| How to know if its time to let ur mariage go
Posted: 12/31/2006 5:51:19 PM | Ok lets try this again
I am a married women of 13 years and I have met a guy who simply makes me crazy he understands me he compliments me he loves being with me he alway have fun together.
Now Im ready to move mountain for this guy but on the other hand i dont want to hurt my husband, but when Im with this guy I feel like me the person I want to be and Im so happy it's like Im in my own bubble and I just want to stay there. what shoud I do Im so confused but I so want to be with this guy, Im scared to do the wrong choice. | |
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| How to know if its time to let ur mariage go
Posted: 12/31/2006 5:58:48 PM | Well for starters why are you meeting up with other guys if youre married?
and seconds... let your husband go before he finds out and is hurt worse.
I hate to sound like a b!tch because I dont know you... but your husband deserves better then to be led on like everythings great while youre out galavanting with some other guy. Theres no reason that you should have an attatchment beyond friendship with another man if youre married....
YOU ARE MARRIED!!!!!!!
What if it was your husband who met another woman? You'd be here faster then lightening to talk about how he was cheating on you (emotionally, physically, whatever) and what a **stard he was.
Step up to the plate and decide if this guy you just met is worth 13 years ... although Id say you've already put a big kink in the marriage | |
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| How to know if its time to let ur mariage go
Posted: 12/31/2006 6:06:37 PM | Sounds to me like your marriage is a done deal.
I'm a firm believer in finishing one thing before you start another.
You don't want to hurt your husband? Sorry - I think you already are - just by betraying his trust.
Don't mind me- I shouldn't post on such an emotional day.
But, it does sound like you've already made up your mind - both in your post and on your profile. | |
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| How to know if its time to let ur mariage go
Posted: 12/31/2006 6:45:53 PM | | You already made the wrong choice hun...you looked for an extra marital affair....I read your profile, you were looking to cheat. Marriage takes two. As it was said before, had the shoe been on the other foot, you would have been outraged. Give me a break. Your poor kids..did you think of them in your selfishness? No...you're in your own little bubble. Shame on you! What do you want with a man that's willing to be with a married woman? Good luck with that sister. From my soapbox, it looks like you don't deserve your husband, your kids OR the other man. That may very well become the case if your husband finds out. | |
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| How to know if its time to let ur mariage go
Posted: 12/31/2006 7:00:57 PM | Your married and on a dating site seeking personal quests and satisfaction... You don't care what we think... you're simply looking for support from single people.... you shouldn't get that support. You're a sneak, a cheat and a manipulator (of your husband - at the least).
If you don't think your lover will hold that against you, eventually, you're wrong.
I hate to burst your bubble... but your lover has a great arrangement... leaving your husband (which you should have already done) will screw up his lifestyle... he's cheating with a married woman... let me guess... he tells you how good he is for you...right?
If you think being in love with a homewrecker is what's good for you... he's right.
Nice to see you posted the same thread in "relationships" forum (with more details)... the fact that you are broadcasting on the 'net says enough about your ability to make wise decisions. | |
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| How to know if its time to let ur mariage go
Posted: 12/31/2006 7:03:58 PM | For your kids and Husbands sake kick your own A## to the curb.
Your setting a really useful example for your kids cheating on the family the way you are.
NOT!!!!!!!!!!
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| How to know if its time to let ur mariage go
Posted: 12/31/2006 9:00:44 PM | | Please put up your photo NAT. I want to see which woman I want to avoid (just in case I happen to unfortunately meet you). Also, it would be funny if someone recognized you and ran to tell your husband. | |
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| How to know if its time to let ur mariage go
Posted: 12/31/2006 9:45:49 PM | | Oh my god, I'm in the exact same situation as you, but I'm on the other end of it. I have this married friend who is absolutely nuts, crazy about me, but she it torn and isn't yet to the point of leaving her husband because of the kids. Are you not happy in your marriage? How long have you known this other guy? My friend has been trying to work things out with her husband, but when does it get to a point where things just can not be worked out? I hope at least you are giving your marriage a fair chance before you decide to move on. | |
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| How to know if its time to let ur mariage go
Posted: 12/31/2006 9:52:09 PM | Do you seriously think you're going to be giving advice or even some sympathy from anyone here? You need to get your azz offline and do your husband a favor and ask for a divorce. It is those such as yourself that is the reason it's so hard to find good ones. I could give you plenty of compliments as this guy does...but trust me dear..those compliments won't make you fall in love with me. 
Cheaters are dispicable people and as far as I'm concerned cheaters are nothing more than a waste of skin and good air.
With any luck...when you do divorce your husband...this guy will see you as nothing more than a cheater and dump your azz too.
Sorry to sound harsh but you know what??? I'd say the same thing if you were a man. Just because you're a woman I'm not going to bite my tongue | |
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| How to know if its time to let ur mariage go
Posted: 12/31/2006 9:53:03 PM |
About Me
Hey What can I say I need the attention,the butterfly, and especialy get spoiled, so If u think u have the energy for all that u know what to do hun.
