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| alone again on another christmas. Posted: 12/25/2006 2:52:18 PM | | count ur blessings gurl, not only do i not have someone special, but i don't even have family to spend the holidays with..my mom died in may and i think you should just appreciate what you DO have...Merry Christmas | |
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| alone again on another christmas. Posted: 12/25/2006 2:53:08 PM | dallas - you're lucky you have your family..........i have no one here but my dog and she's a pita pittbull. my parents didn't wanna come here with my son because my ex husband was going to their house. all i got from my parents and my son all day today on line and on the phone was heartache.
i've been crying all day, ready to go back to bed. i've never been this alone on any given holiday, i used to atleast get phone calls from my friends. if it wasn't for my family here at pof i thing i would be drunk and passed out on the floor or dead | |
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| alone again on another christmas. Posted: 12/25/2006 2:53:38 PM | | like the rest of said be grateful u got family :P i have no one to hang with period except me myself and i this xmas so id say your one up on me :P | |
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| alone again on another christmas. Posted: 12/25/2006 2:59:35 PM | | ebony: I usually spend the holidays back with family and friends. Spent it pretty much with just my animals this year. The day was dreary here in Tenn. but they made up for it. Your sentiments touched me as sometimes families don't really know each others private dreams and wishes. Not like someone you can open yourself up to and get the same in return. The best to you this next year. I hope you find that someone special. harry | |
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| alone again on another christmas. Posted: 12/25/2006 3:09:39 PM | personally,i can't wait for the madness to be over,lol.just put a pork roast in the oven for me,myself and i.now,i'll go back to watchin the biker build-off and american chopper.if it was a lil warmer and not raining out,i'd go fishing.alone?-yes.lonely?,no.i'm not into the bull#$%^ and phonyness that goes with the x-mas crap. | |
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| alone again on another christmas. Posted: 12/25/2006 3:10:52 PM | awwwwww so sorry everyone (((((((((forum hug))))))))))) Today really sux for many of us. I am sure that next year will be better for us all. I really hope so anyways...these last 3 Christmas's have been HORRIBLE! I know things could be worse.......but, its hard to get your head around that when you are sad and lonely. Good luck to everyone, I hope we all find a special someone in 2007 so we can put an end to the sadness at this time of year. I imagine I will stay home alone for New Years too. Yeah me!! | |
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| alone again on another christmas. Posted: 12/25/2006 3:40:43 PM | | well actually for new years altough it would be nice to hand with my friends ...ill end up going to a church... and my last 3 christmas's have been sucky because... i cant buy those personal gifts for someone who could be special to me | |
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| alone again on another christmas. Posted: 12/25/2006 3:41:15 PM | | well actually for new years although it would be nice to hand with my friends ...ill end up going to a church... and my last 3 christmas's have been sucky because... i cant buy those personal gifts for someone who could be special to me | |
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| alone again on another christmas. Posted: 12/25/2006 3:44:32 PM | | by the way merry christmas... everyone and i know...somethings just dont happen when u want them to... | |
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| alone again on another christmas. Posted: 12/25/2006 3:48:07 PM | Sending a big ((((((((((((((((((((((HUG)))))))))))))))))))))) to all those feeling lonely. You may not have the physical presence of people around you but from what I have seen of people in general in cyberspace, most would extend you the same. I know I do. All things good to all of you, WD | |
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| alone again on another christmas. Posted: 12/25/2006 4:05:37 PM | i know what you mean...people with the same last name but you dont really know them or see them in between holidays. its weird. | |
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| alone again on another christmas. Posted: 12/25/2006 5:20:08 PM | I did not hardly sleep at all last night, and then slept in late into the morning, Me and a lady I had been seeing, well this past week, she got really weird on me, and refuses to answer my attempts to contact her. I really miss her.
My son has not spoken to me in almost a year, I called him and left a message, wishing him a Merry Christmas, and told him I miss him.
My daughter came home after visiting her mother, and was really down in the dumps, as she felt like an outcast with her mothers, in laws. Her mom pretty much ingored her the entire time. I had to hug her, and we talked for a while, and she cheered up! I am sad about the loss of my family sturcture, (divorce 10 years ago) but I have no regrets about the divorce. But for me, not having that someone special in my life these past years has had an impact upon my emotional self. I have always had a very hard time with the holidays, because I come from a large family, I have 4 brothers and a sister, but we are all fractured by our parents divorce, and their deaths years ago.
Family is so very important, but as you age, you wonder off into your own world, and forget about others, then the day comes when you are alone, and you are feeling guilty about having ingored the more important things in life. Family! Friends! and Sharing!
I can promise everyone here, that I have learned a painful lesson, and I will never forget my family and friends, and to share and be together whenever possible. Forget about chasing money, and having material stuff, its people that help bring happiness to my life.
So to my extended family of POF, I offer my warmest and most sincere HUG! I thank you for letting me know that even if I am alone in the physical sense, I know that you are all out there sharing with me in that big HUG!
Merry Christmas, hang in there and the holidays will be over with soon, if you are lonely, seek out others who are in the same position, and share your presence and love with those other people, and feel the warmth of there presence. | |
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| alone again on another christmas. Posted: 12/25/2006 5:32:56 PM | YES THE PAIN BEING ALONE ON CHRISTMAS DUE TO A **** USING DRUGS HAS ROBBED ME BLIND AND LEFT ME FOR A QUARTER OF COCAINE IS THE WORST THOUGH I KNOW I HAVE ALOT TO BE THANKFUL FOR BUT I THINK PEOPLE LIKE THIS **** SHOULD BE SHOT OR SENT TO HELL THANK YOU | |
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