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 belly18dancer

Joined: 7/22/2006
Msg: 2
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Posted: 1/3/2007 8:23:44 AM
1. a hot body

2. a beautiful face

3. wants sex all the time
 princess leigh

Joined: 4/20/2006
Msg: 3
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Posted: 1/3/2007 9:06:34 AM
belly18dancer..... you forgot a cook and a cleaner also
 dawn3232

Joined: 5/13/2006
Msg: 4
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Posted: 1/3/2007 9:35:23 AM
Hummmmmmmmmmm....................
Is a great kisser
Cooks, cleans, does laundry and windows
Is great in bed
Is great in the kitchen
Is great in the shower
Is great in the shower... oooops said that one already

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 Walled Garden

Joined: 11/16/2006
Msg: 5
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Posted: 1/3/2007 9:44:48 AM
to answer this question is all depends on the man. some want a pregnate barefoot housewife and others want a sugar mama. and yet there is a whole other class of men that want a secure strong loving partner to balance them out. being great at oral also helps most men love that.
 DentedKnight

Joined: 7/7/2005
Msg: 6
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Posted: 1/3/2007 9:46:14 AM
^^^ Ummm...dawn honey, I think the OP was asking what a man wants, not the beginning of a list of what you got....

K. I'll go back over to my corner now....LoL
 dawn3232

Joined: 5/13/2006
Msg: 7
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Posted: 1/3/2007 9:48:57 AM
@DentedKnight

Thought that was what a man wanted.... my bad. Spank me!
 Comfortably Numb..

Joined: 12/12/2006
Msg: 8
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Posted: 1/3/2007 9:55:16 AM
Four responses and all the cliches are covered... this should be entertaining...
 Mysteriously Shy

Joined: 11/28/2006
Msg: 9
Do you REALLY know what a man wants?
Posted: 1/3/2007 10:03:52 AM
Tough Question ........................................................


Here is my opinion as far as what I think men want:

#1. Physical Attraction ( A must)
#2. Positive Person ( no drama..and men hate women who complain alot)
#3. Him to be smarter than her
#4. He wants to be needed
#5. Doesn't want a woman who has EVERYTHING...
#6. A very physical woman ( in bed)
 Sweet_Blue_Eyes

Joined: 12/30/2006
Msg: 10
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Posted: 1/3/2007 10:11:44 AM
I believe that a man not only wants to be with someone that they can talk to about anything but that person also has to balance what they don't have in their lives. See a man likes to feel like he's the glue that is keeping everything together when it comes to a commited relationship or even marriage. He would want to be with a woman who worked but didn't make more money than him, a woman that has goals in life but would be willing to altar them so that the two of them could build their life together and compromise on various things. Some men do like women that are head strong and that have alot going for them as long as they do not come off as too independant where the man doesn't see the need for himself to be in the relationship. Not everything revovles around sex for men that have matured. Sorry to say but some men never will get out of the Bachelor phase and will live the rest of their lives dating various women. Also not every man is the same, so women can't be stereo typing or judging them based on sarcasm or their own experiences with men in the past. This is only a little of what I think. I could type more but then it would become a novel and I wouldn't be making money off it .
 kmhstx

Joined: 8/23/2005
Msg: 11
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Posted: 1/3/2007 10:56:40 AM
What do I think men want?

1. Hot body. And someone who LOVES SEX, dirty sex, and making love.
2. Pretty face.
3. Intelligence, but not a show off about it..ie they can't be smarter than you.
4. Caring, Compassion....a potential good mother for their offspring.
5. Easy going.....ie money is of no importance, and someone who doesn't nag.
6. Someone who likes to clean and cook.
But seriously if they have #1....do they really give a crap beyond that.
jk.
 marryJane

Joined: 12/10/2006
Msg: 12
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Posted: 1/3/2007 11:10:22 AM
I think men want someone who is genuine and is willing to make them the most important person in their lives. A girl that is infatuated by the thought of spending time with them.

After all I think that is what we all long for. To be the most important person to someone that isnt obligated to be around us.

peace
 Suelynnslovecafe

Joined: 11/13/2006
Msg: 13
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Posted: 1/3/2007 11:14:09 AM

Now, I won't tell you what most men want, and will ask those men reading this to refrain from telling it at first, too...


Will there be any reward if we girls give the "right" answers?


The question is: What do you think MEN want when looking for a woman?


