| Do woman girls ever ask guys out?
Posted: 7/30/2004 9:51:48 PM | Hello everyone,
Just curious, I am a rather sucessful musican and after all the years in the industry I have never been approached or hit on or asked out. Is it the way I look or is it just girls don't find me attractive becasue we all know it would be nice to be asked.
Please tell me your thoughts! | |
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Zee
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Joined: 4/11/2004
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| Re: Do woman girls ever ask guys out?
Posted: 7/31/2004 6:00:57 AM | I get this overwehleming shyness when I meet someone that is what I think of as a BOOM of a guy, so I dont ask them out - I just wave to them lol sad but true....and an update on that guy I was waving too, for those who might remember when I first started here, I never asked him and now his office has been moved and I will not get that chance lol...
Emailing someone can be easy you are not face to face, but when I get to meet someone and all is going nice, I just kinda get quiet, and thats it, I have to be moved out of shyness, then WHAM look out lol.... | |
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Zee
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Joined: 4/11/2004
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| Re: Do woman girls ever ask guys out?
Posted: 7/31/2004 6:02:40 AM | | come to think of it....i've never asked a guy out, and im pretty old lol...in my teens they did the asking, and when my marriage was over, they did the asking, i guess i would have to look into that, make it a challege to myself lol, ask someone out hehehehe | |
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| Re: Do woman girls ever ask guys out?
Posted: 8/1/2004 12:39:45 PM | | I use to ask girls out alot, now I rarely do. If they want me they will ask me. I figure if they dont like me enough to talk to me, then why waste time and emotions. | |
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Ruby_
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Joined: 7/10/2004
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| Re: Do woman girls ever ask guys out?
Posted: 8/1/2004 1:52:31 PM | | I have never asked a man out. What I have done is let the man know I was interested so he would ask me out. Then he wouldn't be afraid of rejection. | |
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Ruby_
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Joined: 7/10/2004
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Zee
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Joined: 4/11/2004
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| Re: Do woman girls ever ask guys out?
Posted: 8/1/2004 2:30:29 PM | EX will you go out with me *cheesy grin* - looks over shoulder to make sure Excalibur's girlfriend isnt around lol
hehehehhe
I have thought about this but I havent asked anyone out before....BUT I can think of a few guys here at POF I would ask out woooooooooohooooooooooo *wink* LOL | |
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| Re: Do woman girls ever ask guys out?
Posted: 8/1/2004 2:46:44 PM | why is it that as soon as you're taken, you suddenly become more attractive to others and they all want you? lmao
(BTW zee, I know you were just kidding ;)
and if I wasn't taken..... | |
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Zee
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Joined: 4/11/2004
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| Re: Do woman girls ever ask guys out?
Posted: 8/1/2004 2:50:48 PM | | Ex are you kiddin I have always thought you attractive, but off limits, do not ask me why, but its what I always thought ... so there a true confession on the boards lol - probably because you are now taken LOL | |
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Zee
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Joined: 4/11/2004
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| Re: Do woman girls ever ask guys out?
Posted: 8/1/2004 3:13:41 PM | | i dont know if you ever read many of mypost - but i have this reaaaaaaal shyness about certain guys so you became one of them guys - so hence the word off limits | |
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| Re: Do woman girls ever ask guys out?
Posted: 8/1/2004 3:41:56 PM | I have been asked out by women before but it is a rarity. Besides, most of the ones who did ask me out I did not desire them. The best oppertunities which I found on asking out chicks or vis versa is when we were already talking to eachother after meeting through mutual friends.
I look at it like this. If I really find somebody I want to get to know on a more intimate level, I will more than likely be the one to approach. If I did this 100 times and was successful on 10 of them, then I am happy. If and when that I am approached, I count that as a bonus. :) | |
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| Re: Do woman girls ever ask guys out?
Posted: 8/1/2004 7:00:02 PM | | What the hell is a hint, I mean come on, is it that hard for a girl to ask a guy out, I have never been approached or asked out, man it's annoying? | |
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| Re: Do woman girls ever ask guys out?
Posted: 8/1/2004 9:39:15 PM | | I would'nt worry about whether Ladies ask you out or not. It's not any index of sorts anyways. What counts is what you want, and that you are willing to go after it. You should take the initiative to ask them out for dates. | |
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| Re: Do woman girls ever ask guys out?
Posted: 8/2/2004 8:32:30 AM | Shy as a leveret, swift as he,
Straight and slight as a young larch tree,
Sweet as the first wild violets, she,
To her wild self. But what to me? | |
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Ruby_
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Joined: 7/10/2004
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| Re: Do woman girls ever ask guys out?
Posted: 8/2/2004 10:11:09 AM | I was not only too shy, I didn't have the money to take a man out.
At the end of the night and I knew we made a connection on our first date, I would ask him to come to dinner at my house for the second date. What man doesn't like a home cooked meal especially if he lives on his own. | |
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douy
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Joined: 8/7/2004
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yna6
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Joined: 5/2/2004
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| Re: Do woman girls ever ask guys out?
Posted: 8/10/2004 8:46:30 AM | | So....when a woman washes her ceiling with a cloth and bucket of soapy water, and I do mine with a sponge on a stick (read mop!), how come I'm an idiot? Some women just don't appreciate a creative view towards housework! {grump!} | |
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| Re: Do woman girls ever ask guys out?
Posted: 8/10/2004 9:08:15 PM | | I would ask a guy out, although I think that everytime I've attempted I've been shot down :-( But with me, in order for me to ask someone out I'd have to know them a little bit before, so if you're asking about being approached in a club or something, then no, probably not. | |
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| Re: Do woman girls ever ask guys out?
Posted: 8/12/2004 8:06:38 AM | | I agree, I have been shot down alot, thats why I started this thread. I guess I feel if someone likes someone then they should just bite the bullet. | |
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