| Ok-Bottom Line Posted: 3/30/2005 10:15:33 AM | | Isn't it Ok to just want alittle fun, a few laughs and some Hot Sex? I'm newly divorced and am lonely for some adult time. Not just friends and children but someone who makes you feel special. Someone who makes you feel nervous or excited when they are near. Not a new husband or a replacement. Just a here and now kinda friend, Is that Bad? | |
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| Ok-Bottom Line Posted: 3/30/2005 10:30:50 AM | | It's perfectly okay, it's cool if you state that up front and then enjoy! | |
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| Ok-Bottom Line Posted: 3/30/2005 10:35:27 AM | | AS long as both parties know what you looking for and what you want then it can be AWSOME! | |
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| Ok-Bottom Line Posted: 3/30/2005 10:40:34 AM | sounnds fair...lots of guys lookin' for the same thing.. be careful it's hard to seperate lust and love sometimes | |
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Sliv
| Joined: 3/9/2005 Msg: 5 | |
| Ok-Bottom Line Posted: 3/30/2005 11:09:54 AM | | Just remember to wrap it up like grandma's couch, so when it's 80 years old it still looks new! | |
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| Ok-Bottom Line Posted: 3/30/2005 12:08:18 PM | I'm not absolutely sure but I think he wants the OP to have safe sex on his grandma's couch. With an 80 year old.
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ericm
| Joined: 1/3/2005 Msg: 8 | |
| Ok-Bottom Line Posted: 3/30/2005 1:06:37 PM | | sure it is ok to have fun, someone to make one feel special.... especially hot sex. | |
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Missy
| Joined: 1/29/2005 Msg: 10 | |
| Ok-Bottom Line Posted: 3/30/2005 1:10:39 PM | | As long as both parties are aware that that is the arrangement. Honesty is the best policy don't cha know. | |
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| Ok-Bottom Line Posted: 3/30/2005 3:20:21 PM | | keke,,you are divorced, so I see nothing wrong with it. Good luck. The bottom line as I see it is that marriage is the big factor as far as any reaching for a relationship. No married man nor women should be lookin for a relationship anywhere, especially on the net as well as anywhere else. If the opposite sex is involved, I don't have the option of developing anything. That is my choice, and I think should be that of any who are married in here. | |
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| Ok-Bottom Line Posted: 3/30/2005 3:49:34 PM | YES it is OK, ESPECIALLY after a divorce. Nothing can be more thereputic | |
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| Ok-Bottom Line Posted: 3/30/2005 3:50:42 PM | | But if you are fresh out of a "D", be upfornt and make sure she knows that you sdont want to fall in love. Like it or not, you are going to have to do some work on yourself for a while before your next "Real" relationship. | |
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| Ok-Bottom Line Posted: 3/30/2005 6:28:48 PM | | no as long as you are upfront about what you want nothing is wrong with that | |
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| Ok-Bottom Line Posted: 3/30/2005 8:05:56 PM | Nothin` wrong if you are having fun and being HONEST....As long as she knows it`s just a bootie call and nothing more...and she accepts that..more power to you. redneckgirl133 | |
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| Ok-Bottom Line Posted: 3/30/2005 8:45:59 PM | um...HELLO!!!!!!!!!!!!
the poster is a girl!
and you're all responding like she's a man!
she wrote...
Not a new husband or a replacement. Just a here and now kinda friend, Is that Bad?
does this change anyone's response? | |
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| Ok-Bottom Line Posted: 3/30/2005 9:05:33 PM | Yes, it does, Ms Picky...
I can't stand to see a fellow poffer in distress. I'd like to offer my services as fock buddy. | |
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| Ok-Bottom Line Posted: 3/30/2005 9:12:53 PM | | seeing that you are divorced and really not looking for a new relationship right away. no, there isn't anything wrong with kicking up your heels and having a little fun as long as your up front and honest with your fella friend. besides, you never know what may happen after the fun begins. | |
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| Ok-Bottom Line Posted: 3/30/2005 9:17:03 PM | | Yes; it's ok...honesty is great! | |
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| Ok-Bottom Line Posted: 3/30/2005 10:37:49 PM | Go for it....
Protect yourself and go for it again and again and again
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| Ok-Bottom Line Posted: 3/31/2005 5:00:25 AM | | Thank You!-Yes I am a women! | |
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| Ok-Bottom Line Posted: 3/31/2005 5:05:03 AM | | I say its ok.....because that alot like what Im looking for...just remember to stay safe not everyone is nice or "clean" nowdays | |
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| Ok-Bottom Line Posted: 3/31/2005 1:28:28 PM | | My girlfriend told me that it is ok--just dont stay the night because it causes a false sense of intimacy beyond the physical--and I tend to agree, especially when newly divorced. The mind has a funny way of playing tricks on us...even when we think we are sure about where we are at! | |
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| Ok-Bottom Line Posted: 3/31/2005 3:43:14 PM | | It changes nothing with me, picky. I am married, and that ends it. I allow nothing to develop. | |
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