| Kissing Explained!!! Posted: 12/20/2006 2:46:07 PM | I just found this on another site. Since kissing is one of my favorite things, I'd thought I'd share it!!
Kissing Explained
A first kiss should always be done while the two of you are alone. This will help to avoid any unnecessary nervousness and embarrassing situations. The best type of kiss is one that uses different variations... such as starting with a small kiss, working into a French Kiss, maybe sucking on your partner's upper or lower lip...And don't just leave kisses to the lips. Kiss their cheeks, their chin or their eyelids. This can be very seductive and romantic
Basic Kissing Tips
Great Breath - This is very important. Make sure you brush your teeth before going out on your date. There is nothing worse than kissing someone with bad breath. If your date consists of having something to eat before the actual kiss, make sure you have a mint on hand to take right after you finish eating. Don't take the mint just before the kiss or chew on gum. You don't want to have something in your mouth when you kiss.
Moist Lips - You want your lips to be slightly moist when you kiss. Run your tongue over your lips once before you kiss. Don't wear lip gloss because that tends to make the kiss too gooey. And don't wear a lot of lipstick unless you want your partner to wear it too after the kiss. Slightly moist lips makes it easier to move your lips over your partner's and gives both you and your partner a more pleasant experience.
Positioning - Stand close to your partner. As the two of you move closer together tilt your head slightly. If you can see which way your partner's head is tilting, tilt your head slightly in the opposite direction.
Close Eyes - Just before your lips meet, close your eyes. Some people prefer to leave their eyes open during the kiss. But until you know what your partner prefers, it is best to close your eyes.
Open Lips - Open your mouth slightly and place your lips over your partner's lips. Do not hold your breath! Breath through your nose. As your lips meet, press them gently over your partner's. You may wish to move your lips in a slow, circular motion or just leave them still over your partners.
Closed Lips - This is like the type of kiss you'd give your grandma or aunt. Instead of opening your mouth when your lips meet, keep them closed. This is also a good way of letting your partner know this is as far as it goes. It also makes a great hello/good-bye kiss or a great first time kiss if you're nervous.
French Kissing
This is the most popular type of kiss. This involves touching your tongue with your partner's and it can be quite a pleasant experience. There are a few tips to create a great french kiss.
Open Lips - Open your lips over your partner's slightly more than you would during a regular kiss. This makes it easier to place your tongue in your partner's mouth.
Tongue - Place the tip of your tongue on the tip of your partner's tongue. Do not force your tongue too far into their mouth. If you wish, you can play with their tongue by circling theirs with your own. Have fun with it. Explore.
Lips - You may explore different ways of using your tongue. Try running the tip of your tongue over your partner's lips. Do this slowly and gently, just using the tip of your tongue.
Suck Kissing
This can be a very seductive type of kiss. Instead of French Kissing with your mouth open, while your partner's lips are parted suck on their top our bottom lip with your own, just for a second or two. Then go back to another type of kiss or try the other lip.
Nip Kissing
This type of kiss has to be done carefully, but when done correctly can create a wonderful effect on your date. While suck kissing, gently bite their lip, but be VERY gentle so as not to hurt your date / partner. This kiss should only be done with someone that you've kissed a few times before, otherwise you may shock your partner.
Surprise Kissing
This type of kiss is done when your partner is lying down on a sofa or the ground, either asleep or just lying with their eyes closed. Quietly approach your partner and place a small, very gentle kiss on their lips. Intensify the kiss until your partner opens their eyes or awakens.
Anyone have a favorite??
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| Kissing Explained!!! Posted: 12/20/2006 3:04:49 PM | Bwah...you just HAD to post this...didn't you? *smirk*
Favorite type of kissing - the "push him down on the bed and watch him struggle mack attack".
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| Kissing Explained!!! Posted: 12/20/2006 3:12:40 PM | ^^^^^^^^^^That is my post!!!^^^^^^^^^
I wondered why he was the last poster when he isn't even on the computer hahahaha!! OOPSY!! | |
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| Kissing Explained!!! Posted: 12/20/2006 3:24:45 PM | Body kissing: Slow wet kisses lightly caressing the skin while slightly touching with wet tongue. Embodied with soft sucking in erogenous zones.
