| Ever date some one you work with Posted: 1/3/2007 9:40:56 AM | Well im not the person that would date some one that i would work with. There are little things that she remembered when she was only told one time. She seems to have a great listening ear. She started working the same time I started, both working 8 months at the same job. I work a 12 noon to 8 pm shift and she works a 4pm to midnight shift. I have always had a rule that i would never date some one i work with.
What do you think of working with some one in the same company?
I wonder what are the Positives and Negatives of this.
Has anyone had success in situation like this?
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| Ever date some one you work with Posted: 1/7/2007 12:55:42 PM | I have never done it but I have been in 2 different places where co-workers were well known couples. To me they seemed happy and they always had someone to back them up and when you work alot and the other person is there too -- i would imagine it helps the seeing each other issue. Also you always have someone to make fun of other co-workers with. Or so I would imagine all the advantages. The disadvantages I would imagine would occur if you broke up and if one person was fired or something. Why not discuss it with her and get her opinion. | |
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| Ever date some one you work with Posted: 2/18/2007 4:20:52 PM | | Yes when I was working in a department store I met a guy there and we became boyfriend and girlfriend and are still friends even to this day :) | |
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| Ever date some one you work with Posted: 8/31/2007 6:23:51 PM | There was this one time (once upon a time) she was an English alien and we worked together at Caldors (does anybody remember Caldor's?) and we went to dinner...she wanted me bad, and me (silly idiot) refused except for dinner and chat because was already with G/F... (stupid me!!!) | |
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| Ever date some one you work with Posted: 9/20/2007 11:02:09 PM | sure, when i was way younger. i would show up for work on my bike. female co-workers would ask me when i was going to take them for rides. which usually turned into dates, movies, parties and stealing kisses in the lunchroom (when no one was looking). never had any problems cuz i wouldn't flirt the uptite women with axes to grind...
-i miss being young and dumb and full of... | |
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| Ever date some one you work with Posted: 9/23/2007 6:00:21 PM | | Oh Yeah! Big mistake. Did it twice. Should have learned the first time. Tough to see and run into to other person all the time when you are still in love with them! | |
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| Ever date some one you work with Posted: 9/23/2007 8:09:39 PM | | YES i did it my ex and i worked together so i transfered to another store cause she was my boss worked out for me well cause once we broke up things got ugly including she stole from work and got caught so i think it is a bad idea but i have seen it work for others so really depends on the person | |
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| Ever date some one you work with Posted: 10/17/2007 10:12:46 AM | | I never understood why wold someone want to date someone at their place of work, cause if the relationship get serious and then dosent ork out now you will be unconfortale at work. so to play it sae i would never date anyone that i work wit. | |
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| Ever date some one you work with Posted: 10/23/2007 8:51:41 AM | Bad news !!!... two young guys at work were lovers, they shared an apartment and behaved themselves at work...until a new employee was hired...a young athletic young guy, blond curley hair...I think the personel manager that hired him was going to have his day watching the sparks ....... Yep !!,,,the two gay kids split-up and one was hitting on the new blond kid...as it turned out, the new blond guy was straight ,..but made it a point of being very nice to the broken hearted partner left holding the apartment lease...... Guess what happened next...mr. muscles moves in to share the apartment with brokn heart !!!!........ the other gay kid madder than hell,...quits his job !!!. and moves on .... heart breaking !!!.......  | |
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| Ever date some one you work with Posted: 3/20/2008 2:32:28 PM | | I have and we almost dated a year and then we broke-up. Things have been horrible. We have to work in the same place and now that he just got a girlfriend it makes it worse. You really want to make sure that you can accept all the possible outcomes. I'm in such a painful situaltion and it is really hard to get along with him. I hope I have helped you a little bit. Bye. | |
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