| When do us good guys get the woman?
Posted: 12/23/2006 9:04:09 AM | does it ever happen......... no i'm a good guy and its hard to find an atractive woman well god dang it i think i found mrs right lol i hope well i meet a good woman we just chat but i relly like her and i think were slowing maken a conection. so guys this sight really does work just give it some time
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| When do us good guys get the woman?
Posted: 12/23/2006 1:11:56 PM | | I agree with JustMe_J, Most women go after the one's who they should have in order to have fun and excitement in their lives (or so they believe). So, when they finally get tired of being dumped on, they are ready to settle down. While I may get kicked and axed for this statement, it tends to be the harsh reality of this world. | |
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| When do us good guys get the woman?
Posted: 12/23/2006 3:47:50 PM | | I don't think you said anything unreasonable, however I wouldn't conclude that all women want the good guy after getting dumped on as you put it. I am sure there are some lucky girls out there that have never been dumped on and are in relationships where reciprocity is formost. Also, I've found the more dumped on a woman is the harder it will be for any prospective nice guy to make in roads with her. | |
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| When do us good guys get the woman?
Posted: 12/23/2006 7:12:13 PM | | You make a great point but what i think the problem is -is that there are so many guys that are players out there and they make women bitter to men.So when a nice guy does come around they are sceptical---therefore it ruins it for us. | |
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| When do us good guys get the woman?
Posted: 12/24/2006 6:08:54 AM | | Well Sir....maybe its because..all the "fine" men are in the city ! lol.and BTW..you drive a hard bargain dontchathink? I have kids and I smoke so...I cant respond to yer profile. Too bad for me I guess.....just wanted to say tho........I might not be the gal for you but all the same............I know a fine lookin man when I see one with an excellent head on his shoulders. Have a Merry Christmas ! | |
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| When do us good guys get the woman?
Posted: 12/24/2006 7:02:01 AM | Why are we attracted to bad guy’s?
Well let me explain it to you. Women and Men a like at some point of are life are attracted to the good bad and the ugly. Simply put when were surprised by some thing that is not what were expecting it triggers a chemical in are brain {endorphins} which causes the attraction factor. Gamblers have the same experience when they are winning. So when a pretty girl is approached by a nice man and he takes her out to dinner and brings flowers. That’s just what she expected. If he teases and plays no flowers and no dinner. She will be attracted to this because it’s pushing a unexpected action. She’ll think wow who do you think you are to treat me like that. When the {endorphins} are triggered the attraction factor is extreme. How sad but true.
Merry Christmas all
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| When do us good guys get the woman?
Posted: 12/24/2006 8:08:26 AM | I’m not at all saying become that guy. I’m simply tiring to explain what is going on in a very simplistic way. There are a lot of factors I didn’t go into as well. Ladies help me out here!
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| When do us good guys get the woman?
Posted: 12/24/2006 9:14:22 AM | | That is true Most of the girls I know like "Bad Boys" then after giving them the best part of our lives we decide that they are losers but we often lose out by not giving yhe nice ones a try. | |
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| When do us good guys get the woman?
Posted: 12/24/2006 1:13:10 PM | I think a lot of you women are unrealistic and set your standards too high. I looked at your profile, Calendar, and you have a lot of blocks against guys contacting you. A lot of you girls do.
My favorite is "Must not have messaged users looking for Intimate Encounters." Or whatever it actually says.
I did that when I first got on PoF. Nothing came of it. Now I can't message half the women on the site because I did.
Just because I contacted one person who was looking for that, it doesnt mean that is all I am looking for. Or even that I was looking for a booty call with that one girl...
And just because a guy's profile says he is looking for, oh, say, "Hang Out," it doesn't mean he isn't open for more.
As for me, I gave up on contacting women who are looking for "Long Term," because that first date invariably ends up being a job interview, lol... | |
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| When do us good guys get the woman?
Posted: 12/24/2006 1:19:58 PM | AMEN...I'm a single dad. Have been for 18 months now and have NEVER been approached and asked out so much before women see me w/y little ones. So good guy,,,,,Have a kid or 2 and go to the park.
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| When do us good guys get the woman?
Posted: 12/24/2006 2:40:07 PM | I would like to say I am a good woman, but the bad guys who get us or had us lie and paint a picture for us a good guy. Unfortunately at times it takes some invested time before we realize that once thought good guy is a bad guy. Basically guys those bad guys started out a good guy and that is how they got us.