There's more, but I'm alone...gotta stop..... | |
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| Kissing Explained!!! Posted: 12/20/2006 3:27:49 PM | hmmm.. je suis francais, alors.. French kissin is ONE of my favs. I have to say all of them, though. I looooooove kissing.. I like the 'hover kiss' too, where you BARELY touch your partner's lips.. LIGHTLY brush them with yours, so it resembles a soft breath (breath, guys, NOT breast!) lmao.. Very romantic kiss, that inevitably leads to a more passionate exchange hmmm.. or the 'wine transfer'.. red wine works best, since it's supposed to be warm.. ;) | |
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| Kissing Explained!!! Posted: 12/20/2006 5:20:55 PM | | Haven't done enough to become professional at it. There's only so often you can kiss yourself in the mirror and not feel like a total loser. "Hey hey! I said no tongue!!" "sorry me." | |
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| Kissing Explained!!! Posted: 12/20/2006 5:23:49 PM | Umm...Just wondering how this is a pity/attention seeking thread???
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| Kissing Explained!!! Posted: 12/20/2006 5:25:20 PM | | Sounds like some have "Kissing envy"....or much like the magicains...don't like it when someone reveals all the secrets to their style. Heh! | |
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| Kissing Explained!!! Posted: 12/20/2006 5:25:55 PM | Mmmmm I love kisses I think normally if there is the chemistry between two people the kiss can almost always be good. YES there are the times when you are so into someone and well... the kissing part is a little off but if you kiss someone enough... you eventually learn from each other. | |
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| Kissing Explained!!! Posted: 12/20/2006 5:41:28 PM | Blue Eyes25 you say that the first kiss should be done when the two of you are alone. This will help any unnnecessary nervousness or embarrassing situations. I totally agree, as for my fishy and I ,it was on the dance floor of my first Raxx party, but when I did kiss her it was like time stood still and silent, and it felt like we were the only two in the whole place enjoying the moment and each others company. I don't think I've ever told her but I guess she'll know if she see's this forum.
P.S. You left out a very important kiss .....called fish nibbles.......they'll drive any fishy crazy if done in the heat of the moment.  | |
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| Kissing Explained!!! Posted: 12/20/2006 5:54:43 PM | | oh boy,blue eyes you have me all hot and bothered .french is my best!now i need a cold shower! | |
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| Kissing Explained!!! Posted: 12/20/2006 7:42:35 PM | **Sigh**
First I see Blue Eyes posting this. Then I read it and realize, ohhhh how much I wish I could experiment with all these kinds of kisses with her ... Then I realize ...
Man, I miss kissing like that. | |
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| Kissing Explained!!! Posted: 12/20/2006 7:43:54 PM | I need help picking out new yummie lip gloss........than I need a kissing partner to practice with to get it just right..........Ahhhhhhhhhh I'm so happy Santa will be here soon, maybe he will bring me a yummie fruity lip gloss and the secrets of how to get a man.......
VVV Ditto chica!! Ohhhhhhh maybe we could have a Lip gloss kissing party? | |
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| Kissing Explained!!! Posted: 12/20/2006 7:48:23 PM | | @HK- lol I LOVE YOU CHICKIE!!! lol I wanna test out some new lip glosses also!!! Just need the volunteers eh? | |
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| Kissing Explained!!! Posted: 12/20/2006 7:48:43 PM | I gotta admit Im a kiss-a-holic... lol
and Im a nipper... lol.... but it is true you have to watch when and who you use it with or guys tend to be frighten of whatelse you might nip  | |
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| Kissing Explained!!! Posted: 12/20/2006 7:53:02 PM | I love all those kissing techniques......Kissing is an art. Not everyone knows how to do it. I think it should be a subject taught in High School........LOL......
the best kiss regardless of technique is the kiss you get lost in...........
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| Kissing Explained!!! Posted: 12/20/2006 8:06:41 PM | | Yea yea yea I love all those kissing techniques too and the knee buckling kiss with someone special. I'm officially depressed now. | |
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| Kissing Explained!!! Posted: 12/20/2006 8:09:35 PM | I love kisses too and this is really good advice and so true!
Have had a lot of closed mouth kisses lately but the open mouth ones i havent had in a while and i miss that!
Ive been told Im a wet kisser
to all the ladies that love them here ;)  | |
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| Kissing Explained!!! Posted: 12/20/2006 8:24:00 PM | Knee buckling kisses...oh Dante you HAD to say, that didnt you? (quiver,quiver)
I love the kisses that when you finally back away and slowly open your eyes, you realize you havent taken a breath in ....hmm...how long? You're left completely speechless.....  | |
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| Kissing Explained!!! Posted: 12/20/2006 8:46:55 PM | and time just drifts away.....and you loose yourself in it
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| Kissing Explained!!! Posted: 12/20/2006 9:06:32 PM | Kissing is like sports... I'd rather participate than sit around talking about it. | |
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