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 PerfectFitz
Joined: 9/30/2006
Msg: 1
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Do any women out there like to be choked while having sex? and why?

Me I LOVE IT!!! It is the biggest turn on in the world. But Im not talkin choking to the point of being out cold or anything, lightly choked....
 xXmentalXx
Joined: 5/30/2005
Msg: 2
Being Choked while having sex
Posted: 11/27/2006 5:26:08 AM
OP man I would love to throttle you like Homer Simpson does to Bart hehe jk. It's something I've done before it was weird at first but after seeing how much of a turn on it was for my partner it became less awkward and more of a turn on.
 ulao
Joined: 6/10/2006
Msg: 3
Being Choked while having sex
Posted: 11/27/2006 5:30:35 AM
Well this topic will most likely get deleted because its been over done, but I always will take the opportunity to say :H4LL YA!! I love choking... but only if she is in to it.
 moaning momma
Joined: 8/8/2006
Msg: 4
Being Choked while having
Posted: 11/27/2006 5:34:11 AM
no ...it would completely freak me out !!!
 Belladrama
Joined: 12/1/2005
Msg: 5
Being Choked while having
Posted: 11/27/2006 5:43:53 AM
I never really got into the whole choking or asphyxiation thing it's too dangerous for my taste but if I ever did get into it there will definably be a safe word involved for him to stop if I say that word
 PerfectFitz
Joined: 9/30/2006
Msg: 6
Being Choked while having
Posted: 11/27/2006 5:45:42 AM
Well that is a little bit beyond what i am meaning, but if it makes you feel safer to have a safe word then i think it is a smart idea. Me I dont use a safe word only because I only tell the guys I trust about whether or not i like being choked.
 xXmentalXx
Joined: 5/30/2005
Msg: 7
Being Choked while having
Posted: 11/27/2006 5:56:18 AM
My safe word is iseethemilkcomingfromthecowsnose
 ulao
Joined: 6/10/2006
Msg: 8
Being Choked while having
Posted: 11/27/2006 6:01:37 AM
"iseethemilkcomingfromthecowsnose" LOL nice!

I'm with ya perfectfitz I have choked a number of times and never could I possibly hurt her. I'm told for the girl that it's so exciting just to be choked, and its the scare they get off on. I love it when it gets so close she pauses and a slight fear is shown then a smile followed by a "HELL YA" do that again!!
 showbags
Joined: 1/27/2005
Msg: 9
Being Choked while having
Posted: 11/27/2006 6:10:10 AM
it can be really hot. went out with a totally hot girl who loved it and the more she got turned on by it the more i did. but we certainly never got full on or anything with it. it was as much having my hands around her throat that was the turn on for us, as opposed to any realy pressure
 Belladrama
Joined: 12/1/2005
Msg: 10
Being Choked while having
Posted: 11/27/2006 6:24:25 AM

My safe word is iseethemilkcomingfromthecowsnose

hahahaha
by the time you get all that out it would be all over
 xXmentalXx
Joined: 5/30/2005
Msg: 11
Being Choked while having
Posted: 11/27/2006 6:32:14 AM
I don't use a safe word but if I did that would be one of my suggestions for it hehe. But seriously in most cases or least in my own you can read from you partners body language whether or not he/she is enjoying it. I usually don't start out pressing that hard and let my partner gauge how much force they would like me to use.
 eightpartsgood
Joined: 10/31/2006
Msg: 12
Being Choked while having
Posted: 11/27/2006 6:42:23 AM
A lot of the pleasure comes from the initial triggering of the survival reflex, enhances senses, increases the the the happy juice stuff from when I can remember the name.
Second, the blood flow restrictions. Controlling the blood flow to the brain (Limiting, and the releasing) causes another increase, even to the point of unconciousness,