To be able to provide what he can make a woman happy... The desire to be desirable and appreciated is the most vulnerable spot in each person's heart..
 Nightf10182003

Joined: 11/14/2006
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Posted: 1/3/2007 11:18:32 AM
For all the ladies that answered...you are all wrong. Once again..for the umpteenth time..ALL men are not the same and cannot be generalized. A man wants a woman that he is comfortable with..plain and simple...regardless of who she is..how smart, how rich, how hot,...as long as the man is comfortable and can be himself..that is the woman for him.
 Walled Garden

Joined: 11/16/2006
Msg: 15
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Posted: 1/3/2007 11:29:48 AM
nightf10182003 did u read my former response i stated plain and simple that that question was too vague it depends on the guy. don't judge all females as wrong so so cynical especially when there was an open viewpoint.
 Adam Taylor

Joined: 5/11/2006
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Posted: 1/3/2007 11:36:27 AM
Things I want...

Intelligence
Sure, the airhead can be fun to date... but if you're looking for a real relationship, they have to have the lights on upstairs.

Heart
She needs to be caring, understanding, compassionate. Someone I can turn to when hurting, and who won't be afraid to turn to me.

Fun
She has to share interests, not all, but at least some. Has to be willing to put up with my gaming, or better yet, join me in it. :)
Someone I can have a fun time with at home or out and about.

Communication
She has to be willing to talk. To share thoughts and ideas. To discuss problems, not hide them.

Cuddling
If she won't cuddle... tsk... then that's a problem. I love to just snuggle up on the couch together. :)

Respect
We have to be able to respect each other. She should respect my wishes, as I would hers. We'd understand each other's need for privacy at times, not always question what each other is doing. I don't want someone who'll give me 20 questions because I spent time with friends.
 ULO

Joined: 6/24/2006
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Posted: 1/3/2007 11:40:12 AM
"to answer this question is all depends on the man." You win, too bad I am the prize
 Nightf10182003

Joined: 11/14/2006
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Posted: 1/3/2007 11:50:23 AM
Walled Garden: You are absolutely correct and I was too vague in my response. I was actually meaning the ladies that LISTED things. Your answer was right on. Again..my apologies and stop yelling at me!
 athletic2222

Joined: 10/13/2006
Msg: 19
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Posted: 1/3/2007 11:53:25 AM
I agree with the OP's statement. Everytime I read those profiles I think "You are describing what you are looking for and you are not telling men what it is about you that they might be interested in."

Something I'd like to read in a profile is "I eat right and exersize regularly because I'd be embarrassed to gain 20lb's." I can tell you every man would be impressed with this statement.






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 Walled Garden

Joined: 11/16/2006
Msg: 20
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Posted: 1/3/2007 11:54:51 AM
sorry wasn't yelling the caps wasn't there i just wanted to make my point more direct since most people seem to have missed it. and i agree with the origional point most women do prejudge what a man wants.
 Suelynnslovecafe

Joined: 11/13/2006
Msg: 21
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Posted: 1/3/2007 12:14:29 PM
Night, my response is right above yours.. I don't believe that you've read mine either.. Unfortunately, a few people who make the lists are believed to represent ALL women..
 kmhstx

Joined: 8/23/2005
Msg: 22
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Posted: 1/3/2007 4:44:45 PM
Seriously of course it depends on the guy.... Just like all women don't want the same thing....it depends on the girl. But my god have a sense of humour guys.

Lol I just hope that one man out there wants me.....bottom line....atleast one that I want back. If that works out then all the other men can have who ever they want.
 belly18dancer

Joined: 7/22/2006
Msg: 23
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Posted: 1/3/2007 4:52:32 PM
yeah we gave you answers that were sarcastic...get over it...we were being funny...thats called having a sense of humor....i guess that's not on the list...or maybe we can have a sense of humor but not at the expense of the guy

seriously if we knew what men want, would any of us be single....I think I have it all...but men seem to be very intimidated by me...or they are complete pushovers and won't think for themselves...or they freak out because i'm like the most amazing woman and they're not really ready for a relationship....

tell me what it is 40 yr old men want, because they don't seem to be attracted to me at all...not in the least...70 percent of the men after me are under 25, the other 30 are over 50...what am i doing wrong...
 ULO

Joined: 6/24/2006
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Posted: 1/3/2007 5:07:34 PM
"what am i doing wrong... "

Don't know about the over 50 people, but cutting down the sexual appeal of the pictures in the profile might help with the under 25? I'm not 40 (or under 25 either for that matter) so I'm not gonna try helping with how to get them. However I think you are wrong about them not finding you attractive AT ALL. Most of them probably find you very physically beautifull.
 kmhstx

Joined: 8/23/2005
Msg: 26
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Posted: 1/3/2007 5:10:20 PM
seems the others disagree with you OP....so what do you think they are then....lol common tell me I was just alittle bit right wasn't I?
 ^^Batgirl^^

Joined: 10/11/2006
Msg: 27
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Posted: 1/3/2007 5:11:48 PM
I think a man wants me.

Not all men, just a man.

Now, where is he?



^^BG^^
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