| Your first time:Was it memorable or forgetable?
Posted: 11/9/2006 10:50:57 AM | How was your first time?What were the circumstances?Here's mine,so feel free to share....
I never bothered with the dating scene much in high school.I had too much outside activity to be bothered.I worked interning with TV stations,production companies and movie theaters so I didn't do the traditional ,"let's have sex,but will you respect me?Of course,everybody is having sex,but I want to wait and make it special..." ad nauseum...So I hung out with older girls,exotic dancers,the "slutty types" .
It was back in the 70's,my family had just moved to Jacksonville,Florida from Charleston,SC.The schools were quite different.In Charleston,the area we were in was quite conservative,higher income bracket,protective dads,supervised dates(of course we were very young,so that's expected).In Jacksonville,especially in the area we moved to,it was quite the opposite.The area of town had been decaying for some time,rough kids had been bused in from even rougher areas.Lots of "loose girls"(that term always brought up strange visuals).
My first introduction to such a girl was in natural science class.We were learning the difference between igneous and sedimentary rocks,having the specimens laid on a table,when this girl who sat next to me in class and teasing me on a daily basis for a few weeks,suddenly leaned forward,pulled down her top to reveal her breast and said,"Hey check out this rock."I'm sure I turned several shades of red but I managed to say,"I'm gonna have to take that specimin to my private lab where I can inspect it properly"
That weekend she asked me over to her place (she lived with her mom,not sure where her dad was,but mom had to work Saturdays)where she introduced me to yet another forbidden pleasure,weed.
I'll spare the details,pretty easy to figure out what heppend next.What would follow would be several such encounters with her and more of her type.I found such girls to me more interesting,not only for the obvious reasons but I found that they liked the same music I did (I was anti disco in the 70's),interested in the same things (one girl introduced me to Carlos Castenada's books and Jack Kerouac's On The Road)and generally,believe it or not deeper than the so called "nice girls" who seemed to be only interested in what was on TV the night before or who was wearing what, so I'll lay to rest the myth that "guys like me were only interested in one thing". | |
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| Your first time:Was it memorable or forgetable?
Posted: 11/9/2006 12:04:14 PM | | I was 18 he was 26 - my parents were in Hawaii. It was def. not a pleasant experience to start out with...I hurled him off the bed haha...but it turned out nicely eventually - that night. Until my mom and dad came home a couple of days early and I had spent the night at his house! Dad went looking for him and he took off to his parents in the country!! What a scaredy cat lol | |
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| Your first time:Was it memorable or forgetable?
Posted: 11/9/2006 12:36:13 PM | I was 19. I'd just found out a gf had been cheating with an older guy because he was rich, and I was really upset. A female friend suggested we go to a movie ("Stayin' Alive"...what a horrible movie). Afterwards, we went to this old abandoned mining site where the quonsett buildings were still intact and you could actually drive inside them and park. I was pacing around, ranting and raving, then I turned to see her shirt open and no bra. She said, "We need to take your mind off Beverly". And we did. Three times.
For years afterward, we'd hook up just as buddies, but we were never serious. That was 24 years ago, and I remember it like it was yesteray. | |
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| Your first time:Was it memorable or forgetable?
Posted: 11/9/2006 12:57:39 PM | Let me see if I can remember......
I was one of those guys that was focused on school and not dating(nerd perhaps?)until my last few years.....
Anyway, some girl asked me to the senior dance thing(I was 17)...whatever you want to call it. I did not want to go, and said no...but my cousin and a friend talked me into it. I went, had a terrible time, we left and she wanted to get a hotel room with lots of alcohol.....
Skipping a LOT of details, what I remember...I don't like...at all. | |
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| Your first time:Was it memorable or forgetable?
Posted: 11/9/2006 12:58:35 PM | | this girl i was childhood friends with asked me over to go in her hot tub, done that thousands of times before, well im 16 and shes in a bikini, so im shy, but we talk casually as normal when she asks "are you a virgin?" i replied "Yes" she says " you want to end that?" i answer of course so we got out of the hot tub and did it on the deck next to the hot tub......all 2 minutes of it....hahahhahahahaha..hey it was my first time. | |
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| Your first time:Was it memorable or forgetable?
