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| Married Women Looking For Sex Posted: 3/29/2005 6:51:34 AM | What do you do when you come across the profile of a married woman looking for sex?
Personally, I think it's sad.
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| Married Women Looking For Sex Posted: 3/29/2005 6:59:31 AM | | Don't complain unless there is a high risk of 'getting shot in the head by pissed off husband' :P | |
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| Married Women Looking For Sex Posted: 3/29/2005 6:59:53 AM | That would depend , for me, on the real living situation of the person in question. I was married to my ex for probably three years technically before I got around to making it legal. Seperate residances, the whole bit. The only thing that remained between us was paperwork at the courthouse and a couple of kids. I've said this elsewhere.....to me a marriage is about the promise, not the paperwork...that would apply to a lover as well. I simply didn't have the 2 or 3K that a divorce would have cost me while I was raising two children.
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| Married Women Looking For Sex Posted: 3/29/2005 8:06:47 AM | | I did come across one and after talking with her for some time she came up from Florida to spend a couple of weeks. She ended up staying four months before going home. All she wanted was sex cause she wasn't getting it at home. She was married to an elderly man that couldn't get it up and was too set in his ways to do anything else to please her. I guess it all depends on the person and the reason why she wanted just sex. Like everything else in life, there is always a reason, sometimes a good one and sometimes not so good one. | |
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| Married Women Looking For Sex Posted: 3/29/2005 9:07:41 AM |
What do you do when you come across the profile of a married woman looking for sex?
Personally, I think it's sad.
Sad? Why? Many married women aren't active with their husbands. If they were, they wouldn't be looking for anything elsewhere. It is hell getting divorced and as NotAPandora said, also very expensive. Marriage is nothing more than a document, the real promise is in the heart. | |
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| Married Women Looking For Sex Posted: 3/29/2005 9:13:37 AM | Interesting perspectives.
I suppose I should add that I'm not talking about someone who posts in their profile that they want a divorce but can't afford it, or are married to someone who can't have sex with them.
Sad perhaps was too vague a term. Selfish and immoral might have been better. A saying; something to do with a cake, comes to mind. :P
Also, I understand that some people do not believe in the institution of marriage (in the traditional sense), so perhaps I should have entitled the topic "Women who have legally vowed monogamy in a committed relationship looking for sex". :P | |
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| Married Women Looking For Sex Posted: 3/29/2005 9:19:16 AM | lol
Did he happen to mention the parameters defining a "pal" in his mind?
Or was he trying to disguise the acronym Pretty Amazing Lay  | |
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| Married Women Looking For Sex Posted: 3/29/2005 10:27:11 AM | | that happens quite a bit actually I know of one person who was contacted in that manner (man posing as his ? wife ) | |
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| Married Women Looking For Sex Posted: 3/14/2006 6:47:02 AM | | Been there, done that, not a good idea. If he don't get you with the shotgun, that only means you'll live long enough for her to decide she's done with you. | |
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| Married Women Looking For Sex Posted: 3/14/2006 7:00:16 AM | | its funny how if the post were about cheating husband everyone would be bashing him but a cheating wife well there must be a reason then and its ok..sounds a little hipocritical to me don't ya think | |
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| Married Women Looking For Sex Posted: 3/14/2006 7:03:30 AM | | The only reason a woman cheats on her husband is because he ain't giving her what she wants in the romance and sex departments, same as if a man cheats on his wife. So, yes there is a hypocritical double standard at play here. | |
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| Married Women Looking For Sex Posted: 3/14/2006 7:27:11 AM | Say what you want...
I would like to see how many men out here would turn down, unattached, emotionaless sex, knowing that the girl will not be looking to jump into anything serious...
It's almost the perfect scenario for men... | |
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| Married Women Looking For Sex Posted: 3/14/2006 7:41:16 AM |
I would like to see how many men out here would turn down, unattached, emotionaless sex, knowing that the girl will not be looking to jump into anything serious...
It's almost the perfect scenario for men...
I had a woman approach me who was married and was looking for something on the side. I said no. I inquired as to her reasons for this, not because I was considering it, but wanted to really know what circumstances led her down that path. The story was sad, but after she told me all the details, I guess I could sympathize with her somewhat, although I could also see other avenues that she could try.
Tell ya the truth, I'm just not looking for that . Call me what you will, but I deserve a better deal..... | |
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| Married Women Looking For Sex Posted: 3/14/2006 7:46:21 AM | all about laughs- "It's almost the perfect scenario for men..."
I follow that word "Almost." Not all of us men can just go for meaningless, no-strings sex. Some of us need to feel an emotional connection to the woman and would prefer that she felt the same way. | |
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| Married Women Looking For Sex Posted: 3/14/2006 8:40:05 AM | | There are quicker, less painful methods of committing suicide. Besides, the Karma thing is out there. I have been on the receiving end, wouldn't wish it on anyone. | |
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| Married Women Looking For Sex Posted: 3/14/2006 1:52:19 PM | no one married should cheat on their mates. married woman lookin for sex.. is just as sleezy as a married man on here lookin for sex. they should have a spork put in their eye.. just as any other cheater should. | |
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