| Who got caught cheatting?
Posted: 12/30/2006 2:38:43 PM | | As we all know alot of relationships end, as a result of someone being unfaithfull. was it him or her? I wonder sometimes when browssing these datting sites, as some of the women say that faithfullness is top on thier list, and I wonder if some of them were the ones that were unfaithfull, I would still write to a lady that said she had made a mistake, was sorry for it. and said she learned from it. how many of you women would write to a man, that addmitted he was the one who screwd out on his wife, and caused the seperation? How many of you male or female will admit to fault | |
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| Who got caught cheatting?
Posted: 12/30/2006 3:28:15 PM | A cheater isn't on my list of things to do.
And admit fault? Sure I'll admit fault for all sorts of things. But anyone who thinks that the spouse of the cheater is somehow at fault for the cheating itself, is just trying to justify their own poor choices. I mean, how pitiful is it to hear "My hubby just sat on the couch and watched TV so I banged the UPS guy." lol It's no different than "If that b*tch had learned how to cook a decent meal, I wouldn't have had to hit her." | |
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| Who got caught cheatting?
Posted: 5/2/2007 6:58:51 PM | I've been on both sides of that equation, I cheated once, been cheated on twice.
When I did it I was a kid, first girlfriend. The ones who cheated on me were damaged goods. People want to see the best in others. Sometimes they blind themselves.
It always caused more pain than it's worth. | |
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| Who got caught cheatting?
Posted: 5/6/2007 8:21:00 AM | | My ex cheated on me not once but three times. I have had exboyfriends cheat on me as well. If a relationship is not working out I will end it before I start dating another guy. | |
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| Who got caught cheatting?
Posted: 8/3/2007 4:24:46 PM | Cheating sucks.
I've been cheated on and have cheated, and either way, it's just a sad existance. I hate lying. I hate being lied to. You really dilute the quality of your life when life is nothing but a lie.
All I can say is that I learned from past mistakes. Would I hold it against someone who cheated on his spouse in the past? Well, I think it depends on how much insight the person had into why he did what he did.
If he placed all the blame on the spouse, my gut instinct would be to say, "Move on. He takes no responsibility for his actions and will do the same to you"
If, however, he can demonstrate remorse, understanding and empathy towards the former spouse, I might assume he's mature enough to have a 'real' relationship in the future.
Everyone is different. Some people are capable of changing and others prefer to run from the truth and just blame others for all their woes. | |
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| Who got caught cheatting?
Posted: 8/6/2007 7:03:32 PM | hmm i put it like this to cheat it takes two people and people cheat for one reason because they missing something in their relationship wiether its money a woman look betta  | |
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