| Cashiers being hit on Posted: 12/20/2006 5:56:41 PM | | I just wanted to ask any guys out there if they always flirt with cashiers at grocery stores? I used to be a cashier and I was only fifteen at the time and I had thirty to fifty year old guys trying to flirt with me. It was sometimes weird but to be totally honest some guys were cute..lol..like the thirty year old ones. | |
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| Cashiers being hit on Posted: 12/20/2006 6:12:35 PM | I've never really flirted... I have wanted to try and give them my number or something. But, I have never really worked myself up to that, as of yet. I mean they're working and it just seems awkward.. and yet how else would you start something up with such people? It's kind of hard to meet people when even if you go out to places you don't really have a concept of how to meet people... you know?
I mean I go to bars from time-to-time with friends, but I'm probably not going to try and get to know someone there... because of the venue.
I actually wonder sometimes at the age of checkout girls... it can be hard to tell at times.
So asking or whatever might turn out to be even weirder if they were underage.
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| Cashiers being hit on Posted: 12/20/2006 7:27:52 PM | it's not just at grocery stores, but cashiers everywhere!
I never know what to do. I mean I'm at work... I have to be nice to the customers... | |
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| Cashiers being hit on Posted: 12/20/2006 7:41:51 PM | | Dammit I've worked in a grocery store for almost 18 years and I'm sure no one has hit on me! Then again according to an ex gf I'm a little dim when it comes to knowing if I'm being flirted with. Crap does this grocery worker flirting happen often? What have I been missing out on???!?!? Please tell me its not like it is in porn videos! All those women over the years who asked about cucumbers.... | |
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| Cashiers being hit on Posted: 12/20/2006 8:14:57 PM | ^^^some can ... and some can try Flirting is harmless unless they pass into hitting on you which is different. Flirting is actually is good for people, i find older women are very skilled at it were as younger generations have lost its subtletys of flirting. Mixes the day up and can be fun with the right people. | |
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| Cashiers being hit on Posted: 12/20/2006 8:18:30 PM | | Lol, try being a bartender at a night club, sober or drunk it doesn't matter and when a group of ladies get together thay can be and are usually worse then men. If you were fifteen then that's a problem with 50 year old men, but if your were old enough, flirting is flirting all around the world. | |
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| Cashiers being hit on Posted: 12/20/2006 8:51:04 PM | When I was about 23...I use to work in a grocery store, and when things were really busy, I would be summonded from the dairy and have to do cash. Oh how I hated it. Anyways...I use to get hit on by 15 year old girls. I remember one girl asked me "what time I was finishing" ..."do you have a girlfriend", etc etc. It was like being chained to one spot, I couldn't escape lol.
But to answer your question.....damn right I flirt with cashiers! If I had to go through it, so do they. | |
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| Cashiers being hit on Posted: 12/20/2006 8:51:21 PM | Male perspective: A captive woman is a perfect target for all kinds of flirting. Yeehaaawww!, it's open season...
Female perspective (for males >17?): Why flirt with a guy with such a menial job? What's with him? Has he no ambition?
So what about when the tables are turned? Sometimes I'd rather not talk about how tasty that item is or if the sale is remarkable or much less if it's hot/cold/wet outside. I don't know; friendly is fine, just don't push it... :) | |
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| Cashiers being hit on Posted: 12/20/2006 8:53:28 PM | | i use to b a cashier when i was 16...i use to get hit on all the time to0...lol but it made the time pass faster lol | |
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| Cashiers being hit on Posted: 12/20/2006 8:59:53 PM | | no wonder you were hit on OP, you are a smokin hot babe. It must have been gross when the 50 year olds hit on you though, It would be sick if a 50 year old woman hit on me, sick lol. | |
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| Cashiers being hit on Posted: 12/20/2006 11:35:44 PM |
I don't know; friendly is fine, just don't push it... :)
I honestly think that some men don't make a distinction between friendly and flirting. I used to have a boyfriend that would flirt with cashiers, waitresses, saleswomen; anything that could wear pantyhose, he flirted with it. He truly didn't see it as flirting, merely being friendly, and didn't understand why it offended me when he did it in my presence.
Men and women rarely see things from the same perspective, and some men that seem to be flirting with much younger women may not see it that way. | |
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| Cashiers being hit on Posted: 12/20/2006 11:55:50 PM | | You are very good looking and have a wonderful smile. I would flirt with you if I went through your line. I always try to engage the cashiers who ring me up in some way. I've been a cashier before and it can be pretty boring and monotonous. So if I can find a way to bring some entertainment to the transaction I like to. | |
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| Cashiers being hit on Posted: 12/21/2006 12:45:39 AM | lodge24, what you are describing iz a very disturbing " dee-zeeze " in some disturbed men. What seemz 2 get theze menz " rocks " off iz actually not the pretty gurl , it's the way she handlez hiz groceriez , the way she ever so softly punchez the keyz on the register, and most importantly ..... how she placez your itemz in your bag. This ( az a general rule ) , beginz at the age ov 30 and continuez until the use ov adult diaperz are a need ( stops becawz of embarasement ). 2 date , there iz no known cure , not even support groups. Az far az asking if this iz " weird " 4 you 2 want theze men that are twice your age ? , no , i beleeve that you ( in your heart } dee - zire the much older and wizer men . And I wood be willing 2 bet my bread , eggz , and butter on the fact that you still dream at nite ov thoze sentual timez ........ being a " cashier ".  | |
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| Cashiers being hit on Posted: 12/21/2006 12:55:29 AM | When I was younger I had guys coming on to me at work - this one guy was checking out my bum and went over the counter, lol
He was just a bit pissed  | |
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| Cashiers being hit on Posted: 12/21/2006 8:12:55 AM | | Guys flirt with cashiers because it's safe. Sometimes the opportunity for a quick exit makes us a bit more confident than usual. Be flattered. | |
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| Cashiers being hit on Posted: 12/21/2006 8:14:21 AM | wat about nurses men always hit on them 2 bareing in mind i was one hehe They say its the uniform but personly i cant see it lol x | |
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| Cashiers being hit on Posted: 12/21/2006 10:13:18 AM | I do not flirt with cashiers (not to my knowledge anyways) but I do try to be upbeat and playful... I do ask, especially if I am a regular customer, so lots of people hitting on you today? sometimes I will say, "Hey did you get your hair done looks great!" but again that is when I am a regular and it is one of those things that I do, I notice hair cuts." | |
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| Cashiers being hit on Posted: 12/21/2006 11:40:57 AM | 69_dude has the right attitude... plus, he must like 69.... a lot.
So, in conclusion I say... 69.... dude...
the giggleparts - Blahahahahahahaha foolish! I shall cover this world in my taint! | |
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| Cashiers being hit on Posted: 12/21/2006 5:13:47 PM | | It's so rare that somebody goes out of their way to do something nice for me that I have to stop and think about whether she's doing it as a part of her job or whether it's some other reason. Usually it's the job. But there's a moment there when I think that maybe she's giving me that beautiful smile because she likes me. I'm always appreciative, but never flirty. | |
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| Cashiers being hit on Posted: 12/21/2006 8:11:18 PM | | I have fun flurting with the cashiers at the local grocery store. I don't actually expect anything to come from it, I just concider it good oppertunity to practice. This one time I had a pack of condoms in with my grocery order. The cashier only about 19. It was funny, she realized what she was scaning, never said anything or looked up but her face went beet red. I just smiled and said "oh I have a coupon for those!" | |
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| Cashiers being hit on Posted: 12/21/2006 8:55:45 PM | Its a convenience thing.
We figure, what the heck, while we are here, lets see if we can pick up little psusy!
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