| Life's most simplest pleasures................ Posted: 11/7/2006 6:39:56 AM | For many of us we simply look for the simple pleasures in life.............
So you are out on a date and let's say it's not the first but the fourth and a comfort level is beginning and we are enjoying each other's company.
What would be a simple pleasure that you would enjoy with another and to add to the thread , what are simple pleasures that you enjoy alone? | |
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| Life's most simplest pleasures................ Posted: 11/7/2006 7:44:21 AM | laughing at the first date... as a woman she should be enjoying the fact that I get the door and the chair and such, cause well I am a gentleman.. oh yeah and that I cook and bake! in the kitchen as well...LOL | |
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| Life's most simplest pleasures................ Posted: 11/7/2006 3:36:34 PM | Firsts...
like.
That anxiety that you have before you meat or kiss some one.
Or
when someone sends you a comment that takes your breath away
Herring I love you, or saying I love you for the first time
Being touched by a some one new, and anticipating it.
First time you're alone in the dark together.
That first phone call.
Although firsts are great it's the one thing most of us wish would only happen once. And if we are not so fortunate, hope the next will be the last. Yet there is no doubt it is a simple pleasure. | |
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| Life's most simplest pleasures................ Posted: 11/7/2006 3:56:13 PM | Together: Eating a fully loaded hotdog on the beach on a cool fall afternoon. Watching the waves come splashing in and watching the sand swirl about. Nathans in one hand and Dunkin Coffee in the other, favorite girl at your side, beautiful scenery surrounding you. Simply fantastic! You should try it!
Alone: Driving in the mountains, top down on the Jeep, listening to Bobby Darrin sing "La Mer" and "Mack the Knife" fully cranked up as loud as the speakers will go, and singing along as you wind back and forth on the road. Like being close to God! For me anyways.
Have fun ;)! | |
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| Life's most simplest pleasures................ Posted: 11/7/2006 4:43:33 PM | Simple pleasures on a date for me would be:
Being offered a single flower Playing with each others hands/entwining the fingers A smile exchanged of pleasures to come Feeling the sun on my face Laying in the grass and looking for bugs together Just knowing that we have all the time to be together and there is no rush
Simple pleasures alone
The sound of silence No tv playing when the kids are gone A hot soak in a bubble bath Reading a book with no disturbance Playing............ | |
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| Life's most simplest pleasures................ Posted: 11/7/2006 5:33:41 PM | | Sitting on the porch, listening to him playing the guitar while I drain my morning coffee and watch the kitties frollick. After the evening prior ...(substitute coffee for after dinner liquor). | |
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| Life's most simplest pleasures................ Posted: 11/7/2006 6:45:02 PM | For me, watching the changing of colours as the night gives way to the approaching dawn.All the shades of blue in the sky, with the purples and pinks on the clouds - My favourite time of day!
I enjoy it every day, whether I'm with someone or alone, it makes me feel alive.  | |
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| Life's most simplest pleasures................ Posted: 11/7/2006 7:48:07 PM | With someone: holding hands cuddling sleeping in their arms, with no expectations of anything, feeling their breathing, their heartbeat a simple touch on my body gentle kisses
Alone: watching the sunrise/sunset watching the river float by the feel of the sun on my skin, making everything tingle with heat the uncontrollable laughter of small children at play washing my car by hand | |
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| Life's most simplest pleasures................ Posted: 11/7/2006 7:51:13 PM | a simple pleasure for me is playing the guitar.. it's fun alone but idealy the guy I'm dating can play also and we can make beautiful music together.. "sigh" | |
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| Life's most simplest pleasures................ Posted: 11/7/2006 8:10:56 PM | Waking up on a Saturday morning with a huge smile...the day is mine to do whatever I want.
Getting a compliment from someone who doesn't give them easily.
Lending a hand to someone, making someone's day just a little bit nicer.
My mom calling to remind me she loves me (like I could ever forget)
Spending time with friends that I haven't seen in awhile.
Learning something new and interesting.
Dusk.
The sound of the ocean at night.
Getting together with family at holidays.
Church on Christmas eve.
Looking into someone's eyes and know exactly what they're thinking...
Those are a few of my favorite things!  | |
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| Life's most simplest pleasures................ Posted: 11/7/2006 10:55:25 PM | with someone:
cuddling right into his chest..sighing, and just being like that for a bit, nothing needs to be said
with my kids: watching something really funny, like on tv, or the animals doing something stupid, and laughing till it hurts
by myself: the smell of rain the smell of clean towels that first cup of coffee, knowing I won't have any interruptions, and hogging the whole pot to myself
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| Life's most simplest pleasures................ Posted: 11/7/2006 11:25:31 PM | If alone, I do love watching the sunrise and the sunset. Even watching and listening to the tides coming in & out is something so pure and simple, yet calm and makes one become pensive. And I like that.
If there is someone beside me, hmmm ... accidental touch or brush ... that gentle lingering touch of lips ... the way he moves hair of my face as if to see better and deeper ... and then he would like to say something but words become superfluous and the distance gets shorter ... eyes turn darker ... his smell filling my nostrils ... yeah I like it very very much | |
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| Life's most simplest pleasures................ Posted: 11/7/2006 11:53:17 PM | the way he smells... smiling till your face hurts the next day alll that anticipation first kisses something whispered in my ear.. a hand on my lower back. memorizing every inch of thier body watching them sleep... listening to them sleep the way they say your name looks across the room at a party conversations just between the two of you kisses on your shoulder or neck | |
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| Life's most simplest pleasures................ Posted: 11/8/2006 2:37:11 AM | let's see...with someone - I like the simplicity of cuddling on a couch watching a movie with popcorn and laughing....or havign someone show up with flowers - not store bought - just a wildflower or two.
with my daughter: listening to her laugh, tickle fights, making cookies together
by myself: a bubble bath by candlelight with a good book. | |
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| Life's most simplest pleasures................ Posted: 11/8/2006 4:56:26 AM | A simple pleasure with another: that moment which pops up and it's quiet no words are spoken but there's a glance at eachother, a small grin and both know there are more simple pleasures to come.
Simple pleasure that you enjoy alone:
When I get up in the morning - AND ACTUALLY EXCITED about when the fifth or sixth date will happen...
Considering it rarely happens, it's a pleasure when it does. | |
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| Life's most simplest pleasures................ Posted: 11/8/2006 5:10:43 AM | when every look, every kiss, every touch sends shivers to your toes.... knowing the passion is building between the two of you and you've gotten to the point you get to act on it!
sharing a dessert after a nice dinner
both of you singing to a song in the car....and not caring if either sounds good
sitting on the back step watching the sunset without having to talk
cooking together | |
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| Life's most simplest pleasures................ Posted: 11/8/2006 10:59:21 AM | To add to my last post, a 'phone call, out of the blue.
A conversation that knows no limits...
{YES! IT'S LATE!!}
...But you don't want it to end...
Greatest Pleasure available! ... | |
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| Life's most simplest pleasures................ Posted: 11/8/2006 12:18:52 PM | Awwwww such a sweetie, romantic, and kind hearted man "Sasquatch"........wait till she reads that! It will make her day and give her a simple pleasure for sure.
Simple pleasures
thank you's smiles from across the room an unexpected visit putting a pillow under your head when you are sick
a squirrel sitting by a tree cracking open his nut a 3 am "I love you mommy" for no reason he says go sit down I will do the dishes
the feel of his breath on my cheek | |
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