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 pastelpink

Joined: 5/31/2004
Msg: 1
how do u deal with a broken heart ?
Posted: 7/30/2004 3:12:59 PM
I just cry and talk 2 as many supports as possible.
 Ruby_

Joined: 7/10/2004
Msg: 2
Re: how do u deal with a broken heart ?
Posted: 7/31/2004 4:34:02 AM
"ditto"
 GothicOrchid

Joined: 7/11/2003
Msg: 3
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Re: how do u deal with a broken heart ?
Posted: 7/31/2004 8:43:55 AM
I'm still lookin for the answer to that question.....*SIGH*.......
 youallsuk

Joined: 3/28/2004
Msg: 4
Re: how do u deal with a broken heart ?
Posted: 7/31/2004 1:48:38 PM
see a cardiologist!
 xchuck

Joined: 6/11/2004
Msg: 5
Re: how do u deal with a broken heart ?
Posted: 7/31/2004 3:17:09 PM
i learn to cope by doing things to take my mind off it......it still catches up to you in your dreams though
 Velocity

Joined: 7/21/2004
Msg: 6
Re: how do u deal with a broken heart ?
Posted: 7/31/2004 5:10:36 PM
I don't drink, except for a few weeks after it happens, then I go out, drink, flirt, etc.
 Robetini

Joined: 7/5/2004
Msg: 7
Re: how do u deal with a broken heart ?
Posted: 7/31/2004 6:01:24 PM
Good thing my heart is cold and hard.

The death of a family member or some kind of catastrophe would break my heart though.
But with time everything goes back to normal. Life has to continue.

 youallsuk

Joined: 3/28/2004
Msg: 8
Re: how do u deal with a broken heart ?
Posted: 7/31/2004 7:04:06 PM
same here robetini, but a family member's death would be only a small deal. mine is so cold and black that i already have contingency plans for every one of their demises so that i can be non-caring as usual.
 Robetini

Joined: 7/5/2004
Msg: 9
Re: how do u deal with a broken heart ?
Posted: 7/31/2004 7:15:33 PM
Well, I was thinking mother and brother type of family. My father already past away.

I hate to think of family as extended family. I know people who talk about their second counsins and they say things like "my father's sister aunt cousin nephew on my mother's side". That gets me all confused and I tried to follow the line. But usually lose it. What? who?
 youallsuk

Joined: 3/28/2004
Msg: 10
Re: how do u deal with a broken heart ?
Posted: 7/31/2004 7:24:05 PM
mother- nothing much of care. the gameboy that she plays contantly would need some therapy.

sister- big deal. i would more than likely have a night out to celebrate.

father- automatically take power of his business.
 Robetini

Joined: 7/5/2004
Msg: 11
Re: how do u deal with a broken heart ?
Posted: 7/31/2004 7:31:44 PM
That means, that at least I'm "gooder" than you.
Which shows I wasn't born this way. I was made.
Any ways, It's saturday nite. I'm going some where.
Maybe out there in Hollywood or Old Town Pasadena or
somewhere, drink and see what I can get this time.
bye.
 youallsuk

Joined: 3/28/2004
Msg: 12
Re: how do u deal with a broken heart ?
Posted: 7/31/2004 7:39:10 PM
have fun. get some for us all.
 GothicOrchid

Joined: 7/11/2003
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Re: how do u deal with a broken heart ?
Posted: 7/31/2004 11:58:41 PM
see a cardiologist!...bird you posted this!...a freakin cardiologist isn't gonna help that's for sure!............
 xchuck

Joined: 6/11/2004
Msg: 14
Re: how do u deal with a broken heart ?
Posted: 8/1/2004 12:06:13 AM
what's got her bird? hey gothic i'm getting concerned here
 GothicOrchid

Joined: 7/11/2003
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Re: how do u deal with a broken heart ?
Posted: 8/1/2004 12:08:23 AM
don't worry chuck!....everything will be fine over time!.....
 xchuck

