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Posted: 12/6/2006 10:11:34 PM | | I was Iming this girl here on pof and we were really geting to know each other, and she gave me her phone number so I asked her if I could her a call. So I did, but it was really late at night and I ended up wake ing her up. The next day she was online, and I got an im saying never to cal her again and to leave her alone. I apologized profusley and she said she might think about giving me a second chance once I changed m ways. So I gave her time before testing the waters(about 5 days to a week. She for gave me and said she just wanted to be friends. I wrote her a couple more im's but she seamed kind of anoid with me, so I told one of my friends about what hapend and he noticed that just about all of the im's I sent her since the incident were me contacting her. So he said not to im her for a while and let her come to me. And I have been for nine days now,but nothing happened yet. My question is She was the one who aproched me by e-mail first and then by im and was comfortable enough to tell me about her sellf before I even asked her, then this stupid telephone thing hapened, and now I don't know what to do. I tried letting her come to me like I said, but it's been nine days now and I do'nt know if the longer I waite to talk to her the father apart it will drive us, or if I should hang in there a littel longer. I really like this gril and even though she's just looking to be friends for right now I know there is something there between us, or was before the incident and hopefuly there still is, but i'm not sure how to get it back. | |
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Posted: 12/6/2006 10:50:17 PM | | If someone I had just talked to called me late at night, especially on a weekday, without first asking if I would be up at that time I'd be very pissed off. I have school and really don't appreciate being woken up in the middle of the night. I find it to be extremely disrespectful! If you're a friend in crisis I wouldn't be mad, but if you're just calling to chat, not cool at all. I have a life and to function normally I need sleep. Great if you don't but I do and most people would agree that if you go to school or work during the day chances are you sleep at night. In the future don't call so late. It's pretty rude. | |
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kayjo5
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Joined: 11/18/2006
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Posted: 12/6/2006 11:16:22 PM | Oh that is so lame Chick whoever you are . So the guy called real late ,kinda rude but no biggie! Im betting this girl just plain ole aint interested anymore for what ever reason.Who knows ,most likely you busted her with her old man and she was pissed cause she wanted to keep it on the downlow.She was calling all the shots and this poor guy had the nerve to call with out her telling him when.Forget this girl,she's changed her mind, and too rude or stupid to tell you straight out. She's gaming you . Move on! | |
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Posted: 12/6/2006 11:33:56 PM | | kayjo5, I'm sure you'd be pissed off if someone called you just as you were falling asleep or in the middle of the night. It's rude and disrespectful. | |
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Posted: 12/7/2006 12:13:24 AM | i did that once... forgot a "young man" over a too late phone call. i picked up and asked "what?" when i told him i was already in bed, asleep, he replied "oh"... told me he had just called to say hi, and proceeded to talk. uhm. i just said i was in bed asleep, you woke me up, and you dont have the good graces to say, "sorry, i'll let you go" wtf???
yes, he was done that night. i told him to never call me again. ever. why? a complete lack of respect... after telling him i was already asleep, he continued talking like it was no big deal. so, before you judge this young woman, maybe know there's possibly more to the story than what he's telling... or is willing to see. | |
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Posted: 12/7/2006 1:05:19 AM | msg 3 and 5, Kayjo5...........LMAO, love these forums always good for a laugh.
I agree with kayjo 5, IF you're panting at the bit waiting for this guy's call........you won't care about the time........maybe he works shifts.......maybe he had to have a couple of drinks to get up his nerve...........I use to work shifts so you could have called me at a respectable? hour and woken me.
Geez, so many rules chick .... you must be getting too many calls. | |
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Posted: 12/7/2006 3:19:32 AM | Dude, the peas porridge has been in the pot nine days. No one likes nine day old peas porridge. It's time to move on. For whatever reason, this girl is not interested.
