| Getting Answers to why the breakup
Posted: 12/11/2006 1:47:21 PM | | Am I weird or what. I need to know what caused a breakup. Was it something I said, did, didn't do, or what. I really find that most men seem to just make up excusses and don't really confront the issue head on. I'm a very analytical person and moving on is much easier when all the cards are laid out on the table. Why can't men understand that? | |
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| Getting Answers to why the breakup
Posted: 12/11/2006 2:48:17 PM | Men can't understand that because men are not women, and the longer you expect that men should think like women, the longer you will be disappointed. Half the time a man can't tell you what caused the breakup because he has no idea himself. Besides, even if he did know the "issue", why on earth would he want to confront it head on. The breakup has happend, so the issue is in the past. It has no bearing on the future, and if it has no bearing on the future, it is not worthy of consideration.
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| Getting Answers to why the breakup
Posted: 12/11/2006 3:01:25 PM | I went/going through the same thing, so it's not only one sided. Just want some closure, that's how I feel anyway and probably the same for you. Hey firmfire, I saw your profile and your pics, you take great care of yourself so please, it's definitely his loss. He was most likely insecure and intimidated by you just like 99.9% of so called "men" are afraid of 99.9% of women. Once again, please, go pick from the thousand that are lined out your door.  | |
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| Getting Answers to why the breakup
Posted: 12/11/2006 4:25:22 PM | I've no clue as to why some men can't understand why some women~~(myself included), need to know what caused a break up. For me~~it creates the closure I need to move on....Unless I was the one that had already moved on.....   | |
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| Getting Answers to why the breakup
Posted: 12/11/2006 5:25:53 PM | | Could be the same reason that I broke up. Was suppoesed to call her on the phone to arrange her comming over for the weekend, which we were doing quite regularly. At 1 am I got ahold of her. She says she was on another date. I know what we did when dating to 1AM. Shw says " I don't sleep around" 'Could have fooled me. Let me answer your question with this question: Why can't women express thir feelings and thoughts openly and honestly? | |
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| Getting Answers to why the breakup
Posted: 12/11/2006 6:02:45 PM | I think we are all in hot water because we have had the worst role models for dating. We watch to much tv and we are not properly socialised. Real life should not be like a soap opera. We all need to really talk to each other and stop the drama crap.
I am getting sick of it! Anyone else? If we said what was on our minds we would have more successful marriages and friendships and we wouldn't need sights like these. And by the way the largest population in North America are singles 50 plus, over 100 million strong. They are making a killing on us. Free enterprise and all that. food for thought.
No one is perfect so we need to talk things out and find a compromise. It works.
Stop the bus I want to get off.
I wish you the best! Blu.  | |
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| Getting Answers to why the breakup
Posted: 12/11/2006 7:56:52 PM | i know the feeling. I have always wanted to know why is it that when a guy ends it he cant give you a "real"reason. My last relationship ended on the note ...... " I just want to be single, I hadnt planned on dating anyone when we met"..... Ok than why did we spend a year together?????????????? I mean ok I will be fair , some girls I know are like that too. However that was just not a good enough reason for me. Anyways I said my piece.
Im out.. good luck all | |
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| Getting Answers to why the breakup
Posted: 12/12/2006 7:01:49 AM | Men....we will never understand those amazing creatures....AND......Women....well, they will never understand us either. Just gotta learn to accept things for the way they are & deal with it.  | |
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| Getting Answers to why the breakup
Posted: 12/12/2006 8:15:08 AM | | The breakup comes when one doesn't have a clue what they want in life and express they don't know or aren't sure. Once it comes down to not knowing what they want and are just simply "trying" things out. Watch Out! | |
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