Joined: 6/11/2004
Msg: 16
Re: how do u deal with a broken heart ?
Posted: 8/1/2004 12:35:37 AM
good...because alot of people love you here
 GothicOrchid

Joined: 7/11/2003
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Re: how do u deal with a broken heart ?
Posted: 8/1/2004 12:45:10 AM
yeah I'm tryin to figure out who they are, and as of right now I know the ones that are for real on that one.......the rest are......well they don't wanna get close to anyone!....EVER!...

so now that I'm weedin through all these people, I'm findin out!....
 Velocity

Joined: 7/21/2004
Msg: 18
Re: how do u deal with a broken heart ?
Posted: 8/1/2004 2:39:20 PM
I go looking for "plenty of fish" in the sea...
 Zee

Joined: 4/11/2004
Msg: 19
Re: how do u deal with a broken heart ?
Posted: 8/1/2004 4:28:24 PM
how do u deal with a broken heart

a good shower cry - some of you ladies know what I am sayin'

but eventually you get over it - i cant remember the last time my heart was broken, but disappointment is a kick in the arse - to me its just as painful as having a broken heart
 pastelpink

Joined: 5/31/2004
Msg: 20
Re: how do u deal with a broken heart ?
Posted: 8/1/2004 10:25:26 PM
yeah that's all true.......
 Careingfriend

Joined: 7/31/2004
Msg: 21
Re: how do u deal with a broken heart ?
Posted: 8/1/2004 11:40:01 PM
I usualy set aside everything related to that person and place it in an envelop. I would then take a long shower, play with Peppie (my dog), and then I would hook with some of my old friends.
 ezzatrod

Joined: 6/22/2004
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Re: how do u deal with a broken heart ?
Posted: 8/2/2004 6:33:43 AM
yeah...its pretty difficult Job...for both of us...


Easient way that we can ease some broken is leaving to another plc...may be for picnic and hilyday ...its just stay away from the memories....
 baby_chelle_belle19

Joined: 6/10/2004
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Re: how do u deal with a broken heart ?
Posted: 8/4/2004 11:48:51 AM
I dealt with my broken heart the other night. I just faced it in the worst case scenario. My ex called me up and asked me to do a favor for him and his new girlfriend. I said no at first, but then I decided to go ahead and do it. I bawled my head off until he showed up, and then when he showed up I wouldn't look at him, or even really say much to him at that time. I got into the car, and he tried to get me to talk to him about it. I really didn't want to. Well finally when we were at our destination I did confront him about it and tell him "What's wrong". And when I looked up into his eyes I realized something. I have always been physically and emotionally attracted to this person. But when I really looked at him, I didn't feel anything. It was totally amazing. I know that that doesn't mean I am over him. But I have at least finally taken him off of that pedestal I have had him on for like two years now. I think I allowed him to hurt me worse the other night than I have ever been hurt, I knew what he was going to be doing with his new girlfriend that night. It hurt so bad, but then I began not caring. So be it, it is over, I am not gonna be played anymore. That is all there is to it. :-)
 starluss wreck

Joined: 5/31/2004
Msg: 24
Re: how do u deal with a broken heart ?
Posted: 8/4/2004 2:55:03 PM
UMMM... I KNOW THIS MAY BE A SHOCKER TO MOST... BUT I JUST DRINK IT AWAY. FOR EXAMPLE... I DONT REMEMBER MUCH OF 2001... BUT IM NOT BROKEN HEARTED NOW.
 precious24

Joined: 8/8/2004
Msg: 25
Re: how do u deal with a broken heart ?
Posted: 8/9/2004 7:55:23 AM
Being broken hearted sucks big time, it's a good day when I can go about my own life without remembering how much suffering i had to go through. Talking sure helps... but not for too long. Having a good friend who will keep you busy helps also, that's probably the best thing.
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