As for the phone call "really late at night", I'm sure you have learned your lesson. Take a hint from ol' Heloise, to call some one late at night is ill-mannered. | |
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Posted: 12/7/2006 4:15:30 AM | i did that once... forgot a "young man" over a too late phone call. i picked up and asked "what?" when i told him i was already in bed, asleep, he replied "oh"... told me he had just called to say hi, and proceeded to talk. uhm. i just said i was in bed asleep, you woke me up, and you dont have the good graces to say, "sorry, i'll let you go" wtf???
yes, he was done that night. i told him to never call me again. ever. why? a complete lack of respect... after telling him i was already asleep, he continued talking like it was no big deal. so, before you judge this young woman, maybe know there's possibly more to the story than what he's telling... or is willing to see
Sheesh, wrong time of the month eh?
Seems quite silly if you end a possible relationship over that. Seems even sillier to give your phone number to someone that you can blow off that easily over a little mistake like that. Obviously you were just toying with him when you gave him the number in the first place, if you were truly interested in someone, a one time mistake like that would not cause you to turn into an uber**** so quickly, unless that's your personality...
If it happens once that's one thing, if it's a multiple infraction where the other person seems to have a very thick skull that's another...
OP, move on... This chick obviously has issues... | |
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Posted: 12/7/2006 7:09:37 AM | | oh and why tell him your asleep, not that your just tired elling porkies is a great start to a relationship eh start as you mean to go on eh!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! mikey m | |
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Posted: 12/7/2006 7:16:16 AM | | Sounds like your beating your self up over a silly timming thing. When she just wasn't into you. Let it go. | |
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Posted: 12/7/2006 7:42:54 AM | i think u should do as your friend suggest and let her come to u IF SHE FEELS LIKE IT. Still u need to move on and stop makin her feel as if she all that. the only reason y she could get upset when u called her in the night late is if she with someone else and it gave her problems. Personally i think u crazy for giving u her digits to call her and her messenger id and when u show intrest she starts to kick up hell.
too much drama there. plenty of fish in the sea. | |
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Posted: 12/7/2006 7:50:34 AM | OMG It was a mistake - she just sounds like a jerk - once you appologized I would let you have a second chance. However this chick sounds like a game player!! ~JMHO~  | |
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AlexSB
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Joined: 6/29/2006
Msg: 15 | |
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Posted: 12/7/2006 8:48:15 AM | Instead of apologizing (accepting blame) you should have suggested you'd be over right away to join her. Haha??? 
Apologized and said have a night. Called a few days later.
Apologizing over and over is annoying...each time it becomes less genuine.
Dude you blew it ;) | |
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Posted: 12/8/2006 10:42:02 AM | wow ... immediate demands to change .... she sounds like a real winner . time to call out "NEXT!!!!" lol
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Posted: 12/8/2006 10:47:21 AM | Well, I guess it might depend on how you started the phone conversation. I mean, ya didn't ask her what she was wearing did ya? Or worse if she was horny? If you didn't say anything disgusting, she overreacted a little.
You did say you called her really late and that pisses me off too when someone wakes me up. I just make it a rule to never call anyone past 10:00 p.m. unless I'm lying in a ditch somewhere. | |
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Posted: 12/8/2006 10:49:56 AM | Dude, let it go. There's too many fish in the sea to put all your eggs in one basket. Better you found out now than get deeply involved and then it not work out.
You made an error in judgement. Learn from it and move on. | |
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Posted: 12/8/2006 10:51:59 AM | Ok... this is someone you have never met, just because a phone number is exchanged and IM's are written back and forth doesn't mean she will persue anything with you. She DID say she just wanted to be friends... and that doesn't mean that she has to be readily available whenever you want her to be (refer back to... this is someone you never met).
She was probably talking to more men then just you, and decided she'd rather spend her time talking and getting to know someone that doesn't call her late at night.
Chin up buttercup... lots of fishies out there  (there's one now)  go fish | |
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gail10
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Joined: 10/25/2006
Msg: 20 | |
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Posted: 12/8/2006 11:06:53 AM | Hi Mecheng001
What are you like! when you have a bad day we don't blame it on any time of the month, we don't all suffer from PMT and even if we did it can't be helped so why throw it up?
she's just rude and ovbiously not interested move on and forget it, think of it as her loss.
good luck
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