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 mikeoutthere

Joined: 9/17/2006
Msg: 1
Mans Body Language…
Posted: 11/30/2006 4:58:37 PM
Is there something like that when it comes to attracting women by man ?
And what do women look for in mans body language ?

 athletic2222

Joined: 10/13/2006
Msg: 2
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Posted: 11/30/2006 5:08:26 PM
It helps, if when you are approaching a woman, that you jerk your pelvis back and forth as you are walking towards her.

 niceladylooking

Joined: 10/22/2006
Msg: 3
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Posted: 11/30/2006 5:37:15 PM
lol that was funny Athletic2222 "It helps, if when you are approaching a woman, that you jerk your pelvis back and forth as you are walking towards her."
In all seriousness...I look for a fit man,who has fashions on his body from this year or at least this decade. For me I like a clean shaven man...then I know he is not grubby. (But some women like the stubble look-for me, if kissing is involved later, stubble can really hurt my face!) I like to see that he walks confidently and maintains eye contact with me. He should also not cross his arms when he is talking to me...because this means he is disinterested in what we are discussing. Intelligent conversation is always nice.
Those are my thoughts...oh yes a smile is always very attractive to me.
 itsallinthesoul

Joined: 11/22/2006
Msg: 4
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Posted: 11/30/2006 5:38:52 PM
make eye contact with the woman when she is talking to you
walk with confidence in your stride - can't explain how to do it to you, just know it when I see it
smile...very important!
 itsallinthesoul

Joined: 11/22/2006
Msg: 5
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Posted: 11/30/2006 5:40:16 PM
lmao niceladylooking, we posted at the same time and said the same thing
 JOZIE

Joined: 8/3/2005
Msg: 6
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Posted: 11/30/2006 5:42:31 PM
a guy that walks with confidence but not****ness is attractive. Know you're worth it but don't advertise it you know??? A smile always helps and the way he looks at you with his eyes.....that can tell alot about the person. You can tell alot about a person's stare. So looking into her eyes when you talk to you (don't be creepy though lol) You don't have to look into them the whole time but we do notice when guys talk to our twins instead of our face!

Good luck
 niceladylooking

Joined: 10/22/2006
Msg: 7
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Posted: 11/30/2006 5:42:50 PM
See, itsallinthesoul...we must be right! LOL
 cbarrow

Joined: 10/14/2006
Msg: 8
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Posted: 11/30/2006 5:45:25 PM
Ya, OK NOT!! Eye contact. You can do SO many things with that! Major turn on and go from there!
 Thundershowers

Joined: 7/26/2006
Msg: 9
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Posted: 11/30/2006 5:54:21 PM
Pull your chest up and have good posture. Maintain eye contact. A man standing straight up with a strong looking chest gets some attention.
 wildone009

Joined: 11/17/2006
Msg: 10
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Posted: 11/30/2006 7:33:32 PM
If your comfortable in your skin and confident it shows.
You have to like yourself before you can anyone else.
If you have the right kind of eye contact with a woman
she can feel you.
 Thundershowers

Joined: 7/26/2006
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Posted: 11/30/2006 8:07:10 PM
Oh, and if there is a pronounced bulge in his pants that can be a good sign to.

It looks like a tent sticking out.
 Jetplague

Joined: 4/4/2005
Msg: 12
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Posted: 11/30/2006 8:16:16 PM
If you look like your having fun and being yourself (and not an over acting jack off.)....a woman will more then likely approach you and get to know you. Although, there have been many that seem to be attracted more to the men who act like total jerks.
 strephie

Joined: 12/9/2005
Msg: 13
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Posted: 11/30/2006 8:26:03 PM
LOL

Dragonwalker...too funny
 Elfenlass

Joined: 10/8/2006
Msg: 14
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Posted: 11/30/2006 8:26:57 PM
I look for eye contact. I look to see if his chest is towards me. (A person may be looking around, but where their chest is pointed is what they're focusing on.) I look to see if he's trying to stand/sit close to me. I look for lots of smiling, more than normal. I look for interest in what I'm saying. (Does he lean in to listen, etc..)
 mr_ultimo

Joined: 11/3/2006
Msg: 15
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Posted: 11/30/2006 8:40:01 PM
pin a few 100 dollar bills to your clothes, they will come running!
 Crushme

Joined: 8/6/2005
Msg: 16
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Posted: 12/1/2006 12:11:50 AM
Touching on what others have said, everything about your success in interacting with dating interests boils down to confidence. It can be quiet confidence or outspoken confidence. If you have or work to develop self-assurance, it wil permeate through all that you say and do. At that point, you won't have to worry about body language, it will come naturally.

That said, to answer you question, keep your head up, eye contact is key and be deliberate in the things that you do (which means either be yourself where things come naturally or think before you act). Howeverm walking the proverbial walk is one thing. Just because you follow every correct body language tip to perfection, it still won't address a lack of self confidence (not saying that you do). It all comes from within first, not the outward body language.
 notonlywords

Joined: 1/12/2007
Msg: 17
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Posted: 1/27/2007 5:52:34 PM
I agree with what many people have said, it's all about eye contact, and being confident. It's as if women can sense a man who is insecure with approaching her, and from that moment on, its pretty much over :P

Love the comments to by the way guys, halarious :P

Overall though, couldn't agree with crushme more...
 Scotchlassie

Joined: 4/24/2006
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Posted: 1/27/2007 6:00:58 PM
Nothing can beat a smile - and an approach with confidence is always appealing
 Janet4now

Joined: 10/3/2006
Msg: 19
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Posted: 1/27/2007 6:08:13 PM
I agree with ScotchLassie... smile... and please don't "try" to be anything. I'll be me and you be you, K?
 vinny low

Joined: 8/18/2006
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Posted: 1/27/2007 6:14:51 PM
thing is body langauge can be misinterpreted....i often cross my arms it doesnt mean im not interested...more that im physically uncomfortable..im some 1 who has to move..i cant stand in 1 spot like a statue with my hands at my side glaring into some 1s eyes..ill cross my arms then maybe cross my wrists behind my back i might shift my knees and im uncomfortable making long eye contact cause it feels like im starring at the person.
 On_The_Edge

Joined: 12/4/2006
Msg: 21
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Posted: 1/27/2007 6:27:19 PM
if i saw that coming i would run for sure.
 sexyrome46

Joined: 8/20/2006
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Posted: 1/27/2007 6:41:41 PM
well i will look at her and then look away, but i just stand back to see if she's peeping me.
 Paprikash!

Joined: 1/18/2007
Msg: 23
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Posted: 4/20/2007 7:22:29 AM
A man who is comfortable in his own skin. Someone who puts you at ease and is
attentive to what you are saying as you should be to him. His kilt should be hemmed mid-knee and he should be squeaky clean. (OK - I had to throw that in...I'm sorry...I'll go away now;)
 Leeanne

Joined: 10/14/2005
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Posted: 4/20/2007 7:32:32 AM
Smiling - eye contact - leaning in - touching your hand or shoulder - usually all the same things a guy looks fo in a girl - it's a human contact not gender specific!! ~JMHO~
 VinceDaPrince

Joined: 11/4/2008
Msg: 25
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Posted: 2/2/2009 10:07:49 AM
if u can , touch the woman as u talk , conveys that u want to touch her " body " subconciously . when i say touch i mean their arm or any non sexual or weird aresas ,, when people touch a whole other conversation has started !

JMO
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