Posted: 11/9/2006 1:26:00 PM | I was 15 and she was a few months older than me and quite attractive. My dad was out of town and I had pitched a tent in the back yard. We were making out in the tent and being inexperienced, I didn't know how to go about "scoring". I was at third base and was confused. I was thinking, "should I ask?" But luckily for me she didn't feel at all inhibited in getting the ball rolling, so to speak. I couldn't get the condom on past the first 1/3rd of well, you know. Lasted a good 20 minutes  She just lay there and made noises that had me concerned about the neighbors (we were outside in a tent in my backyard after all, early afternoon)
Then I didn't see her for a week. The carnival was in town and I found her hanging out with the carnie's. She was supposed to meet me at a certain place/time and didn't show, so that night I marched on into the camp and demanded to see her. 5 guys in their 20's came out and told me to go away. I was such a firecracker I started pushing them around and demanding that she "come out now". I was pretty skinny back. I bet it was a ridiculous sight to see But fortunately for me, I escaped a beating that day; partly because I think the leader felt it was beneath him to bloody his hands on pipsqueek me and partly because he said something that made me realize, "duh, she's there willingly". So I was outta there, defeated but smarter. Chalked up my first time to being a girl's plaything...things could have been worse. | |
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| Your first time:Was it memorable or forgetable?
Posted: 11/9/2006 6:10:47 PM | | I remember like it was only a few years ago.... WAIT it was! very painful, very messy. Had my eyes squeezed tight the entire time wishing it to be over. Did not enjoy it one bit! but I married the guy any way. I found out he is realy, REALY bad in bed and that it wasn't truly my fault I never had a good time. | |
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| Your first time:Was it memorable or forgetable?
Posted: 11/9/2006 8:31:23 PM | | yeah not so memorable. I didnt even think we had sex till he said he was done. I didnt feel a thing. Poor guy. The second time I had sex though, which technically would be my first, was amazing. | |
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| Your first time:Was it memorable or forgetable?
Posted: 11/9/2006 8:38:44 PM | | I remember it very well even though I was drunk on long island ice teas. I kept seeing/doing the guy for a long long time after but if I could do over, he wouldn't have been my choice, I'd have waited a little longer. He wasn't nice. | |
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| Your first time:Was it memorable or forgetable?
Posted: 11/9/2006 9:42:07 PM | I wasnt in love with her yet. I was 20, she was 23. It was over pretty quick. But sex started getting better and better with time. I eventually fell in love and married her. Now we're divorced ofcourse....cause thats what marriage leads to. lol. ok...jk.
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| Your first time:Was it memorable or forgetable?
Posted: 11/9/2006 10:13:37 PM | mine was forgetable, well Im sure I will forget it eventually...
all I can remember is it was new years and I was 18 so not so long ago and he was 28, it lasted forever and he wasnt very good..lol but looking back i guess i needed to know what bad sex was so I would know for the future.. | |
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| Your first time:Was it memorable or forgetable?
Posted: 11/9/2006 10:18:03 PM | My first was special. It was my first love. We were dating for maybe 8 months, both of us virgins. We planned a night together and rented a nice room and everything. We experimented before this, with masterbation and oral, but not actual intercourse. The first time was quick, I'll admit, but as the night went on, we couldn't keep our hands off each other. First and only time we ran out of condoms...lol.  | |
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| Your first time:Was it memorable or forgetable?
Posted: 11/9/2006 10:57:32 PM | | first time -in a dodge truck (ouch), her kisses kept me warm on that cold central oregon night. we met while camping, and coincidentally lived in the same city. didnt have anything to compare it too, it was fun. she must have approved -when i got back home my mom said this cute sounding girl kept calling for me. -we got much better the more we tried... | |
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| Your first time:Was it memorable or forgetable?
Posted: 11/10/2006 1:19:02 AM | | Lost it to my first serious bf ( highschool sweetheart ). He lost it to me too. Well, it was memorable, bc we really did care about each other since we were already in that sickeningly sweet type of highschool sweetheart relationships. I don't remember too many details, but all I know was that I was nervous as hell that my parents would come home at any minute... | |
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