| How long for cunnilingus?
Posted: 11/22/2006 1:55:15 PM | If a gentleman performs oral on a lady, how long should one be expected to perform? I understand there's a natural end when the lady orgasms once or several times or reaches exhaustion, etc., but what if she doesn't climax but keeps telling you "it feels good don't stop". I find my cheek/tongue muscles start cramping after 30 mins, and my neck starts to hurt after 45 min. Is there an appropriate time after which a gentleman can quit gracefully without losing face?
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| How long for cunnilingus?
Posted: 11/22/2006 1:59:23 PM | | Before you vote this as redundant do the thread search yourself: it's not an issue that has been previously addressed. And if you can find a previous post, re-post it here. | |
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| How long for cunnilingus?
Posted: 11/22/2006 2:08:46 PM | | 30 minutes blimey how lucky is she!!!!! wanna come over and give me some oral? just kiddin i would say thats too long by the time youve finished shed probably be done and will lose will power to return the favour! | |
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| How long for cunnilingus?
Posted: 11/22/2006 2:14:27 PM | 30 mins?!?!? you'd be prying me off the ceiling.
there is no time limit to be down there. the way i look at it, if she O's, then she O's. if not, well, after 30 mins, maybe you should just try something else. no one said you had to just do cunnilingus | |
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| How long for cunnilingus?
Posted: 11/22/2006 2:21:09 PM | | Hell, I'd be most eager to please her down there.. no matter how long it took! What the hell's your problem, dude!! Lol! | |
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| How long for cunnilingus?
Posted: 11/22/2006 2:23:20 PM | I'm reminded of a line from American Gigolo. Something to the effect of an older client that took three hours of attention to reach orgasm.
Cheers,
Mike (as for your question, until it's time to segue to other forms of pleasure. YMMV.) | |
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| How long for cunnilingus?
Posted: 11/22/2006 2:32:38 PM | 30 minutes is quite a long time man... 45 minutes is very long. I'm not sure if I could do it that long, but I'm wondering why she can't climax after that amount of time. Any time a girl has been going down on me and I haven't finished inside 5-10 minutes she starts wondering why it isn't happening for me....
If you can make it 30 minutes comfortably, then I'd say you should be able to say you made an honest attempt, and call it quits. | |
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| How long for cunnilingus?
Posted: 11/22/2006 2:54:24 PM | Technique! Develop a good one that works. I'm not telling you. Read up on it if you have to. Do you enjoy doing it for her? If not, you'll be under par mate. You're already wondering when it would be acceptable to put your tongue away. That's got to have a negative effect on what you're meant to be doing. Don't concentrate on one specific part of her sex until all is lost. Be gradual. Be varied. Be relaxed right from the start and enjoy what you are doing and be patient.
I sympathize with you when you say you get facial cramps and neck ache but it's up to you to get yourself comfortable. It's something girls love so you really need to get to grips with it.
I often get a blister under my tongue where it moves back and forth over my bottom teeth but I'm rarely aware of it until afterwards because while it was developing I'd have been completely devoted to the enjoyment of her sex and to the way I was making her feel.
Maybe your Girlfriend is less sensitive than most others. Maybe it's not all down to you.
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| How long for cunnilingus?
Posted: 11/22/2006 2:59:40 PM |  and hes not asking when is it ok to stop going down he is asking how long other ppl do. and while most guy say she gets off in 5-10 min the point of oral atleast for me is not how fast i can get her off its too see how long i can keep her just on the edge. | |
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| How long for cunnilingus?
Posted: 11/22/2006 3:03:37 PM | | Switch to using your hands/fingers. Basically when you're sore. Tell her your sore and have her get on top of you. | |
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| How long for cunnilingus?
Posted: 11/22/2006 3:04:03 PM |  well this actually happened to me the yssup almost sucked me in I had to shove away from it barely breathing  then fell off the bed gagging for air
We both had a really good laugh and of course it was a very memorable event  | |
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| How long for cunnilingus?
Posted: 11/22/2006 3:04:15 PM | | I once had a guy go at me for a couple of hours - he was making up for his 'short comings' so to speak!! It got boring actually - I left early!!! | |
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| How long for cunnilingus?
Posted: 11/22/2006 3:04:55 PM | I could tease my EX and make it last for well over 1 hour...
But most times she would grab my hands which meant she wanted to get off, so I'd use my fingers, once I hit the spot, it was a matter of minutes...
I loved giving oral, so I could go for over an hour no problem... Using toys in between, or my own toy that I was born with, etc... | |
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| How long for cunnilingus?
Posted: 11/22/2006 4:12:24 PM | I could tease my EX and make it last for well over 1 hour...
Holy tongue cramps............Master.........
Over an Hour????????????..............Your My Hero........
Maybe I got no game an hour no wonder some get sore.....It is my understanding that That lovley area can be over stimulated for long periods of time....???
I would get a pain under my tounge, but she liked it so I would keep going...
It wasn't an hour everytime, that was only once in a while...
Most of the time I'd say it was under 30 minutes... | |
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| How long for cunnilingus?
Posted: 11/22/2006 4:17:57 PM | How long for cunnilingus? How long should one be expected to perform?  
As a strong supporter of women enjoying multiple orgasims, I must admit that it does require effort, thought and creativity.  
1/ "cheek/tongue muscles start cramping after 30 mins,"  Dude there is so so much more than tongue too performing...... However we not going there, start by placing a pillow under her ass or have her sit in a chair or on the couch. Positioning is important as well as letting her know that she's free to adjust her position, causing you to adjust yours.
The last thing you want is her to have a sore back later Its like your muscles getting sore it kinda puts a little damper on everything.
Its all about the Math Dude
You really need to communicate with her as to what her likes and dislikes are so you have an idea, from there its you developing your technique with her.
2/ "and my neck starts to hurt after 45 min." see above for ideas. Live & Learn 
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| How long for cunnilingus?
Posted: 11/22/2006 4:19:26 PM | ^^pillow under the ass when on bed, yes, very important!
It is my understanding that That lovley area can be over stimulated for long periods of time....???
Well, I couldn't touch my ex after she came, about all I could do was blow on it, and even that drove her to the ceiling... She would get so sensative, she could not handle any more contact...
She was not a multiple orgasm kind of girl, would have to wait a few hours before she could do it again...
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| How long for cunnilingus?
Posted: 11/22/2006 4:24:43 PM |
cheek/tongue muscles start cramping after 30 mins, and my neck starts to hurt after 45 min.
k so the use of an egg timer is out huh? | |
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| How long for cunnilingus?
Posted: 11/22/2006 4:37:03 PM | You should try dating a former lesbian and get her to spill the beans on what works, all the different techniques and positions.
Ok Now I'm off to the shower, a reeeeeeal coooooold shower | |
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| How long for cunnilingus?
Posted: 11/22/2006 4:57:21 PM | no half hour isn't too long.
alot of woman need that amount of time to get off.
how bout you just stay there.. till shes gotten off.
Every woman is dif.. but on average it takes a woman about 20 minutes to have that first orgasm.. | |
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| How long for cunnilingus?
Posted: 11/22/2006 5:26:32 PM | 30 mins? I must orgasm very quickly...because 30 minutes sounds like a really long time!
I know for myself, I can't perform oral sex on a man for longer than 30 minutes without being in some pain, and I've never had a man complain about me stopping. If you're in pain, you're in pain...let her know that. Communication during sex is muy importante!!! | |
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