This is directly from your profile! You were looking before you were done with your husband, and for that, you have landed yourself in hot water. So-o-o, you are already scalded, get the heck out before you wind up being burned in a divorce settlement that will put you on the street penniless.
I was in a similar situation, even though I didn't go looking for it, it found me! I managed to get the message to my wife pretty quickly that we were over, but still got burned in the process. GET OUT! | |
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| How to know if its time to let ur mariage go
Posted: 1/1/2007 2:42:52 PM | sounds to me like your marriage is already gone....it was gone the minute you started even thinking of putting a profile on here, and even more so when you actually acted on meeting someone...........
I cant believe people who throw away 13 years of marriage because they want attention, that new butterfly feeling...blah blah blah.............
You should be working on your marriage before coming to a site like this and if you dont want to work on it...then finish one thing before you start another....but you obviously dont have the patience to do that, nor the morals..............
my guess is once you "dump" your husband, your going to be the next one "dumped"
good luck and what a great way to start a new year............
shakes head and leaves the thread....... | |
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| How to know if its time to let ur mariage go
Posted: 1/1/2007 3:23:47 PM | The funnies part is .. when the custody battle starts this woman of high morels and character is going to get the kids and her husband will have to pay for it. I wonder if she will also try to get him for spousal.
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| How to know if its time to let ur mariage go
Posted: 1/1/2007 3:27:46 PM | | Once you turned to another besides your SO you know it's over for good - just break it now before there is real damage to your husband - let him go, you will be doing him a favour!! | |
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| How to know if its time to let ur mariage go
Posted: 1/1/2007 3:28:26 PM | | how do you feel about your husband?are the same feelings there that you have for this other guy?if they are not there then i would try to mend what is broken in your marriage first before you start pursuing other relationships. | |
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| How to know if its time to let ur mariage go
Posted: 1/1/2007 3:45:28 PM | Married 13 years and you don't feel that your HUSBAND even deserved to know that you weren't happy, or that there were problems in your marriage that he and you could have worked out???
Well at least you found a fitting screen name for yourself NASTY!!!
Did you make your husband stay home alone for the New Year while you were out trampin around with your new guy? Or did you spend it with him while faking what a great year you were looking forward to with him?
You get no sympathy from me. | |
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| How to know if its time to let ur mariage go
Posted: 1/1/2007 3:53:39 PM |
I am a married women of 13 years and I have met a guy who simply makes me crazy he understands me he compliments me he loves being with me he alway have fun together.
Now Im ready to move mountain for this guy but on the other hand i dont want to hurt my husband, but when Im with this guy I feel like me the person I want to be and Im so happy it's like Im in my own bubble and I just want to stay there. what shoud I do Im so confused but I so want to be with this guy, Im scared to do the wrong choice.
You're a cheat and a liar. There's nothing in this world worse than you. You've already made your choice. I could care less what you feel. | |
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| How to know if its time to let ur mariage go
Posted: 1/1/2007 4:00:58 PM | | How to know if it's time to let go of your marriage....before you fool around with someone else....too many people get hurt in the process......always end a relationship before starting a new one....if you feel you can't mend your marriage then you leave...not have a fling... | |
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| How to know if its time to let ur mariage go
Posted: 1/1/2007 4:10:25 PM | | First of all, Magician, "It found me". How does an affair "find" you? There's never an excuse for an affair. Everyone deserves respect, honesty. To the op, I think you are on a life long quest for constant butterflies, constant attention. You're going to live a very sad life. Let your husband go, no need to drag him down. I honestly cannot believe you even posted this, a cheater asking for advice? Sympathy? | |
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| How to know if its time to let ur mariage go
Posted: 1/1/2007 4:12:38 PM | | I see she has deleted her profile! lol. Guess couldn't handle the heat in the kitchen. What should one expect when they ask a question like that? I do feel badly for her hubby. Poor bugger probably has no idea what is going on. I just hate the way some folks have total disregard for someone they have shared their life with. I think they are owed some respect at the very least! It took me quite some time to decide to end my marriage. I didn't take things lightly. Too bad others can't be the same way! | |
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| How to know if its time to let ur mariage go
Posted: 1/1/2007 5:37:29 PM | | I can't even believe it!!! Why would she post this???? Whatever happened to loyalty, honesty and monogamy??? Stupid stupid woman......what goes around comes around..and it will bite both them in the ass..when they sit alone. | |
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| How to know if its time to let ur mariage go
Posted: 1/1/2007 5:52:36 PM |
Oh my god, I'm in the exact same situation as you, but I'm on the other end of it. I have this married friend who is absolutely nuts, crazy about me, but she it torn and isn't yet to the point of leaving her husband because of the kids
^^^^ You're a real gem... advertising you are a homewrecker on a dating site sure isn't smart.
It's people like you and the OP who support my theory that love triangles are the work of some really stupid people. | |
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| How to know if its time to let ur mariage go
Posted: 1/1/2007 5:53:20 PM | | Geez I have read some stupid threads but this one sure does take the cake. I never stepped out on my hubby. That is not something to be done. Leave first, date later! Absolutely unbelievably stupid woman! | |
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