| What is a womans idea of a good man?
Posted: 12/7/2006 6:32:21 PM | Ok, lets hear it from the women. What is your idea of a good man? What makes him one you would want? How much do looks have to do with it? Be honest. How much does Financial security matter to you? I am not talking about golddiggers, but his ability to support himself in a comfortable manner? ANd what would you say is comfortable? Would he have to have at least a house, and not a trailor. IF he doesnt have what you expect him to have given his age, does it matter why?What kind of guy could impact you enough to change your minds about certain criteria? What do you consider the prioritys in the quality of man you woudl want? Just curious.  | |
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| What is a womans idea of a good man?
Posted: 12/7/2006 6:56:56 PM | Dang bigdaddy you're going deep aren't ya.....
[What is your idea of a good man?]
There really is no such thing as good or bad... There must be some attraction, but I really want to know what's in him... how he thinks and feels, likes & dislikes. Someone that can share my sense of humor (which is dish it out as well as take it) Someone who stands up for themselves, but is not over bearing. I am NOT a jealous person, and do not care for jealousy...he can't be an okay/yes dear man all the time either (pushover).
Must love kids, (prefer that he's been married or has kids- tends to have ((((most of the time))) more maturity and can understand the trials/rewards of a family.
[How much does Financial security matter to you? I am not talking about golddiggers, but his ability to support himself in a comfortable manner? ANd what would you say is comfortable? Would he have to have at least a house, and not a trailor. IF he doesnt have what you expect him to have given his age, does it matter why?]
He needs to be able to support himself... and stand on his own two feet, and have a good-steady job,
As far as a house v/s a trailer (as you call it) that is not of importance... material things can be gone in a minute and can be replaced so easy.....
I personally have a 4 bedroom doublewide 2000sq feet on 4.29 acres. There is nothing wrong with a mobile home, I love my HOME..... and if someone can't deal with it, maybe they need to get their facts in order and not be so freakin' judgemental... ((( houses in this area are like $150,000 for 1200 sq feet... and you don't have room to turn around in them...lmao ))) and from what I've seen built ( in my lines of work over the last 20 years, my house is better built than a good many stick built homes.... )
i.e. my case, 3 girls, I got more house for less money.... better than living on the street any day... and it is mine (and the banks) didn't need a man to do it for me....Sometimes we have to settle for what we can do, in this day an time so many people are living outside their means, and heaven forbid the credit card debts.....
[What do you consider the prioritys in the quality of man you woudl want? Just curious]
HONESTY, commitment to the relationship, trust, ability to communicate, common interests, at least 2 inches taller than me (lol), abilty to laugh at ones own self, and know mistakes are made, but lessons are learned, can be my best friend....
 
well alittle long winded but there are my initial thoughts, may have some more later ,,, but it is late... | |
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| What is a womans idea of a good man?
Posted: 12/7/2006 8:38:44 PM | I agree with the not breathing on this thing I just like the liitle icon things on here. They need to add more.
I like my man to let me be dominant. He has to give me his paycheck. Let me have mine, and rub my feet. 
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| What is a womans idea of a good man?
Posted: 12/7/2006 10:18:57 PM | OK BigDaddy I will answer ALL your questions, and there are a bunch 
How much do looks have to do with it?
Looks do not make a good man, so it has nothing to do with looks.
How much does Financial security matter to you?
Financial security means different things to different people. It wouldn't matter if he was in a home, trailer or apartment to me, as long as he was able to support himself, and not live beyond his means, and at least pay his own meal when we go out!
What kind of guy could impact you enough to change your minds about certain criteria? What do you consider the prioritys in the quality of man you woudl want? Just curious.
All of the questions above have to do with looks and financial security, and to me this has nothing to do with a good man.
A good man to me is one who is honest, is not afraid to show his feelings, is trustworthy, and one that loves people. A good man would stop to help someone change the tire in her car even if it meant he would be late for a date. Of course, he needs to call first. A good man, if he was driving and hit a pet, would stop and find the owner. In other words, he would have a heart of gold, and money has nothing to do with it.
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| What is a womans idea of a good man?
Posted: 12/8/2006 2:00:51 AM | | I agree in part with Aged Wonder. A good man, to me, has character. Good old boy scout stuff like honesty, loyalty, kindness, compassion. Those are basics. Then for what makes me personally smile a mile, add a sense of humor, willingness to talk. intelligence and curiosity, and a passion for living. Physical attributes dont count as much. Long hair, bald, etc. , as long as its clean, but a smile....thats mandatory. Tickly whiskers can be nice too. ;-) I also tend to like cuddly teddy bear types but thats more attitude than body size. I dont care how big or fancy their home is, as long as its a Home. Financial Security is almost an oxymoron. Money and Stuff ARE necessary, but not in huge quantities. Good communication habits and physical expressions of loving feelings are worth much more than diamonds, to me. | |
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| What is a womans idea of a wolfdaddy?
