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Posted: 12/20/2006 4:59:00 AM | It's like this, the HOT chics are the shallow ones that want the hot guys with the fancy cars, loads of cash, and HUGE bank account, top notch career and the big house or expensive apartment....they couldn't give a sh*t about what's in a guys heart.
Now, the less desirable women, the ones that men look pass, not too good looking etc etc.....those women are the women that care about what's in a guys heart and will be with and stand by them no matter what. | |
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| are there women out there that are TRULY DECENT?
Posted: 12/31/2006 7:07:41 PM | | It's terrible that you have experienced women who look at the pocketbook or what you can give them and not look into the person. It has not been a concern to me who pays or what they do for a living because really it's compatability and what the other person is willing to accept in that relationship | |
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| are there women out there that are TRULY DECENT?
Posted: 1/1/2007 1:13:45 AM | | a woman or man would be richer if they thought with their heart and not their greed because the hearts value is more than any material or money is worth. thats how my heart is. its full of gold just waiting to be shared with the right woman | |
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| are there women out there that are TRULY DECENT?
Posted: 1/27/2007 4:53:50 PM | | I would rather have a guy who is poor and showers me with love than a rich man who showers me with gifts because to get all the money to buy all that stuff, he would have to put in a lot of hours of work and that would quality time away from the relationship. | |
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| are there women out there that are TRULY DECENT?
Posted: 3/3/2007 6:06:14 PM | the only thing i look at when it comes to money is if the guy has a job... i dated a guy once that couldn't keep a job and i ended up taking care of him and i refuse to do that again... as long as a guy has a job and doesn't borrow money from me all the time i don't care if he makes an ass load of money or not... actually if all a guy wants to talk about is how much money he makes i get annoyed and will stop talking to him... money isn't an issue with me because i grew up poor and am not scared to say it... the girls that only care about money are just that little girls that haven't grown up all the way yet... if a girl only wants you for your money then she isn't worth your time of day... hope all goes well for you... take care everyone... rock on  | |
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| are there women out there that are TRULY DECENT?
Posted: 5/20/2007 3:27:56 PM | I would like to think that there are a lot of TRULY DECENT women....out there. Just like I want to hold on to the hope that there are a few TRULY DECENT GUYS out there. I seem to have met a few , that have given me cause to wonder WHERE all the decent guys are hiding.  | |
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| are there women out there that are TRULY DECENT?
Posted: 8/14/2007 7:54:28 PM | | I am one of those materialistic women, at least by certain standards. I won't date a man without a job, and without a running vehicle. Mind you that is my classification, it isn't that I won't date a man who doesn't drive a 2005 or newer Dodge Cummins Diesel pickup or any of that, he doesn't have to be the CEO of Bank of Utah, just a job that pays the bills, and a car that runs. So I am content with being called materialistic in that respect. In fact- PROUD to be called that, if it is for those reasons. I am old school and the man needs to work, and I will do the same to make it the relationship compatible. I expect nothing less than I can give. | |
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Posted: 1/9/2008 11:48:20 AM | Materialism is always one of the main things that make a relationship fail.
Women say that now...that they want a man with a running car, and a job, and then they want more afterwards. They might want a car to match the one that the people living next door have. Then they complain because his mediocre job isn't paying enough for their needs. And next up, he HAS to be the CEO of the Bank of Utah and then, it still won't be enough. It'll get worse and worse until the woman gets everything she expects, and the man gets financially ruined.
Materialism is NEVER the way to go in relationships. I know because I used to date a material . She'd expect me to pay THIS much on a date for her, but she'd have a screaming fit if I so much as asked for 5 bucks in gas money.
I want a woman who'll like me for ME. Not because of what car I drive, or the lack of salary in a job that he has. It'll never be enough for women with materialistic needs, and women like that are the most unattractive in a relationship. | |
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| are there women out there that are TRULY DECENT?
Posted: 6/18/2008 3:06:32 AM | | Quite frankly, love is not enough anymore. I think women look at what you have to see if you are responsible, have your act together, and to ensure we're not going to be playing mother. That's how it is for me anyway. If you can't pay your bills, and have a few necessary commodities,i.e.: car, nice home, and can take me out to a nice restaurant for dinner, it's simply not worth it. Not looking for a sugar daddy by any means, but don't want to be a sugar momma either. | |
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| are there women out there that are TRULY DECENT?
Posted: 6/20/2008 3:26:32 PM | | They are not hiding at all.. most woman that I date just want to have fun and date around and are not ready to settle down with anyone... power to you but there are some guys out here that would like a nice beautiful woman to themselves... the women know it and play us. | |
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Posted: 8/9/2008 9:37:13 PM | To Clesson:
There are decent girls out there, maybe your looking in the wrong direction. But your not alone, I find if your not a perfect looking female no one talkes to you. They look for the women that are skinny and materialistic. If you men lower your expectations you will find your pot of gold plus some. Woman that are beautiful expect more. The down to earth great gals are a little less perfect with good hearts. Besides I have'nt met a perfect man yet.
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| are there women out there that are TRULY DECENT?
Posted: 8/10/2008 10:22:33 PM | Decent women are everywhere. Sadly, they often get over looked because they aren't concerned with material things or aren't "perfect". Maybe you are looking in the wrong direction. Rather than heading for the hot blond with 10 guys around her, chat with the girl sitting alone and enjoying herself. Odds are, she is comfortable with herself and doesn't need the self gratification of having 10 guys around her. Keep looking, you will find her.  | |
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Posted: 8/24/2008 7:21:07 PM | It's about balance people!! I want a man who can provide for me, but doesnt have to, I want a man who could be on the front of a magazine be it Outdoors, Hunting & Fishing or G.Q. I want a man who is a true romantic but know's how to take things up a level. I want a man who can cook me dinner or can appreciate the one I just fixed for him. Who adores me at my best, but truely loves me at my worst. A man who is as comfortable in front of the BBQ as the board room.
At 34 I am some what established. I did the new start thing when I was 19, started with love and worked our way into a house and cars and establishing a life together. Whole lotta good that did for the both of us. If I can merge my life with someone who is on the same track I am what's wrong with that? What's wrong with wanting it all? Why is it you think that guys with money don't have good hearts? Don't they deserve the same chance as the romantic? The skinny girl vs the chubby girl? The homely girl vs the diva? Find someone with a balance in their life that is level with the balance in yours and that is where I believe you will find your match. Is it fair that you want the diva vs the homely girl? To you yes, to her no. Are you a muscle head who wants the beautiful bombshell? The millionaire who cheats on his high school sweetheart wife with a wanna be trophy wife? Are you the man with the good heart and farmers tan and lives paycheck to paycheck? If you feel this way you are probably stepping outside your dating league.... take a step back and look... I think you'll see what I mean.
Like it or not.... it happens. Deal with it or take yourself to the level you wish to date in.
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| are there women out there that are TRULY DECENT?
Posted: 11/4/2008 1:01:21 PM | Heck yeah, there's some of us left out there and I most deffinitely agree with the above person. We are out there being self reliant. You pretty much have got to stop us in our tracks and make us see you. If you don't then we'll keep on going. It's not an offensive type of thing, just a "gotta get the job done" thing. We don't exactly have time for much else.
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