| What does it take to have an affair?
Posted: 11/11/2006 6:31:09 PM | | I'm not a bad guy I just want to have an affair with a female that is also married. I'm not looking to change anyones situation, but maybe have a discreet mutually gratifying relationship. Is this possible? | |
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| What does it take to have an affair?
Posted: 11/11/2006 6:35:39 PM | Simon. I'm not going to try to stop you from doing anything.
But think about why you are wanting another married woman.
Is it for the sex or some other meaningful thing?
Is your current married life suffering?
Something missing and you need it?
Or just a little bit of "that"? | |
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| What does it take to have an affair?
Posted: 11/11/2006 6:35:53 PM | | I do but what do you have to do to get a response? I'm not a bad looking guy. I plan on being extremely discreet so no photos, is this the problem? | |
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| What does it take to have an affair?
Posted: 11/11/2006 6:40:04 PM | | ~ What does it take to have an affair? You open a 'simon880' profile on POF & fish for intimate encounters...(so not good!) ~ | |
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| What does it take to have an affair?
Posted: 11/11/2006 6:41:34 PM | So you are risking your current relationship for a "little spark".
Why not try to rekindle the one that you had with your wife?
It's a lot safer... | |
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| What does it take to have an affair?
Posted: 11/11/2006 6:44:52 PM | | I believe you need to have a serious conversation with your wife!.....I feel sorry for her, I have been in her shoes myself.....thats ****ed up......but thats my opinion of course... | |
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| What does it take to have an affair?
Posted: 11/11/2006 6:45:18 PM | | I agree I wish it were that simple. I guess my problems are like a lot of peoples, I've tried to do just that and for one reason or another it fails. Two steps forward three back. When things are good they are good when they are not they suck. I just would like to see if anyone feels the same. | |
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| What does it take to have an affair?
Posted: 11/11/2006 6:48:10 PM | Why dont you take that energy that you are using to try and fool around on your wife and put it into your marriage instead?
And yes, you are a bad guy.... bad guys cheat and lie and that is exactly what you are doing. There is NO justifying it.
Go work on your marraige instead of working on a woman. | |
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Joined: 5/31/2005
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| What does it take to have an affair?
Posted: 11/11/2006 7:11:02 PM | All you need to do is perform a "basic search" for your area.
For instance, I did a basic search for MEN who want INTIMATE ENCOUNTERS aged 35-45 within 50 miles of you, and got back *98* results.
Then I did the reverse and searched for WOMEN looking for intimate encounters, same ages and area, and got back *4* results.
See, what you want, no-strings sex encounters, is something *any woman* can get at *any time* she wants. With a ratio of 98 men to 4 women, I'd suggest hiring a prostitute.
P.S. Even ADDING people looking for "other relationship," there were still *113 men to 8 women.* | |
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| What does it take to have an affair?
Posted: 11/11/2006 7:11:41 PM | | What gives Simon? Do you think she has ever cheated on you? Does she show you disrespect? You obviously have reasons to treat her with contempt. What are they? Give us some gossip dude. | |
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| What does it take to have an affair?
Posted: 11/11/2006 7:17:25 PM | blah blah blah.
Noone is "screwed in the situation" they are in.
If you wanted out, you would get out.
Quit being a coward, get out of your marriage and then you will be a man. | |
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| What does it take to have an affair?
Posted: 11/11/2006 7:17:56 PM | Did you see my research results? Gotta love those odds.
If your situation is so bad, I recommend getting a D-I-V-O-R-C-E. At least that way you'll screwed in court. | |
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Joined: 12/4/2005
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| What does it take to have an affair?
Posted: 11/11/2006 7:18:20 PM |
but maybe have a discreet mutually gratifying relationship.
I don't think your wife will find any gratification in this.... | |
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| What does it take to have an affair?
Posted: 11/11/2006 7:36:11 PM | | Actually the "screwed in court" comment is interesting. He might want to get his money's worth before she takes it! | |
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| What does it take to have an affair?
Posted: 11/11/2006 7:43:59 PM | | 9:23 PM Simon and good-night? You party animal you. I'd say it takes more than that.lol. I'd bet to say if you're not gratified and all of the other phooey, Your wife probably isn't either. And I think it would probably take the same things for you to have an affair that it would her. | |
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