the preliminary dating interview relationship screening rituals modern women insist upon. It's because they stopped wearing skirts, I think, so you pretty much have to talk them into taking their pants off. You can't just flip them upside down and give them a smoochie on the cootchie like in olden times.
 geob2006

Joined: 1/5/2006
Msg: 12
Is foreplay as important as you get older ?
Posted: 11/2/2006 9:24:12 PM
Hell yeah Im young but foreplay is a must!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
 codedout

Joined: 7/25/2004
Msg: 13
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Is foreplay as important as you get older ?
Posted: 11/2/2006 9:30:13 PM
I swear, we are all loosing it. The internet dating game is all about instant gratification. Lets go back to 20 yrs... or so... Take the time to enjoy one another, turn the phones off, shut down the computer. Then light a candle, turn on soft music, and caress the night away.

Its the information overload society at play. The one thing I love about hurricanes in SO FLA, is that once the storm passed you have several days of no power, no phones, no TV, no internet. You get to know each other again, kissing, candles, staring longingly into each others eyes, kissing, cuddling. Damn I have to quit, getting hot just writing.

GO BACK TO BASICS
 JulietJuliet

Joined: 10/22/2006
Msg: 14
Is foreplay as important as you get older ?
Posted: 11/2/2006 9:45:49 PM

the older I get the less I need foreplay


Careful op, in another ten years the thread title will be 'the older i get, the less i need sex'.

I gotta, absolutely GOTTA have that there foreplay happening, no foreplay, and that's it, i'll go to sleep.
 tutu4me

Joined: 10/12/2006
Msg: 15
Is foreplay as important as you get older ?
Posted: 11/2/2006 10:01:50 PM
probably not butt i am sure it gets harder then again maybe it does not get hard at all and foreplay is all you got
 JulietJuliet

Joined: 10/22/2006
Msg: 16
Is foreplay as important as you get older ?
Posted: 11/2/2006 10:04:55 PM
Msg 18, well we like to think foreplay does in fact make it get HARDER, or our efforts may be fruitless ha ha!
 river_lady

Joined: 6/4/2006
Msg: 17
Is foreplay as important as you get older ?
Posted: 11/2/2006 10:15:00 PM
Hell yes it's still important....in fact it is even more important now...lots of foreplay, cuddling, kissing,playing, etc.........
 GOLDILOCKS

Joined: 5/31/2006
Msg: 18
Is foreplay as important as you get older ?
Posted: 11/2/2006 10:33:01 PM
Absolutamentally!!! Without it, wouldn't you just feel like you'd been USED? I'd hate to be just someone's blow-up dolly.
 ][KAOS][

Joined: 2/24/2006
Msg: 19
Is foreplay as important as you get older ?
Posted: 11/2/2006 10:44:23 PM
Damn... its always been important... and always will be... guess thats just me.
 blueyed25

Joined: 7/3/2006
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Is foreplay as important as you get older ?
Posted: 11/2/2006 11:38:06 PM
Foreplay is great but not needed all the time. Depends on how great your need is?
 belgarion

Joined: 10/29/2005
Msg: 21
Is foreplay as important as you get older ?
Posted: 11/3/2006 12:39:32 AM
Foreplay should start from the moment you wake up, until you fall asleep next to, on, under, where-ever, with your loved one.
 1classmind

Joined: 8/31/2006
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Is foreplay as important as you get older ?
Posted: 11/3/2006 2:40:17 AM
It sure is lady...your man does not have to have his tongue down there for very long but if he knows how to use his fingers as well and knows where your spot is I say yes !!! that's when you can have multiple orgasms!!
 GOLDILOCKS

Joined: 5/31/2006
Msg: 23
Is foreplay as important as you get older ?
Posted: 11/3/2006 10:33:07 PM
Belgarion; If all people had that attitude, there'd be a very low rate of divorces. What a wonderful outlook.


Foreplay should start from the moment you wake up, until you fall asleep next to, on, under, where-ever, with your loved one.
 khrockproducer

Joined: 7/14/2006
Msg: 24
Is foreplay as important as you get older ?
Posted: 11/3/2006 10:56:38 PM
Zooom,

That was so funny !!!!!!!

But is foreplay as important ? It is funny, I notice that fast frustration, but I haven't been with a man who knew what he was doing sexually in a few years. I mean, when they don't know what they are doing, its a pain in the rear. Ha ha, pun right back at ya !
 Sunfirechick

Joined: 3/22/2006
Msg: 25
Is foreplay as important as you get older ?
Posted: 11/4/2006 2:00:08 AM
All right!! Foreplay is something, that when you get older, is just something that you should be good at giving yourself, so you can avoid the pain in the a*s bull sh*t and move on!!!
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