| Do guys hold out?
Posted: 12/30/2006 3:38:33 PM | | Ive been dating a guy for 5 months now and we have been intimate twice. Do guys really hold out or is there a problem? | |
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| Do guys hold out?
Posted: 12/30/2006 3:57:57 PM | More info needed.
You've been intimate twice within 5 months....
How much time passed in between the first and second time?
Have you made any advances towards him to initiate intimicy?
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| Do guys hold out?
Posted: 12/30/2006 4:01:45 PM | agree need more info. How far apart do you live. Time together ect ect ect | |
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| Do guys hold out?
Posted: 12/30/2006 4:29:16 PM | | More info would be helpful. It seems odd for a guy who is at your age to want that little sex. Maybe he is an octegenarian? | |
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| Do guys hold out?
Posted: 12/30/2006 4:37:16 PM | To answer your question; no. Only twice you say? Does he know that you have breasts?
If so, are you sure this is a guy? | |
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| Do guys hold out?
Posted: 12/30/2006 5:26:17 PM | You've been intimate twice *recently*? Or did you guys sleep together fairly quickly, and it's been twice over 2 months? I figure that once the intimacy barrier has been broken, it's open season. So if it's only been twice with a lot of time in between, I'd view that as a little weird. If it's been twice recently then I would say you're lucky that you found a guy who is not only interested in you for sex, and you've finally broken the barrier.
I dated a girl for a couple of months, and I didn't try to make any moves on her at all. She told me she wanted to take it slow, and I respected that. And I respected her, so I didn't try to get in her pants. Believe it or not, not every guy wants to just get down and dirty right away.... | |
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| Do guys hold out?
Posted: 12/30/2006 7:25:44 PM |
Do guys really hold out or is there a problem?
Guys don't generally hold out for sex. There is a problem somewhere, but there is no way for anyone besides the two of you to know what that problem is. | |
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| Do guys hold out?
Posted: 12/30/2006 7:37:42 PM | | 5 months?.....uh, theres a problem. Dunno what it would be, but theres a definite glitch in the matrix. Bein a dude an all I may hold out, but not for 5 months I can promise ya that. | |
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| Do guys hold out?
Posted: 12/30/2006 7:46:02 PM | He could be waiting for you to make the move.
I can only speak for myself, but I always felt kind of weird initiating sex, because I suppose I was a bit insecure, like.. I'm "forcing" her to have sex with me. | |
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| Do guys hold out?
Posted: 12/30/2006 9:28:25 PM | | Sometimes guys will hold out,but it's more common when they've been in a relationship longer and are angry about something. Maybe he just wants things to work out and doesn't want to push. Do you make the 1st move,or do you wait for him? | |
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| Do guys hold out?
Posted: 12/30/2006 11:42:47 PM | Back when I used to believe that women rarely wanted sex, I trought it was rude to make the first move, because they wouldn't like it.
Boy was I wrong! | |
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| Do guys hold out?
Posted: 12/30/2006 11:59:03 PM | Twice in five months?
Jesus, sorry, thats lame.
With me, twice in thirty minutes, never mind months, or even days.  | |
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| Do guys hold out?
Posted: 12/31/2006 1:10:29 AM | Did you straight up ask for it?
and if so what did he say.
I find honesty is the best policy, and trying to get into his head by any other means just leads to mis-information and generalizations. Like any guy not going for it is not interested
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| Do guys hold out?
Posted: 12/31/2006 4:48:33 AM | I've held out..yes it happens and the rewards are well worth it.
The girl I was dating was an attractive one, and we slept together a few times at first. Then one day I just wasn't in the mood, so I said no to her initiative. She was fine with it at first, but I noticed a little change in her after that....so I did it some more until she was practically begging for it....Let me tell you I got it WHENEVER I wanted it and however I wanted it for the remaining 2 years of our relationship.
Moral of the story: Try begging...lol.
He could be stealing my tactics, and if he is, I want his name! More likely that he's just shy and you don't initiate though. Am I right? | |
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| Do guys hold out?
Posted: 12/31/2006 5:23:00 AM | | Depends.With me i will 'hold out' if she really touches my heart and soul.if she's 'just' cool and pretty, i wanna get to it as soon as possible! | |
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| Do guys hold out?
Posted: 12/31/2006 5:30:53 AM | im sry but i think this is comical and have to comment. i didnt think men could hold out. hahahahahaha | |
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| Do guys hold out?
Posted: 12/31/2006 2:34:44 PM |
Ive been dating a guy for 5 months now and we have been intimate twice. Do guys really hold out or is there a problem?
I would hold out for sure unless I was totally comfortable with the situation. Not all guys are .. well .. how to put this politely?
Don't get me wrong .. I _love_ and crave sex .. it just takes a certain animal attraction. I suppose it is a matter of standards? | |
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| Do guys hold out?
Posted: 12/31/2006 2:43:50 PM | | He's gay or he has some kind of sexual intimacy problem...either way.... | |
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Posted: 12/31/2006 4:02:33 PM |
Posted By: cheryl5521 on 12/30/2006 11  33 PM Subject: Do guys hold out? Message: Ive been dating a guy for 5 months now and we have been intimate twice. Do guys really hold out or is there a problem?
I've been holding out since August, when I split up with my ex. I've had lots of offers, but I can't be intimate with someone that I have no emotional connection to. Besides, I've got better things to do with my time, than waste it on meaningless sex. I'm a busy guy, and my spare time is precious to me. | |
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| Do guys hold out?
Posted: 12/31/2006 4:08:34 PM | | I dont need any more info. Most guys do not have the ability to hold out. Mentally anyway. Throw the guy a few Viagras next time he comes over. | |
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| Do guys hold out?
Posted: 12/31/2006 5:24:47 PM | | you're right....guys don't hold out ...unless she has bad breath, a glass eye, bald and a mustache. | |
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Posted: 1/1/2007 8:30:42 PM | | Sure guys hold out, heck I am right now. Thats not the proper question. The proper question is why is he doing so. Every body has this idea that guys have only one thing on there mind, and coming from a guy whose big head has gotten him in way more trouble than the Above average one, that is a load. Maybe he's just not revved up properly or maybe he just wants to cuddle not all guys look for imediate gratification, or maybe he likes dudes. | |
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| Do guys hold out?
Posted: 1/1/2007 8:36:18 PM | Normally no.
I would talk to him about it. | |
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| Do guys hold out?
Posted: 1/1/2007 10:14:58 PM | You guys are hilarous...
Stop giving women misinformation.
Guys DO hold out on occasion. | |
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