Safety words aren't that great with choking, though. Usually a tap stop. When your partner touches your shoulder of something, or taps the floor or whatever.
 Missing80s
Joined: 10/19/2006
Msg: 13
Being Choked while having
Posted: 11/27/2006 6:46:49 AM
It's not for me, but a friend of mine says that's almost the only way her husband can get off anymore when they have sex. I'll just settle for good ol' fashioned spankin', thank you very much.
 Tool_MJK
Joined: 9/6/2006
Msg: 14
Being Choked while having
Posted: 11/27/2006 6:56:57 AM
YES PLEASE! I love to feel nice strong hands around me neck.
 Doouglass
Joined: 2/26/2006
Msg: 15
Being Choked while having sex
Posted: 11/27/2006 7:11:23 AM
I've known 3 women who've enjoyed that.
I'm betting one of the best was would be doggy style with a blood joke. A few pillows underneath her stomach/chest for support because her arms would be raised high and to the sides. Guy gets on top from behind, puts her in a blood choke, when her arms fall from their raised position he knows it's time to release.
The feeling is somewhat euphoric/disorientating when you come out of a blood choke induced unconsciousness and I can see why it might compliment an orgasm.
I can't see an air choke being any fun because it's painful and there's a chance of busting the larynx.

P.S. Kids don't try this at home.
 Leeanne
Joined: 10/14/2005
Msg: 16
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Being Choked while having sex
Posted: 11/27/2006 7:14:24 AM
Uh nope too dangerous - usually you're not thinking straight during sex, so it could get carried too far!! Not my idea of fun!!
 ManOwaR
Joined: 8/9/2005
Msg: 17
Being Choked while having sex
Posted: 11/27/2006 7:29:17 AM
okay! the safe word is Banana!

I saw a porn once where these dames were getting choked.... then punched in the kidneys, then had their faces stepped on... then had a finger shoved in their asses then in their mouth.... the things people do for money.. and apparently pleasure =P

I dunno how I'd react if I was told to choke her right in the middle of the deed....
 xXmentalXx
Joined: 5/30/2005
Msg: 18
Being Choked while having sex
Posted: 11/27/2006 7:32:41 AM
I cried when she asked me an then zapped me with a taser boy was I angry and got my revenge I mean um....jk LMAO
 PerfectFitz
Joined: 9/30/2006
Msg: 19
Being Choked while having sex
Posted: 11/27/2006 7:38:49 AM

Safety words aren't that great with choking, though. Usually a tap stop. When your partner touches your shoulder of something, or taps the floor or whatever


eightparts has the right idea... i have never needed a safety word, a tap on the arm has always een sufficiant
 Amoreena
Joined: 6/6/2006
Msg: 20
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Being Choked while having sex
Posted: 11/27/2006 8:49:20 AM
I love it. But I am careful. You just can't allow anyone that much control.
 ineedcomputerhelp
Joined: 8/16/2006
Msg: 21
Being Choked while having sex
Posted: 11/27/2006 9:03:13 AM
I love it when he holds my neck during sex.... not too tight.. just enough.
 Nogoodnames
Joined: 4/4/2006
Msg: 22
Being Choked while having sex
Posted: 11/27/2006 10:03:29 AM
I've dated a girl who was into it... She was a lot of fun but I was always a bit scared so I'd let her go for a bit which she didn't really like me doing but it was for my piece of mind.
 mostlykitten
Joined: 11/21/2006
Msg: 23
Being Choked while having sex
Posted: 11/27/2006 10:27:18 AM
On of my ex's used to do that too me, right before he thought I was going to cum, it cut off my air, and I didn't like it, told him not to but he wouldn't stop. It's not a rush for me, I don't like to be able to breath.
 terriblechicky
Joined: 3/22/2006
Msg: 24
Being Choked while having sex
Posted: 11/27/2006 10:27:46 AM
OOOHHHHH yah LoViN iT, Im still tryin to figure out why... but it just gets me... I really dont think its dangerous at all with the right person... Obviously you wouldnt want it in a one night stand or anything but i mean a serious commited relationship why not... Just dont piss him off b 4...lol...j/k...
 mostlykitten
Joined: 11/21/2006
Msg: 25
Being Choked while having sex
Posted: 11/27/2006 10:30:37 AM
I felt like he was going to break my neck, just snap it, didn't trust him enough, I trusted him as much as I could ever trust anyone though.
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