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 ottawadude22

Joined: 4/5/2005
Msg: 1
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Posted: 4/6/2005 6:14:32 PM
I was just wondering if girls think its a big deal if a guy can't last long in bed..if it is something that would end a relationship or be a factor in avoiding dating a guy. And im not talking about a guy being selfish, i mean if a guy can't help it, should it be something to be ashamed of?...how many women here would date a minute man?
 Irish gypsy

Joined: 10/1/2004
Msg: 2
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Posted: 4/6/2005 6:18:20 PM
well to any women who has a problem with it, I PROMISE I will be the best 30 seconds EVER

*giggle*
 SweetShaker

Joined: 7/2/2004
Msg: 3
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Posted: 4/6/2005 6:18:50 PM
There are ways of learning control if it's something that bothers you.
google it.

BUt for me, it's not an issue, as long as he's willing to take the time to make sure I'm happy in other ways. Often... that takes just long enough for him to be ready again ... and the wonderful cycle starts all over again
 usanzac

Joined: 3/19/2005
Msg: 4
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Posted: 4/6/2005 6:36:02 PM
Somewhat depends on the refractory period. I mean, if you can bounce back in five minutes and last a full two minutes, that's better, right?
 solstice74

Joined: 4/5/2005
Msg: 5
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Posted: 4/6/2005 6:56:36 PM
I would say it depends on how long the foreplay lasts too

it aint all about wham, bam and thanyou ma'am
 stubobb

Joined: 1/24/2005
Msg: 6
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Posted: 4/6/2005 7:08:08 PM
Just because you blow yer load right away doesn't mean you have to stop. Just keep up the intensity and you should stay up just fine, especially if you're a young buck.
After you pop you should be able to go for a good long while and work her up to her, ahem...peak, without stressing about holding back. Then before you know, guess what? Yup, you'll be ready again, just won't be able to shoot the walls, LOL!

What ever you do, don't stop! We guys can stop, have a beer and continue where we left off, but not the girls. Once you stop, she's back to ground level and you have to work her up again. That'll piss her off something fierce!


Hell, there have been times where I'd say " Babe I'm so hot I'm gonna pop right away, but I won't miss a beat". Helps if it's not a surprise.
 astrosky

Joined: 2/6/2005
Msg: 7
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Posted: 4/6/2005 7:11:24 PM
Wow, my last husband was a minute man. He was aware that is was uncool and made sure I was so satisfied prior to him getting "his" that it would not matter. However, I got sad eventually that I never got more than two pumps and a squirt and tried to get him to work on it. He declined to make an effort to change. Now I'm gone and he's lonely, go figure.
 stubobb

Joined: 1/24/2005
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Posted: 4/6/2005 7:13:52 PM
What did he do, pop and roll over? That's just messed up.
 illnevertell

Joined: 11/17/2004
Msg: 9
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Posted: 4/6/2005 7:13:57 PM
no 2 pump chumps
 hotbush

Joined: 12/28/2004
Msg: 10
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Posted: 4/6/2005 7:15:58 PM
so long as i get mine first...
i don't care how quick you get yours
 neilinpontefract

Joined: 4/5/2005
Msg: 11
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Posted: 4/6/2005 7:24:54 PM

There are ways of learning control if it's something that bothers you.


i find about 5 pints of stella can be a huge help in this area, but only 5 mind. 6 or 7 pints is just asking for trouble! ;)

n x x x :P
 Sir James

Joined: 9/7/2004
Msg: 12
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Posted: 4/6/2005 7:51:07 PM
HOTBUSH!

so long as i get mine first...
i don't care how quick you get yours


Your terrible!
 ottawadude22

Joined: 4/5/2005
Msg: 13
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Posted: 4/6/2005 7:53:41 PM
some people were really nice about it, i dont know about two pump chumps...if its something you can't help it i guess you have no choice but to think of yourself as a chump thanks to that phrase..i guess everyones different, but i have never met a girl who is actively seeking guys who can't last long..there should be though lol
 secretsunfolded

Joined: 3/29/2005
Msg: 14
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Posted: 4/6/2005 8:00:01 PM
as long as hes not selfish and just gets off without pleasing me, thats fine. but girls need to be satisfied too.
 LiMoShark

Joined: 3/17/2005
Msg: 15
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Posted: 4/6/2005 8:04:22 PM
<--------Went to UMASS Amherst... OUr mascot is the minuteman!
 ottawadude22

Joined: 4/5/2005
Msg: 16
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Posted: 4/6/2005 8:36:02 PM
ya selfishness totally sucks
 live4today

Joined: 4/6/2005
Msg: 17
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Posted: 4/6/2005 8:53:09 PM
HEY.. I hear ya! I was dating a guy who would ejaculate while he was eating me... he would not make it to the intercourse. So.. we talked about it...and finally after about a month or so I learned how to slow him down.. not blow his load.. while still keeping him excited. .... Learning experience for both of us.

We have been dating for over a year now and he seems to be able to control his premature ejeculation. Good news for me cause I love the guy.
 bailey_rayne

Joined: 2/26/2005
Msg: 18
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Posted: 4/6/2005 8:56:36 PM
I had 15 years of it.......Yeah its a big deal.....I will not settle for anything less than 1 hour now...unless we both want a quickie....Like driving down the road.....and we are 10 minutes away from our destination.....That I will not refuse...........
 ottawadude22

Joined: 4/5/2005
Msg: 19
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Posted: 4/6/2005 8:59:53 PM
wow..there is no way i could go an hour..even if my life depended on it..
 timluv69

Joined: 1/9/2005
Msg: 20
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Posted: 4/6/2005 9:10:25 PM
I've always been an Hour plus man ....is that a medical problem? or am i just lucky
 live4today

Joined: 4/6/2005
Msg: 21
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Posted: 4/6/2005 9:44:19 PM
[I've always been an Hour plus man ....is that a medical problem? or am i just lucky ]

Not lucky sweetie.. just blessed!
 HAHANOW

Joined: 9/28/2004
Msg: 22
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Posted: 4/6/2005 9:56:44 PM
The only minute man I want is, 60 minute man!
 ottawadude22

Joined: 4/5/2005
Msg: 23
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Posted: 4/6/2005 11:40:01 PM
must be genetic or something...who wants a honorable, goodhearted 60 second guy?
 Monte_Man

Joined: 4/6/2005
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Posted: 4/7/2005 12:00:18 AM
I went almost an hour when I lost my virginity. I have gone alot longer..and ALOT quicker...lol. Depends on many diff things. No matter what though the girl is satisfied and happy at the end.
 WannaSeduceMe

Joined: 10/24/2004
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Posted: 4/7/2005 2:38:45 AM
"I never apologize for sex!!!!"

But i will offer a do over!
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