| Are the Ladies posting honestly?
Posted: 11/10/2006 1:30:10 AM | | I see so many women on this site posting that they are looking for "intimate encounters" and then don't respond to E-mails. Why aren't they honest? Looking for intimate encounters with super-hot guys with $. I'm honest about why I'm here and if someone writes, I respond. Is it too much to expect the same? | |
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| Are the Ladies posting honestly?
Posted: 11/10/2006 6:24:06 AM | No alot of people (both guys and ladies) lie about things on here. Me personally I think its better to be honest and offend someone then lie.
I have several friends on here that run in to dishonestly. From location, what they want, age, being married and there is the person who post a picture that is five years old and before they gained weight.
I believe you cant build friendships or relationships on dishonesty, what do people think that when they meet someone in person and that person finds out they have been dishonest that they are just going to forgive them and be the best of friends or the soul mate they are looking for. That only happens in fairy tails. | |
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| Are the Ladies posting honestly?
Posted: 4/15/2007 8:59:57 PM | That is true, and i understand where your coming from. Just as mention earlier, its all about attention. To see how many people who will really respond to those sort of things. There are some of us out there who are telling the truth. I know everything on my profile is the truth, and i do respond to my e-mails | |
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| Are the Ladies posting honestly?
Posted: 5/29/2007 4:14:00 PM | | In my opinion, honesty is the best policy. I feel as though people come on here because they arent finding what they are looking for out there. As for myself it's hard to find time to meet people and date as much as I would like to. | |
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| Are the Ladies posting honestly?
Posted: 7/10/2007 9:33:14 PM | Yeah red devil,
At the time you wrote this you were engaged to be married. Who isn't being honest? How many people did you sleep with during your relationship to her? When I spoke to her on myspace she told me about what you did. She gave you everything you wanted and you still f***ed around. talk about needing to be honest. When I recognized your pic to one I saw on here I just got so upset that I couldn't sit back and see some other innocent girl be taken advantage of.
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| Are the Ladies posting honestly?
Posted: 3/8/2008 8:17:25 AM | Hey Starfire! I think you are on to something. There are lots of people who need to feel validated by having other people pursue them. The don't really want to be in a relationship or are not emotionally available to be in one. It is interesting that only the younger ladies are responding to this thread. Lots of men and women can't move on from past bad experiences. They need someone to pursue them to make them feel better about themselves. It would be better if they just said that on their profile. They would get all the attention the were looking for and feel better about themselves, which in turn would allow them to be emotionally available for a genuine relationship.
I have to say that I hope there are some genuine people online. I think we all have made mistakes in the past. That is why we are not in good relationships. We all hope to learn from our past and make our future relationships better. Honesty has to be the foundation for that. | |
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| Are the Ladies posting honestly?
Posted: 3/23/2008 2:21:33 PM | all of that is so true..what about all the men that write to me..and write in their profiles that they are single..yeah right whatever!!! then come to find out they are married, involved or actually live with someone..so honesty needs to come from both sides..and just because some women don't want to hop in the bed with someone..before they even get the chance to know them..doesn't mean they are dishonest..I am seeking intimate encounters but only after I know and date the person for awhile..and if they can't handle that..then that is just to bad..it is just to dangerous out here now days to be bedhopping..
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| Are the Ladies posting honestly?
Posted: 4/20/2008 4:27:58 PM |
I see so many women on this site posting that they are looking for "intimate encounters" and then don't respond to E-mails. Why aren't they honest? Looking for intimate encounters with super-hot guys with $. I'm honest about why I'm here and if someone writes, I respond. Is it too much to expect the same?
I think you're confusing the issue. Just because women may be looking for intimate encounters, doesn't necessarily mean that they're going to be interested in having those encounters with you.
So a lack of a response doesn't indicate that someone has been dishonest about what she wants; it indicates a lack of interest in you. Personally, I feel no obligation to write back to someone I'm not interested in, and I don't expect others to write back if they're not interested in me, either--my expressing an interest doesn't obligate them to do anything. There are many good reasons to reject someone; don't assume it's all about looks or money. | |
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