Posted: 12/8/2006 10:29:10 AM | I like citywomans answer,funny,funny,funny Woman r like men on this subject bigdaddy when it comes to looks.men dont care about how much woman make at all.but to get back on looks,a good looking woman is probably going to want a goodlooking guy.just like a goodlooking guy wants a goodlooking woman.bigdaddy i dont think me or you have a shot at anglino jolee.cant spell worth a damn.peace-out | |
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| What is a womans idea of a wolfdaddy?
Posted: 12/8/2006 1:06:16 PM | | That was before julia was famous,lyle helped her become an actress and once she was making more money then him.what she do????????bye bye baby.It was clearly a money thing.women care nothing about a mans looks only when he has lots of money.like anna nicole smith.and i do mean all women.peace-out | |
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| What is a womans idea of a good man?
Posted: 12/11/2006 6:22:55 PM | OK, for all it's worth, here's my $.02:
To me a good man is:
Someone that will listen to me when I have had a bad day knowing that I will do the same for him.
Someone who will wipe my tears wether they be of joy or sadness.
Someone who will put me before all others (except his children - they always come first)
Someone who can make me laugh but not make me cry tears of heartache.
Someone that thinks I'm beautiful (even though I know there are prettier women out there)
Someone that I can call friend.
Someone who may not be the hansomest man on the planet but is in my eyes.
Someone who will stick with me through the good times and the bad.
Someone who will honor me and not be unfaithful.
Those are my ideas of a good man.
And I know there are some out there, I just have to keep on
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| What is a womans idea of a good man?
Posted: 12/12/2006 4:01:34 PM | Good men to a woman is anyone who will lell her what she wants to hear, give her exactly what she wants, without having to tell the guy. A man who can read minds would be great for them. They wont ever admit that finances play a part, because that makes them APPEAR bad, and surely they love to appear perfect, even though they are just as messed up as us guys are. But hey, they hold all the keys and are in control of wheter anything happens, whether that be just sex, or some kind of relationship. They Chose US we dont chose them. ANd if you arent perfect, and are honest about not being perfect, you will be alone. They say they want honesty, but thats only if you havent made any mistakes in your life and have enough money. They dont care what kind of feelings a guy might have, if he doesnt have the looks, the finances and a perfect past, a guy is just SOL! A man either has to have a good past present and future, or be a good liar. I am niether.  | |
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| What is a womans idea of a good man?
Posted: 12/12/2006 4:07:28 PM | | Right you are bigdaddy,except for one thing.No woman controls me,and I do the chosing.Not them.Im king.Thats got a nice ring to it.King Wolf,or Wolf King.NOW KNELL BEFORE YOUR KING!!!Peace-Out | |
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| What is a womans idea of a good man?
Posted: 12/12/2006 4:19:29 PM | I guess that I ust be the "odd woman out". Cuz for some reason the men seem to do the choosing when it comes to me and it's usually just for sex. And when I say no, they are gone. Relationship? What is that?
wolfie: be careful what you ask for honey!
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| What is a womans idea of a good man?
Posted: 12/12/2006 4:35:21 PM | Hippy, sure you are still in control on wheter sex happens or not, when you do get the opportunities. IF you say NO, it isnt happening, unless he forces you. Women actually do run things, it is all for them, because of mans love for sex, and our contant preoccupation wiht it, we will do anything for it. We want alot of money, why? To please a woman. We want Power, why? To usurp it over a woman, to GET SOME! We make all these gadgets to do what> Make it easier on women so we have more time for SEX with them! Like Washing Machines, dryers, Cars whatever. Everything a man or men do is for WOMEN! Yet WOmen constantly complain about men! When in fact THEY run things! IT doesnt matter what a man wants, he gives it up if he can get some. Smile at us just the right way, we will KILL for ya! Most wars are over money, somehting MEN want to get with a woman! John The Baptist lost his head because Herod liked watching his step daughter belly dance! MM she musta been HOT! lol | |
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| What is a womans idea of a good man?
Posted: 12/12/2006 4:59:17 PM | | I have yet to meet the man I'd sleep w/for a washing machine. Now bring in someone to do the laundry...and I'll rock your world Buddy! and thanks so much guys, for inventing household appliances for us, no matter why you did it. | |
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| What is a womans idea of a good man?
Posted: 12/13/2006 3:36:50 AM | | It had to be a woman that invented the vibrator though, cant see why7 a man would invent something that takes him out of the equation! | |
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| What is a womans idea of a good man?
Posted: 12/13/2006 4:24:05 AM | True enough Big Daddy, but back to your original thread, a "good man" doesn't let a piece of plastic take him out of the equation!
Good Morning All! 
Hope everyone is ready for a great day! | |
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| What is a womans idea of a good man?
Posted: 12/13/2006 3:57:54 PM | | Thats funny bigdaddy,hell am iv got a nice one myself.But women love the plastis also its called forplay.And they would like it better if there man did it for them while they got you in there speaker.lol peace-0ut | |
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