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| When do us good guys get the woman?
Posted: 12/24/2006 3:24:25 PM | | is far all i have found is a bunch on horny guys wanting to get laid. if there is a good guy out there, by all means send me a message. i am a normal girl. there has got to be one normal guy on the planet that is attracted to me. | |
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| When do us good guys get the woman?
Posted: 12/24/2006 3:27:56 PM | | so far all i have found is a bunch on horny guys wanting to get laid. if there is a good guy out there, by all means send me a message. i am a normal girl. there has got to be one normal guy on the planet that is attracted to me. | |
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| When do us good guys get the woman?
Posted: 12/24/2006 5:46:12 PM | Good Guys Never get the women.. Confident guys get the women.. Confedence in pulling off anything just because you can is what keeps a relationship young & for some reason women are blessed with a 8th sense to detect this confidence in a mans actions & the way he carries himself, the things he says & how he says them.
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| When do us good guys get the woman?
Posted: 12/24/2006 8:30:54 PM | this is to the one that said this site works bs none of these site work i have been in here for over 1 year and not a thing and the good guy never gets what he wants i should know im a good guy and have been told no so many times its not funny i been told im to old for someone that is 20 and i been told i dont make the right amount of money and im not a black guy so its not that i have not tryed to find someone thay just dont want me i have emailed maybe 50 or 60 ppl and not one email back so it tells me that the site dont work
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| When do us good guys get the woman?
Posted: 12/25/2006 12:37:18 AM | | i was one of those bad guys in my 20s and early 30s-------i cut hair 4 a livin...and hearing from women in my chair how some guys can be it made me realize somthing----its all about maturity...im proud 2 say id rather be a "good guy" | |
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| When do us good guys get the woman?
Posted: 12/25/2006 9:10:48 AM | Well said Pasqualeee! I was one of the bad boys too. The five f's if you will! Then it came time to settle down and I ended up with it right back in my face. You reap what you sow gang. I'll take the good guy approach as well!
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| When do us good guys get the woman?
Posted: 12/25/2006 9:14:57 AM | | Women say they want one thing then they go for another. It is tiresome to even think that they ask for a good guy and then go for the bad guy or even worse the a$$ hole, treat me like crap guy. | |
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| When do us good guys get the woman?
Posted: 12/25/2006 11:41:33 AM | Bingo. In addition after things end with the treat me like crap guy, they'll date a nice guy.... until they get their self esteem back, then he's history and it's back to another ***hole. Fortunately all women aren't that way, just like all guys aren't ***holes.
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| When do us good guys get the woman?
Posted: 12/25/2006 12:49:00 PM | | you are right there is way to much trauma drama... when women get abused by men in past relationships.... Then its like we have to jump through all the hoops which gets real old... you have to ask yourself what does the female bring to the table... I am not a needy male that needs to have a women do everything for me... And I have a great job so I guess I can be picky.... But you know maybe a nice date would be a good thing how do you feel about that.... | |
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| When do us good guys get the woman?
Posted: 12/25/2006 2:36:29 PM | there is no doubt a lot of wisdom and logic here, but I think also what people need to be aware of is that if a woman doesn't see the value in you its probably because she wouldn't see the value in a gold bar if it hit her in the ass.
Most common with those first half of our lives we really don't even know who we are or what we want, and just when we think we do or we gain some certainty the world changes and we are forced to adapted.
So don't get bogged down because women are not jumping all over you, true good guys are hard as hell to come by and truly good women are the same, so just keep up the good fight and hold your heart for someone who will value, and cherish you for all you are, rather than chase those who are not even prepared to have that kind of relationship.
Most importantly only fools rush in, loneliness sucks but don't just go chasing after anything that even smiles at you, get comfortable with yourself, and like the others said with that knowledge of yourself you will gain a confidence and zest for life that may be far more attractive than contacting 600 woman in your area and telling them your life story
Just my useless 2 pennies
David
P.S. Ms Berry Picker- you say you are having a high number of horned up sex hounds on your shiat, being that you placed intimate encounter on your prof its not that shocking. But hey no one can fault you for being honest about who you are, what you want, and where you are in life, those are all great qualities... just don't quit being honest over responses that you receive, we all know life is full of tools
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| When do us good guys get the woman?
Posted: 12/25/2006 2:49:36 PM | | hey dave i love the way you worded that-----you sound like a therapist..lol-----i think this topic should only continue w/ a gals point of view-------cuz i think we re talkn in circles | |
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